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Jerrygotswagg: She just told me she dnt fall inlove, but she still want us to be together........and u believe her ![]() come on... what if a restaurant tells u "we don't offer fresh daily made food but we still want u to be our customer"?? wont u flee?? the base of a relationship is love first, then respect. and once u grow old together the love becomes respect and habit. she is not respecting u by being with u when she's not in love!! so ask ur self what keeps her tied to u at this precise moment?? when y'all are together u don't make love but ssseexxx.. how can that be a healthy relationship?? and if u love her d way u said u would u wouldn't be doubting at this moment. u would know what to do |
kwangi: Read your post again, you'll realize that you shot yourself multiple times on the foot!why so? enlighten me.. |
1st atheist parents don't teach their children the right religion to believe in simply because they don't have/know one. parents (Christians, Islams, Hindi, Buddhists, Jewish, Indigenous etc) HAVE a religion to bestow on their kids, not only because it's the only one they know but because it's the only one they believe in. that doesn't make them hypocrites, less worthy of parenting or what so ever. for example a country like Italy, would it be seen as bad if a parent taught their son about Catholicism?? or in a country like India how would it feel if a parent taught his child Jainism ![]() every parent bestow on to their child the knowledge they have gained and calling that oppressive just shows how u are lacking in your so-called philosophy. one great rule about PHILOSOPHY is to question not to doubt.. not to believe in an absolute because there are no absolutes. so what a parent decide to teach his off spring depends only on that parent. @OP u should make sure of ur sources and ur believes before speaking. |
go to school 1st. second that's an absolute lie.. everyone falls in love or lust sooner or later.. she is just preparing the grounds to flee from u |
ihedioramma: IT IS TO TELL U HE IS TOO OLD FOR THE WORK. CAN A NIGERIAN DO THAT? BUY DOYING THAT HE HAS PREACH TO US .i'm not sure of the reasons but health is certainly not one of them.. he might have receieved an international threat not for his life but for some thousands of millions lives.. maybe.. we'll see in the future.. |
chiyex: When you talk to them here, they want to know if you got a degree or business. Materialistic questions are what they start of with. When you show interest, they give u a hard time and play with ur mind. If you go with white girls or african americans they get mad at u. What do they want? When they get close to 30, they become desperate..smhwould u prefer them to ask you what church u are going to?' how is the weather like?? so on and so forth?? if i have to make conversation with some one i don't know and plan to i certainly would ask what do you do?? i would not continue a conversation with someone who replies drug dealer.. or someone who says he's living on food stamps |
oluwadare26: Or are u telling there as not been lightening since he took over as d popeof course not.. there have been plenty of lightning just like how there have been plenty of sun rain wind snow etc the pope's decisions has nothing to do with climatic change or forecast or what so ever |
everyone sees it their own way. as far as plants grow from the soil they consider it to be nature's gift. and moreover men don't come from plant on the other hand, eating another creature such as mammals, oviparous, reptiles and such, creatures from the animal kingdom is forbidding. it's just like eating one of their brothers.. i guess.. though most people are vegetarians for health reasons.. and moreover vegetarians don't eat animals but can eat animal products such as eggs, milk and so on. while vegans are those who can't eat anything deriving from animals.. nothing at all.. as far as it comes out from an animal it's a taboo. |
no.. it it an unrelated picture existing since early 2000.. shame on you. Thou shall not call or use the name of the almighty God in vain. |
aaaand ? where is this story!!!after reading the prologue it is fact that one get to read the actual story. so ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ? |
what a miserable after show.. and i'm so disappointed he ad-libed!!! poor... |
chikeorji123: No sir.. l think is 7 sir..ASHàWO |
190:sexist... that's just who u are.. shame yes.. if u (men) start killing yourselves the balance would just be fine. |
190:who's without sin cast the first stone... u might even be worst than those u detest |
