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| He Wants Me Back by airbook: 8:41am On Feb 16, 2010 |
A guy i loved so much broke up with me about three months ago. I cried my heart out as i was really hurt. I still think about him very much and now he wants me back  I have not been taking been his calls as i have been too hurt to talk to him but he has been sending me text messages |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Digital(f): 8:47am On Feb 16, 2010 |
That is guy for you, show them all the love and they will leave you and latter come back begging |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by H2O2: 8:47am On Feb 16, 2010 |
What's changed since the breakup? The man has already hurt you once so who's to say he wouldn't do it again? Whatever caused your break up that first time has it already been resolved and again who's to say it won't break you up a second time around? Homegirl put aside the feelings and put on your goggles. never accept or encourage bad behavior because if you do you will only continue to get more of it. 1 Like |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by H2O2: 8:49am On Feb 16, 2010 |
Digital:Stop yarning poppycocks. There are members out there from both sexes who never appreciate what they have until they lose it. Some human beings are just impossible to satisfy. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by madlady(f): 9:00am On Feb 16, 2010 |
airbook: Move on, he will only do it again.  1 Like |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by romsky: 9:31am On Feb 16, 2010 |
airbook: sure u didnt pray he comes back to u? |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Kelvinj(m): 9:39am On Feb 16, 2010 |
@poster First question is; do u want him bak?? |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by airbook: 9:48am On Feb 16, 2010 |
He broke up with me twice within a space of three months. First breakup, i went to him crying and begging him that we should get back together. After much shakara from him, he agreed that we continued dating. However, when he broke up with me the second time, i begged him very briefly, he stuck his guns, so i stopped begging and ignored him and moved on with my life. Now, he has been sending me texts that he misses me, he loves me, he wants me back, he cant sleep and all sorts. 1 Like |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by googles: 10:04am On Feb 16, 2010 |
[size=13pt]he obviously knows you are head over heels about him and he is toying with your emotions knowing you ll always come back begging {jackass  } use him to do shakara to if you are ever going to take him back . . . truth is i can't tell you to walk away and move on cos i know its not easy to just forget some one you really love but if you can, i think twill be better dan going back and forth in a relationship [/size] |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by daduke2k(m): 10:07am On Feb 16, 2010 |
then go back to him , kajikwo |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Taken(m): 10:25am On Feb 16, 2010 |
@ Poster You have not told us what causes ya breakups - oya tell us what really happens as is? |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by coolier(f): 10:29am On Feb 16, 2010 |
Give him another chance, we all deserve it. It's only three months, some people have broken up for longer and still come back together. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Kelvinj(m): 10:38am On Feb 16, 2010 |
@airbook I smell bullsh*t, Can we see ur pix cos i tink ur mite be way 2 ugly 2 be begging him like this, No hard feelin's lol |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Madukaele(m): 10:55am On Feb 16, 2010 |
i broke up with my female friend for 3 years i beged 4 her to come bak, now shes back she broke my heart again, long story al am saying is guy and ladys are same lov then mor than the lov u ,u end up regreting it, let him miss u alot the he will cherish u ,trust me. airbook: |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by tai2(m): 11:00am On Feb 16, 2010 |
Broke up with you twice in three months. He's an immature sadist who can't control himself. Follow the wise words God gave Lot when he left that cursed city behind : “Don't look back" 1 Like |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 11:32am On Feb 16, 2010 |
@poster what is the exact reason for both break ups?! what has change since then for him to come back begging? |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by airbook: 11:42am On Feb 16, 2010 |
The arguments have been on silly things. First one was on argument on why he didnt want me to come over to his place a particular weekend. Second was because i caught him staring at a group of white girls in a mexican restaurant he took me to and i told him. And he got angry. He said he was not staring. He was only looking at the food on their table to see if he could order the same or something similiar for us. We had a great relationship. He loved me, cared so much about me and he was always there for me. I have also been a great babe. Faithful, loving, caring and well behaved. But with two consecutive breakups  am just confused. the past three months have been diffcult for me. I think about him all the time and i shed tears within |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
Just let him go.To me ,he is not matured. Pray for a better and more matured guy. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Andyjoy(f): 12:12pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
airbook: see loff oh   , so these were the reasons you guys broke up. I think you both are really in love but really immature. I suggest you take him back but you both hv to work on growing up and getting mature. Set standards and limits, talk about a lot of things and learn that every arguement must not lead to a break up. My two cents. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 12:13pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
@poster ok so you loved the guy so much yet couldnt come down to your senses during these so called "silly arguments"? obviously, although attracted to each other, you guys are not meant/compatible with each other. i suggest you keep on living your life and keep the past as the past. if nothing has changed from the past then it will be the same old silly arguments and breakups. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by r231(m): 12:17pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
give him another chance  |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by airbook: 3:22pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
i cannot get him off my mind. am just worried that wont he keep breaking up with me |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by DOAweb(m): 3:35pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
airbook: Well, if that's the case, keep going back to him until you are fed up of him breaking your heart OR he might just be sincere the next time around. True talk, this[b] LOVE business[/b] is just unexplainable madness that affects us all ! |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
Truth is he wants you back cos he's missin out on the free pu$%* u were givin him which he thought he could get from the mexican chicks bt after they told him the price of them goodies he realised he had somethin cheaper and sweeter hence he's back to his senses. Anyway,the choice is yours |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by galatico(m): 3:58pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
Digital: You dey vex oh!!! You just jump into conclusion that the guy is at fault!!! |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 4:01pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
Don't make the same mistake twice, move on with your life. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by sugarpp: 6:02pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
i think the best thing for you is to establish the "don't go bak to exes rule". The fact is the time for him to try and resolve watever issues you guys had in the relationship was when you were crying and begging him. Think about how far you have gone in healing emotionally and now he wants to throw you off balance? he might regret his actions quite alright and trully love you but it is too late (atleast for now). Date other guys and if you feel he has more to offer you then you might start to listen to his pleas |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by airbook: 9:26am On Feb 17, 2010 |
| i just can't stop thinking about him. both of us had invested so much time, resources, emotions, money, and so much into this relationship. i just keep wondering how things went wrong. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by H2O2: 9:33am On Feb 17, 2010 |
in 2 months lol? |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by funkybaby(f): 9:53am On Feb 17, 2010 |
[quote author link=topic=398937.msg5528887#msg5528887 date=1266395622] in 2 months lol? [quote][/quote] |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by H2O2: 9:56am On Feb 17, 2010 |
[quote author link=topic=398937.msg5528887#msg5528887 date=1266395622] in 2 months lol? [quote][/quote] why you posting under two names. and as i've mentioned before, it's not enough that he wants you back. nothing and no one is stopping you from getting back together. the problem therein is that you have not fixed or solved whatever caused you to break up to begin with. |
| Re: He Wants Me Back by funkybaby(f): 9:59am On Feb 17, 2010 |
move on. had similiar experience with a guy i dated for about 1year 7months or so. Small issue. . . . and next thing 'its over'. i always went back apologising and tried getting us to reconcile. But when he did a particular 'it is over' stunt, that was the end. He tried coming back and he met a solid brick wall. i am not some piece of rare antique that some man can pickup or leave as he wishes |
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