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dear sisters i seek your advice,
and hope to be happy,
but i love the evans (his name) who cared for me!!
wont he be back??
maybe i'm the one who changed him!!
maybe i changed!!
i mean i think i'm still d same person but i'm not too sure anymore!!
i cry and ask him to stop huting me he apologise today and do the same tomorrow!!
he cares abt me i know as much but he doesn't burn for me anymore!!
he's never showed any signs of violence,
apart from once when he was drunk and shattered my dress, nothing like hitting me or anything just dragging me away from whom he thought
was my lover, and repeatedly asked me if the man was more important than him, so maybe he's just scared and he uses what he has to protect himself.

how do u prepare this??
i'm speakingi from a very professional point of view!!
i'm currently an italian cook

eatme:
And you hope to marry this man? Oga ooooo

what can i do?? he's already gone to all the members of my family to present himself,
how can i let go now, hw can i face my family members??

i tried doing the same thing to him but we got into a fight, and repeatedly hurted ourselves,
now i'm the type of person that doesn't have the right words at the right moment,
i never know what to say to convey my feelings seriously so i just say the most hurtful words in my vocabulary
i questioned him once, i asked him if he likes her (my sister i mean) but he said he actually despise her not that much nut doesn't like her
and moreover i thnk he seeks of her approval, just like the same thing he does with my mum,
i mean for him they are the ideal of a lady but not me,
he doesn't even like my cooking, everyone likes my cooking but him,
and recently i'm feeling this pressure and i'm having less confidence in my skills and i0m becoming less good, i no more like what i prepare,
i dunno what to give him to eat, doesn't eat bread-- doesn't like eggs or pancakes, ok doesn't eat sugar.
preferes  my sisters beans, my mums soups, then what do i have left??
maybe i really should give up!!

are u saying i should perhaps change as well??
i mean showing him the dark side of me??
or maybe go seperate ways??
coz i dunno if i love him anymore,
i mean b4 getting a kiss he waited 5 whole months,
and i'm sure he was faithfull coz he was with me day and night all these months

women being monogamous is not a myth,
but it's becoming less and less frequent
i mean how many women will (with kids and stuff) sleep with another man??
after some time husbands take thier wives for granted, it's not nice on them coz every woman wants
to be beautiful in the eyes of their husb but the latter will prefer giving compliments to the friend than to the wife
and that makes the woman go seek for appreciation elsewhere,
if my darling tells me that my appearance is boring then i wont give him my boring apple to eat, i definately will give it to someone who
considers it juicy, don't u agree??

This is a very interesting topic,
the man i'm dating and hopefully will marry
is a kind of both but recently is starting to become in-decipherable.
i mean when he still was courting me he was a lot sub-massive,
comprehensable, loving, dearing, caring,
but now that he's tasted d fruit he's become dominant
annoying, boring, stressfull,
i've been biting my tounge for long but i don't know how to make him understand i'm really not liking him this way,
he's always comparing me to other women, especially my sister,
while having XEX b4 he'd make me lots of compliments,
but now he remains quiet from beginning to the end,
and i don't even know when he reaches climax, he remains queit even then, i dunno what to do anymore, i ask him sometimes
what he'd like me to do but he gets angry and asks me, is this the kind of question to ask?? do what u want, now i dunno hw to be submassive but anytime i asks him to cool down a bit he'll get all offensive and run head over heels, and he definately knows i'm more educated than he is but he always want to prove me wrong, telling me don't argue over things i know, and i gently reply honey but it's wrong, this is how it goes!! and he'll insist he's right, now not to be offensive i mean i know a lot better so shut ur mouth and listen, (what i'd like to say) but no man likes being dominated by their wives/girl etc

[quote author=Ben-10 link=topic=483641.msg6466775#msg6466775 date=1280331274]3ndy, A man who's got experience is a once married man o. lol
Some men can be 30years of age and still can not manage a home. It's not about the age difference, it's the level of understanding.[/quote]Ben-10 my bro like the cartoon ur nickname jst reminded me , men are very immature at their juvenile age, they think d world is thiers and don't fink of future and stuffs, remember it is scientifically proven that female mature b4 men so 2 get sm1 of our lineage of mind we need mature men,
of course i'm not saying all men are sticks from d same broom i'm just saying that most men aren't mature enough for d girls of their age, luckily
we have d exceptions,
so if i want 2 make a diplomatic chat i know i wont go for my 20ies brothers who think of the latest masarati or gucci or which babe's got d biggest booobs but 4rm 30 upwards, not saying these wont think d same thing, but at least lesser than the 20ies
yes most mature men have once been married but that does'nt mean that there aren't any that are still bachelors, hopefully 4 me

[quote author=Naija_Sisi link=topic=483641.msg6466640#msg6466640 date=1280330326][b][/b]

totally seconded, i've experienced such kind of relationship,  the guy really brought my life down rather than lifted me up
unlike now the relationship im in the guy is 5 years older and he has his head screwed on, he has helped me to quit bad habits and so on
so i have found older guys are better for me as they tend to be more mature

Even now when i talk to guys of my age in comparison to older ones i can see there is much difference, when i listen to what most of my agemates say, i realise how childish they sound.[/quote]GBAM, nothing else to add 2 ur quote my sista

5p1naz:
now thats rude. . . . . .

aint rude a'all

deniyor:
^^^^ All that has nothing to do with 10 yrs older. Even at 25 yrs old, u expect the man to be at least 35? 30 no do u at that age or u dey find person u go dey call uncle or baba bomboy?

wrong again,
have u ever spoken 2 women with diffrent ages like from ur agemates upwards? if u have then u'll get my point, they don't have d same priorities,
4 me as a girl i don't like 2 be with sm1 immature coz i'm immature as well being just in my 2oies and life with my juvenile partner would be hell,
i want sm1 who has got experience and who can guide me,
as 4 d age well if i could see sm1 ike this in a 25 luckyme but the 25 of nowadays r only interested in any living thing with asss and booobs,

deniyor:
^^^^ A diplomatic way to say she wants ready made rich men!

absolutely wrong,
he could be as poor as hunger as far as he has the will to work hard and a lot of experiene to guide me well,

i want my man 2 be older than me at least 10 yrs, i don't want 2 marry babies or whinin brats,

@poster
at least 5 times a day, not 2 boast, i guess bcoz they are few responsible girls in my town

WORD OF FAITH.
JUST TILL PRIMARY 5 THEN TRAVELLED ABROAD AND FURTHER MY STUDIES IN ITALY

akwaowoudo:
My definition of a woman speaks volume _ woe unto men. My prayers now is that next creation there should be 2wo alternatives to a woman; their experimental test is truly a woe.

u can't say we're a calamity!!
cooooommmmooonnnn!!!

without us men can't stay!
and remmber al creatures came in couple!! so if they shld be 2 alternatives of women so the same with men!!

you're all speakig trash!!!
and u shld be ashamed of urselves

bxcode:
@3ndy, don't tell me you've got balls.

yes i do!! i have internal balls called ovary
and u're kinda smashing them right now!!

bxcode:
^^when their too much merchandize in the mart, it reduces the overall value.

then go date a sister with a cloistered life!!
and stop burstin balls with ur preferences!!

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so what, now don't tell me u don't like seeing the merchandize??

i absolute love it!!
it's kind of saying "the michael jackson fair"
i totally think it's awesome!!