I just found the man I love is 2 years younger than me, he does not seems to know my age.I am from a comparatively conservative country. My question is, is that a taboo to date 2 years older woman in Nigeria or not. Because in some country, it could be a taboo. Don't tell me it depense, just tell me in general if it is a taboo. Would you date a woman who is 2 years older than you.

please please help me, I feel super insecure now, should I tell him the truth?

S6390380:
I just found the man I love is 2 years younger than me, he does not seems to know my age.I am from a comparatively conservative country. My question is, is that a taboo to date 2 years older woman in Nigeria or not. Because in some country, it could be a taboo. Don't tell me it depense, just tell me in general if it is a taboo. Would you date a woman who is 2 years older than you.

depends on his tribe and which part of the country he is from. but generally it's a personal choice or family stand on it and not a general problem.

Its alright go ahead

made ftc


anyways op it aiint no taboo here in naija....

You love the dork, he loves you too, right?


If yes then you both can do your thing..................just make sure he knows ur age sha

i'm pretty sure he wouldn't mind the age difference




modified: fvck you fineboynl and wahabian for taking ftc from me

Nope!! It's not a taboo.... it's a free world, if the dude is cool with it, then it's fine..... age is just number you know, it's the heart that matters.

No its not.

fineboynl:
depends on his tribe and which part of the country he is from. but generally it's a personal choice or family stand on it and not a general problem.

will you date a lady who is 2 years older than you? If someone date the woman who is 2 years older than you, would you under pressure? Like the people around would be gossip around about you and think your relationship is wired?

Why start a relationship with lies....?

Richdotcom:
Nope!! It's not a taboo.... it's a free world, if the dude is cool with it, then it's fine..... age is just number you know, it's the heart that matters.

thank you soo much

This is WhyWhyOgun.
Uncle lefulefu come and see

Op. You and these new accounts sef! lol

To be frank, you are not giving the opportunity to give you wider advice. Since you already don't want to read any explanation. It is not a taboo to marry older women in Nigeria.

However you may want to read this https://www.nairaland.com/3970600/final-year-dinner-award-nights

Ab025:
Why start a relationship with lies....?

I did not lie, when He chase me, I just feel the chemical and did not ask his age and told him my age. He looks very mature and therefore, I assumed he was older than me. Until now,I found he is 2 years old younger?

Richdotcom:
Nope!! It's not a taboo.... it's a free world, if the dude is cool with it, then it's fine..... age is just number you know, it's the heart that matters.

That's why I love me some 7 year olds

S6390380:

I did not lie, when He chase me, I just feel the chemical and did not ask his age and told him my age. He looks very mature and therefore, I assumed he was older than me. Until now,I found he is 2 years old younger?

How old are you?

S6390380:

will you date a lady who is 2 years older than you? If someone date the woman who is 2 years older than you, would you under pressure? Like the people around would be gossip around about you and think your relationship is wired?

here are the conditions

first she shouldn't make it public but between the both of us. secondly if i sees her as someone i can live with in peace and not a liability of asking me money every time like Nigeria woman and she must respect me like if i senior to her. and lastly i must be older in physic than her.

StephDamielola:
This is WhyWhyOgun.

Uncle lefulefu come and see

this might not be whywhyogun cos this one isnt talking about owning a big company in naija and sleeping with the blk staffs
she did a thread earlier today
https://www.nairaland.com/3970952/black-peniss-admirer-back-nijia

What matters the most is if you're accepted by your potential in laws and your fiance, the society doesn't matter at this context because the age difference isn't much, it could only show if you look old and fat, even at that they have no right on that, it happens more often than in times past, in this modern Nigeria, i personally know a hand full of such couples.

Ab025:


How old are you?

I was born in 1992 january 11th and he was born in 1993 december 3. So it is almost 2 years

just here 2 read comments anyways

mofeoluwadassah:
just here 2 read comments anyways

If you ever do that would people around you gossip about it ?

..... Wrong thread

S6390380:

If you ever do that would people around you gossip about it ?

i dunno o....jxt here 2 read comments

Proof it that ur from kazastan

Just lie anyhow

abeg try tell am...
biko check my signature. am in lagos

fineboynl:
depends on his tribe and which part of the country he is from. but generally it's a personal choice or family stand on it and not a general problem.

Depends on tribe?.

Are u sure u ar a Nigerian?.
Bcox from my childhood till now i havnt heard anywhere in nigeria tribe rhat is is abominable to date some1 younger than u are.

Hmmm therz nothing we no go see for NL

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it really depense

Go ahead. Two years age difference can be overlooked. All the best.

Age matters to some and not to many...just make sure u handle the relationship with maturity for now and becareful ...don't attach too much emotions for now....open ur eyes and brain.....good luck with ur relationship

S6390380:
I just found the man I love is 2 years younger than me, he does not seems to know my age.I am from a comparatively conservative country. My question is, is that a taboo to date 2 years older woman in Nigeria or not. Because in some country, it could be a taboo. Don't tell me it depense, just tell me in general if it is a taboo. Would you date a woman who is 2 years older than you.

I don't think it's a taboo in any part of Nigeria. Good luck!