Back then in my final year in the university, I was dating two ladies and in love with both that making decision of who to settle with is very hard for me.
In my first semester, I got the first one pregnant and I begged her to leave it but she conclud on her own that am not ready for it and aborted it some months when she left for Ghana, in my second semester I got the second one pregnant and her parents waste no time in following her to our house to dump her belongings .
To cut the story short, the second gave birth, Living together in peace with our 2kids (4yrs and 1yr old) now, The first is now on me that I hurt her love and play with her heart, she doesn't mind joining the train as second wife and am kind of confused as a man because love is involved. Good people of Nairaland, what do I do?

U brought the pussays shit upon yourself.
Enjoy them and don't ask us

Fabulocity:
You're African

If you've got enough resources, I don't see why not.

My first wife read through our chat and pick offence, but they know each other very well.

1st semester u give one belle.... she abort am.. 2nd semester u give another one belle.. you sure say na school u go? Meanwhile if you're already married with two kids why should you consider the first?. yes Belle come Belle go but man must stay, people get hurt doesn't mean you have to please everybody. With the way u sound xev i'm sure u love the thought of banging two of them every week.

kiddoiLL:
1st semester u give one belle.... she abort am.. 2nd semester u give another one belle.. you sure say na school u go? Meanwhile if you're already married with two kids why should you consider the first?. yes Belle come Belle go but man must stay, people get hurt doesn't mean you have to please everybody. With the way u sound xev i'm sure u love the thought of banging two of them every week.

it's part of the joy of schooling my man

We all have 1 life to live, live yours the right way.

2 wives? No way man, i don't support that idea.

By the way, whats ur religion?




⚡ BlaQ_Mayana

LMandela:
We all have 1 life to live, live yours the right way.

2 wives? No way man, i don't support that idea.

By the way, whats ur religion?




⚡ BlaQ_Mayana

#HumanityMyReligion

At this rate you will die on top one of them oo

And another one
Mark those who are cheering you on. Quote them and ask them what to do when polygamy starts dealing with ya

AuroraB:
And another one
Mark those who are cheering you on. Quote them and ask them what to do when polygamy starts dealing with ya

Am a product of polygamous, grew up without my Mum by my side, defenceless, hawk to survive. I decode ur point well sist

baylord101:
Am a product of polygamous, grew up without my Mum by my side, defenceless, hawk to survive. I decode ur point well sist

baylord101:
Am a product of polygamous, grew up without my Mum by my side, defenceless, hawk to survive. I decode ur point well sist

So can you become a good father to your kids without the experience of a good father?

I learnt most people from polygamy don't know how to father (I mean being a good father) children because they didn't experience it. Just asking.

Guy, to be honest, if you are ready, feel, think and you know the second wife will add an iota of value to you, the experience will be yours, Let no man deter you.

Any man that wants to experience life with one woman in marriage is his choice, and should not deter he who wants to experience same with two women.

Just that society wants to define and impose its perpective of marriage on all, which shouldn't be, in as much as the parties involved are adults and consented to having that experience nothing should stop them.

feelgoodInc:


So can you become a good father to your kids without the experience of a good father?

I learnt most people from polygamy don't know how to father (I mean being a good father) children because they didn't experience it. Just asking.

Maybe/Maybe Not, My Dad never discriminate, we eat the same food, same cloth and educate all to University level and some above.

Hmmmm why not stick with what you have already? Mark my word if you marry the other lady that left you to ghana that will be your greatest mistake in life......The lady that endured and gave birth to two kids for you I think you owe her a lot now that things are working in your favour..... don't try polygamy.....you re created to make a difference I mean re write history....learn from other people mistake....goodluck

baylord101:
it's part of the joy of schooling my man

which joy?? getting someone you love and intend to settle with pregnant? yes there's joy in that. But where's the joy in getting diff girls pregnant ever semester.. U just dey share sperm upandan

ppl have often said that it's a man's world and in fact that's just the truth. The Almighty entrusted the world and leadership to man, so u can paddle your boat as u wish but with wisdom
. pls go ahead and marry two wives, God is not greedy, He created women for men and won't give u just one, except u wish to limit urself. Even I myself can't offer u just a piece of meat if u were to pay me a visit , that would mean that I am either stingy or I don't have enough. Many good things come in pairs even ur hands, legs, kidney etc
Furthermore having things in multiples reduces worries in case lose any- can u compare a man with only a shirt and loses it to a man with many who loses on

kiddoiLL:
which joy?? getting someone you love and intend to settle with pregnant? yes there's joy in that. But where's the joy in getting diff girls pregnant ever semester.. U just dey share sperm upandan

Maybe, but one will be blind when in it and whenever you flash back to it, you will just smile and laff it off.