P4VS20: who's fault is it then?. if someone tells you to give him something and he is soo desperate n u give him and he bails, its not his fault. forgive yourself and move on. if he wasn't a runner, he wont ask you for it.exactly what i just said.. if not ur fault who's else?? if the girl doesn't give in she's a shakara and gets targeted by every guys.. so she becomes a LovePeddler.. if she gives in she's an ashàwo.. and gets targeted by every guy. so what's d difference ![]() y'all are just a bunch of... how can u ppl think in that way.. it is always some1's sister and daughter who gets hurt. and then u complain when girls pay u back.. |
Boss13: Oya begin your vengeance. Who you dey do?talk to the hand |
2buff: Why do girls like crying victim.my kind?? my kind?? have a clear conscience and talk abt YOUR kind first!!!! at least we don't push blames on others... |
men are heartless ruthless and don't care.. all they do is back out and blame others.. saying "i send u?" ![]() women have been broken so many times they ought to evolute and change.. there's a saying that goes.. if cant beat them then join them.. so to compensate for what they've lost they have to be 5 times worse than the guys. for what i know girls don't go out there asking for boys to break their hymen... the boys do all what they can to get the girl even lie and betray.. once the hymen is broken.. they flee like some wanted criminal.. and it's the girls fault?? although i'm not generalizing but most girls gets spoiled because of the situation they find themselves in. and once a heart has been broken it seeks for vengeance. ![]() |
seems like their havin fun.. loooollll |
well i think that contrary to what most men said on the topic.. they should read d post carefully.. d women are PROUD of their ring.. the men aren't.. women are happy that they are married and out of the market.. men.. most of them.. think that it is not the closure of their sexual life.. but just the beginning.. bcoz either they catch or not (girls that is) they will always be sm1 home waitn for them. |
una sorry ohhhhh... enough talking about me.. let's return to OP's post.. |
[quote author=Mynd_44]It is good that you have learnt your lesson and you have madr your choice. now all you have to do is stick to that choice and you will be fine[/quote]yeeah... |
[quote author=Mynd_44]Too late might mean before you are pregnant again or before you loose all hope. It is still easy to walk now or make him change[/quote]1. never ever again will i lay beside him 2. already have lost all my hope 3. given up already about that.. if by now he hasn't change he will never.. NOW i know that |
[quote author=tpia@]in the picture, you seem to be the one all over the guy though.[/quote]yeah.. that was december 2011.. and in the picture if u notice he was reluctant. he didn't want that picture taken.. and he had his eyes open all the time.. anyways.. |
[quote author=Mynd_44]No problem. But I think you need to think well about your situation before it is late[/quote]isn't it already?? (too late i mean) anyway.. let's just see what the future brings |
[quote author=Mynd_44]cos a thread inside a thread is wrong na[/quote]sorry ohhhh i did not mean to turn d thread on me. i just told my story to give a reason why i wouldn't date a illiterate.. |
[quote author=tpia@]3ndy Is the guy the one in your profile? The way it seems is you're not sure you want to hold on to him and at the same time you dont want to let him go. If you heard another lady is making a beeline for him, how would you feel? Btw if una wan marry make una marry, unless something else dey the matter.[/quote]yes he's d one. that picture is from december 2011 nice question.. i have to think about it.. but i don't forgive betrayal |
GboyegaD: Do you think he is going to get any better with his attitude? I don't think it is a crime that you have a baby out of wedlock because if you see that as a reason to continue, it might get worse than it is and would be more headache than it is now.i really don't know what to think right now. maybe..maybe not |
[quote author=tpia@]Anyway, @ 3ndy have you two married yet?[/quote]no.. after the pregnancy things got awkward because he at first told me he didn't want the baby.. then i told him ok i will keep the baby without him.. and when i started making plans without him he got angry and started yelling "that's my blood" "he is my child" even because when my aunties asked if he was the father my mum said no.. that she was the father.. i mean if u don't want the baby don't claim it yours.. so told him but u said u didn't want the baby he said after digesting the news he accepted him/her (i'm not really sure abt that) that's why i decided to stay with him because of the baby and all.. but then after what happened with my mum.. i haven't spoken to him and i traveled abroad to put to bed i really can't put up with this situation in my condition.. ![]() |
oyetunji12: tayo-chikafumo tank God my name stil sound lyk igbo nameLOLLL |
