crazysam001:
She must have the capacity to dominate me it's such a turn on

CaesarDon:


In bedmatics yeah

Otherwise, well she can just try, I'm dominating as well

crazysam001:


That's the whole idea, I'm quite domineering so when a woman tries to dominate, it fascinates me. We then begin to play a game of give and take everybody earns their respect in the relationship. Nothing is sexier than knowing u have an equally strong woman beside u

CaesarDon:
lalasticlala mynd44 let's get a wider coverage

luminouz , HARDDON , TheSonOfMark what's ur take on this

luminouz:


Waooooooo!!!
Nice list I must say but am ready to make concessions if she doesn't have all I need.... On one condition... She must know how to make pounded yam n egusi soup

CaesarDon:


Yeah, I can totally compromise, it's not like though Imma mould her,

If pounded yam and egusi gives her a free pass I've been literally charmed

IamLovely:


take time and mould your own woman biko..

CaesarDon:
We all have a mental picture of what our future partners should be like, or qualities they should posses, they might not turn out as visualized, but that still dosent stop is from desiring or having a mental list.

Beyond the cliche talk of being loving, caring, humble e.t.c they are some weird things best left unsaid that attracts us to the opposite sex, which we consciously or unconsciously take into cognizance.

I have being with a lady that says she loves a guy that beats her and takes charge. , some guys are attracted to nagging ladies, different personalities with crazy weird fetishes .

As regards relationships i really don't care care about what is on my list if it's just a fling, or if i have no plans to settle (my current gf dosent even tick half of my desired attributes), As weird as they might seem I wouldn't tell any gal except if she ticks dem by default like my no 1 below.
some vital desideratum on my list are stated below



1. She must be a first class graduate or second class upper from a reputable federal university.

2. She mustn't be so forgiving

3. She mustn't take sh*t from me (many gals fail this)

4. She must challenge me intellectually

5. She must be super smart with a high I.Q (I don't want dumb kids)

6. She should be gainfully employed (no, to parasitic relationships).

7. She must not take alcohol or have tattoos

8. I dislike ladies that wear many earrings, a nose ring or earrings at the top of the ear

9. I don't like ladies that are too friendly (I'm attracted to harsh ladies)

10. I'm attracted to older ladies (especially when I get to punish them in bedmatics)

11. She must be super calm, collected and talk less.

what are the weird attributes and fetishes that you crave in your potential life partner?

LET THE CONFESSIONS BEGIN!!!.

CaesarDon:
lalasticlala mynd44 let's get a wider coverage

HARDDON ,what's ur take on this

luminouz:


Waooooooo!!!
Nice list I must say but am ready to make concessions if she doesn't have all I need.... On one condition... She must know how to make pounded yam n egusi soup

HARDDON:


As much as this is your list n wish from ur own woman, might i technically point out critical flaws in some of dem? ? N i can assure u, u wud grow outa them:

1. Certificate dosen't equal Intelligence. N there is a huge difference btw Schooling( this is a conditioned learning under stipulated time frame garnished with Tests n Exams n certificates. Ppl that have this almost always work for d second set) and Education( this is a life long daily personal development tru books and various skill aquisition etc)
If you dont know, there r so many glorified illitrates walking our streets today with first class certificates.

So go for quality content of the cramium rather than the ink of a used quill on a royal piece of paper.


2. Aint nothing like d fury of a scorned woman! Guess u havent experienced this statement first hand. If u have, u wud pray to meet ond that forgives entirely n never refers back to d catalog of ur ills.
If u cheat on d one that isnt so forgiven, be rest assured she might cheat on u back or just slip some rat poison in ur f'ing meal!

3. Just like ur point 2, this is totally parochial as much as it sounds kul. The worst thing u can wish for as a man is a woman who stands toe to toe wit u n challenge every shitty thing u do! Cos try as u may, u wud do shitty!

4. This is good. Just pray she isnt more intellectually sound than u. She is always gono come out right when u have divergent opinions n u wud end up always doing her bidding or live perpetually with the " i told you so!"

7. Instead of saying no to the alcohol thingy, be technical about it. because whether u like it or not, most gurls consume more liquor in an hour dan fishes do water.
N u wud miss d mind blowing wild moments liquor induced luv making session brings!

9. There is a great difference btw been sociable n firm and been harsh n unfirm. Go figure

Bashnigga:

Wow!!! My favorite
U jst spoke me mind

HARDDON:


Just Two Things Yours Truly look out for:

1. A complete Lady out there n

2. A lil vexen unde the sheets!


Ehmm, she shld mos def be able to handle a Game Pad!

Very Simple man

geni340:
errm, he shuld be a gud dancer, so we can dance 2geda wen we feel like being nauti
...shuld prefer sleepn on my bumbum instead of pillows..

25thJOE:
girls that are carefree, very cunning , daredevil in nature, and a large appetite turn me on.