baylord101:
Back then in my final year in the university, I was dating two ladies and in love with both that making decision of who to settle with is very hard for me.
In my first semester, I got the first one pregnant and I begged her to leave it but she conclud on her own that am not ready for it and aborted it some months when she left for Ghana, in my second semester I got the second one pregnant and her parents waste no time in following her to our house to dump her belongings .
To cut the story short, the second gave birth, Living together in peace with our 2kids (4yrs and 1yr old) now, The first is now on me that I hurt her love and play with her heart, she doesn't mind joining the train as second wife and am kind of confused as a man because love is involved. Good people of Nairaland, what do I do?

The biggest mistake you will ever made is marrying someone Bcoz of pity. What if the first wife have useless herself in Ghana and she is infected with a deadly disease. Everyone has rejected her there yet she came to you with pity-face bcoz she knew you will fall to it.
My question to you
Have you considered the feelings of the second woman?

My advice is, you better focus on the second woman and her children. The first woman is a distraction

The one that aborted probably destroyed her womb and wants you back so she doesnt lose on both sides