mhizesther:



I actually dont like gala

MissRaine69:

Do you know what the term frigid means? It's not always physical it could be psychological as well

Hhenryy:


op, nobody here is telling you the truth.

the truth is that you have been genitally mutilated(circumcised) while young, thus you can never enjoy sex.
the primary aim for Circumcision is to kill the female libido/urge for sex so that she won't be wayward/promiscuous. but unfortunately it also doesn't allow a woman to enjoy sex when she is ready.

did I even say wen she is ready? let me say when the husband is ready, because a genitally mutilated woman will have very little or no urge/appetite for sex.

i know you won't agree with this fact, you may not even know if you have been circumcised or not because it's normally done at a very tender age.

but you are not alone, it's a common practice in Africa, in Nigeria about 70% of the women (20 yrs & above) are circumcised.

little wonder why African men are mostly polygamous. since most of our women here don't enjoy sex, hence constantly denying their husband, then the husband will be under pressure to look elsewhere.

Maychang:


Oga Corrector...Its Deflower not disflower

Peachess:

I guess you don't know vaginismus make someone frigid. That's why I suggested that she needs to see a gynecologist, there no harm going there. If it's a psychological problem then she'd be referred to a psychologist.

Favoredchic:


Thanks but I wasn't circumcised. I like the idea of sex n feel the urge but I don't feel the action. Please don't get me wrong I enjoy the fore play but penetration itself hurts a bit and I don't get that special feeling. And at the end I'm like ''is that it''

Peachess:

I guess you don't know vaginismus make someone frigid. That's why I suggested that she needs to see a gynecologist, there no harm going there. If it's a psychological problem then she'd be referred to a psychologist.

Beverly1:
Ahahah.....you for tell am privately na.... C'mon be a good girl

Beverly1:
bros she no get any problem....what she's feeling is normal...talking from
Experience....for now d husby enjoys d penetration until ur body get use to his size then it won't be as tight as it is now and u will then wish it's a bigger bigger....trust me.... follow my previous advice....the only sad thing is we won't hear anything again once u become a pro....

Na people like u dey enjoy am pass when u finally get use to it....am telling ur husby will have to learn to give excuse when u on kill am....
Just don't rush get belle.....enjoy sex for a while..
. because once I give birth, it's no longer d same

mhizesther:
Do u get wet before penetration?...u Guys should do a lot of pre-intimacy...sex isn't just about penetration...I think after the first time, u should begin to enjoy sex...try out different stuffs with ur hubby....u guys could also try watching porn....Nd make sure u feel comfortable during sex...if he's not getting it right feel free to tell him, With time u'll get to. Know what turns u on....couples should enjoy sex....(not a doctor oo)

FTrebirth:
op, your problem is not medical but psychological.

i saw your old threads; the ones you created when you were still single. you spent all your youthful years as virgin mary. even the relationships you had were devoid of sex. i guess you were too churchy and as well too choosy. you shut men, suitors and erotic thoughts out of your life, that's why you were able to keep your legs close all through the 30+ years you've spent on earth till marriage.

and if you were circumcised while young as hhenryy opined, then it's double wahala: your sex bar will drop far lower than other uncircumcised girls, you will not be aroused like them and will probably not even enjoy having sex.

solution:
open up to your man. let him know he's not doing it well. every woman has a turn on point but if he's too naive to know what to do to spark up your feelings, i recommend you buy one of these sex guide video series and watch it together. www.nairaland.com/attachments/5744797_images77_jpeg0bbfc4bf4025f12e8aa3858b8a2ad88e

i know you're a Christian but don't be shy...God will understand. they're not raw porns but sex guides by professionals with short staged performances specifically for couples. i assure you, that pain you feel will transform into ecstasy.

Beverly1:
bros she no get any problem....what she's feeling is normal...talking from
Experience....for now d husby enjoys d penetration until ur body get use to his size then it won't be as tight as it is now and u will then wish it's a bigger bigger....trust me.... follow my previous advice....the only sad thing is we won't hear anything again once u become a pro....

Na people like u dey enjoy am pass when u finally get use to it....am telling ur husby will have to learn to give excuse when u on kill am....
Just don't rush get belle.....enjoy sex for a while..
. because once I give birth, it's no longer d same

MissRaine69:

You always start at the bottom never at the top. Female sexual health is what I do for a living. I also look at the audience I am talking to,access and finance. Rather than alarm someone as this could worsen things. Empathy does help.

Peachess:

[/i] [/b] Well that's your opinion, I see no harm in seeing a gynecologist. Every female should see one once in a while. [/b] [/i]

jaksmillioniar:
amarab.ae sina.j lave.da makydebb.ie tosy.ne2much jac.ksparr0w127 see wat dis guy blog again

Jacksparr0w1207:
Who is he?

Maychang:

Oga Corrector...Its Deflower not disflower

FTrebirth:
op, your problem is not medical but psychological.

i saw your old threads; the ones you created when you were still single. you spent all your youthful years as virgin mary. even the relationships you had were devoid of sex. i guess you were too churchy and as well too choosy. you shut men, suitors and erotic thoughts out of your life, that's why you were able to keep your legs close all through the 30+ years you've spent on earth till marriage.

and if you were circumcised while young as hhenryy opined, then it's double wahala: your sex bar will drop far lower than other uncircumcised girls, you will not be aroused like them and will probably not even enjoy having sex.

solution:
open up to your man. let him know he's not doing it well. every woman has a turn on point but if he's too naive to know what to do to spark up your feelings, i recommend you buy one of these sex guide video series and watch it together. www.nairaland.com/attachments/5744797_images77_jpeg0bbfc4bf4025f12e8aa3858b8a2ad88e

i know you're a Christian but don't be shy...God will understand. they're not raw porns but sex guides by professionals with short staged performances specifically for couples. i assure you, that pain you feel will transform into ecstasy.

Favoredchic:


Can we get the guide online??