Am not saying they should be enemies or not be in good terms but the idea of calling up every minute of the day is really a cause to be worried about.
Even when you are in a new relationship and he/she still maintains that sort of closeness with the ex, it will definitely lead to a break-up because one thing i know for sure is that that old feeling will one day be ignited unknowingly.

I am close to my ex..Even my new man consult him.

are you asking or telling?


one thing people need to know is that situations are not dsame with everybody. some people can easily stay friends with an ex without the thought of cheating with them, keep in mind that it depends on how they became ex. but for the sake of an insecure partner you might have to totally drop a good ex

Some people break up with their exes not because they want to but because they have to for example genotype, family etc

Now even after their break up they still have feelings for each other no matter how little and because they can't act on those feelings they resign themselves to just being frds

Now if your partner is just friends with his/her ex you have to learn to accommodate and trust but if you can't just pack yourself and leave instead of making it an issue.

It is very ok. Being in a relationship should be like watching movies with ur DVD player. Pause when u choose to. And play when u feel like.

lalanice:
are you asking or telling?


one thing people need to know is that situations are not dsame with everybody. some people can easily stay friends with an ex without the thought of cheating with them, keep in mind that it depends on how they became ex. but for the sake of an insecure partner you might have to totally drop a good ex

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If your ex is good....she/he should not be your ex.....my opinion though

No. Its not good.
Let bygones be bygones.

Zhahovic:

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If your ex is good....she/he should not be your ex.....my opinion though

Exactly.

Rorachy:
No. Its not good.

Let bygones be bygones.

Absolutely

Zhahovic:

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If your ex is good....she/he should not be your ex.....my opinion though

well, not all ex were ex for a bad reason, that's why I said situations may differ

its up to d person.. If kipin close touch wit ur ex generates litle touchy feelings den stay clear.... As for me ,i prefer being frnds cus wen we start formin d ' i wont talk to u tin ' , den i wud start tinkin of d guy.. So being frnds wit dem isnt bad at all, infact u guys cud b grt frnds

Rorachy:
Exactly.

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Yes rora!

lalanice:
well, not all ex were ex for a bad reason, that's why I said situations may differ

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Hmmm....noted

Close up ni... why did they break up then when they needed to be close.

I never exactly got over my exes, two of them. The minute we begin to talk again, feelings surge up and I begin to miss being with them again.

hmmmm it depends sha,i'm still frnds wt my ex,even after a messy breakup,it was very hard for me to forgive him bt i had to,evn wen he never apologised,,we communicate freely,than wen we were dating...

Lewaluv:
I am close to my ex..Even my new man consult him.

He be Oracle?

lalanice:
are you asking or telling?


one thing people need to know is that situations are not dsame with everybody. some people can easily stay friends with an ex without the thought of cheating with them, keep in mind that it depends on how they became ex. but for the sake of an insecure partner you might have to totally drop a good ex

forget all others, the bolded is the concern.

I tink they want to do ritual on me.

MoraxLanre:
He be Oracle?

NO!!...an ex is an 'Ex' put them where dey belong....in the past.

Lewaluv:
I tink they want to do ritual on me.

Funny You

bamisepeters:
forget all others, the bolded is the concern.

well