My guy marrying a second wife is not an option.
Because if I'm that your wife and you marry that bitch I will make sure you don't see my pants anymore and will f*ck your driver Sef.
I will make you value peace i will become the bone hanging in your throat finally I will leave with my children.

feelgoodInc:


So can you become a good father to your kids without the experience of a good father?

I learnt most people from polygamy don't know how to father (I mean being a good father) children because they didn't experience it. Just asking.

That's not true; while I'm not married yet, my elder brothers are excellent fathers to their kids.

Been a good/bad father depends solely on the individual, not his background

sarahade:
My guy marrying a second wife is not an option.
Because if I'm that your wife and you marry that bitch I will make sure you don't see my pants anymore and will f*ck your driver Sef.
I will make you value peace i will become the bone hanging in your throat finally I will leave with my children.

That's much, in my case the children can't follow their Mum if they are to make choice. But am not talking of divorcing my wife for another, just don't​ want to see the other cry because of me.

baylord101:
Back then in my final year in the university, I was dating two ladies and in love with both that making decision of who to settle with is very hard for me.
In my first semester, I got the first one pregnant and I begged her to leave it but she conclud on her own that am not ready for it and aborted it some months when she left for Ghana, in my second semester I got the second one pregnant and her parents waste no time in following her to our house to dump her belongings .
To cut the story short, the second gave birth, Living together in peace with our 2kids (4yrs and 1yr old) now, The first is now on me that I hurt her love and play with her heart, she doesn't mind joining the train as second wife and am kind of confused as a man because love is involved. Good people of Nairaland, what do I do?

Are you a Muslim or a christian, your answer is the solution to your problem

Weaved every other post except OP's .

I finally find one who understands you can love 2 or more ladies simultaneously.

I tort I wasn't normal at a time..
She said I wasn't normal.


#Nofaking

baylord101:
That's much, in my case the children can't follow their Mum if they are to make choice. But am not talking of divorcing my wife for another, just don't​ want to see the order cry because of me.

One of them will definitely cry. You just have to decide which one

ozoneymcm:

Are you a Muslim or a christian, your answer is the solution to your problem

None #Humanity

Its like something is wrong with you?

Why didn't she marry you when she got pregnant?
You really don't deserve a family tbh.

For you to even consider going back to your ex....

You deserve triple the pain you cause your wife/mother of your children.

Radarada

baylord101:
#HumanityMyReligion

Cool!

And about getin' a 2nd wife, do whatever you 'know' is right. Its your life.

You are the 'only person' responsible for what ever decision you make! #Peace[b]





⚡ BlaQ_Mayana

baylord101:
Back then in my final year in the university, I was dating two ladies and in love with both that making decision of who to settle with is very hard for me.
In my first semester, I got the first one pregnant and I begged her to leave it but she conclud on her own that am not ready for it and aborted it some months when she left for Ghana, in my second semester I got the second one pregnant and her parents waste no time in following her to our house to dump her belongings .
To cut the story short, the second gave birth, Living together in peace with our 2kids (4yrs and 1yr old) now, The first is now on me that I hurt her love and play with her heart, she doesn't mind joining the train as second wife and am kind of confused as a man because love is involved. Good people of Nairaland, what do I do?

who is restricting you from getting a second wife... isn't that better than committing adultery.... as long as u know u will fair and just between them.. go for it.. u re a man.. but if can't be just , pls run from it

D

baylord101:
That's much, in my case the children can't follow their Mum if they are to make choice. But am not talking of divorcing my wife for another, just don't​ want to see the other cry because of me.

Well in my case I will not leave my children for any other woman.
The man chose a desperate bitch over his family he should make a new one with her and see if it will make things better.