please guys, i need an advice from you, my current girlfriend which i met i think february on facebook is an exact opposite of what she appears to be on social media.
im this type of guy that loves a very naughty, stubborn and free lady and those are the kind of things she portray on social media.
but here in the real setting is a different thing, she's scared of talking back at me, she cant even look up to my face, we have been dating for months and she's still scared of sharing a kiss with me
and i'm sincerely getting tired of everything ..
she's just too shy of everything

I know why you are complaining. I understand


Just give her time, you can fix your mind on something else...you will see the magic


More so, always remember to brush twice a day, mouth odour can make some people shy at times...don't mind me give her time or talk to her...

na WA

just give her time..I'm an extremely shy lady too..but just a matter of time she will get used to you around her.....and also tell her to be agile and play smart too..

Dillusionist:
just give her time..I'm an extremely shy lady too..but just a matter of time she will get used to you around her.....and also tell her to be ajai and play smart too..

You don't look like a shy person naa

Haphard:


You don't look like a shy person naa

why do you think so??

just tell her how you feel about her shy nature..and make her comfortable around you

I have dated one, I dated her for just 2 months her own is just to the extreme, she can't look at anybody's face she is not used to, you ask her questions she is unable to open her mouth to talk, she keeps her face down when we go out . I tried letting her know nobody will eat you alive for talking but all my efforts were in vain so I just let her go.

Lolzzz.

bakynes:
I have dated one, I dated her for just 2 months her own is just to the extreme, she can't look at anybody's face she is not used to, you ask her questions she is unable to open her mouth to talk, she keeps her face down when we go out . I tried letting her know nobody will eat you alive for talking but all my efforts were in vain so I just let her go.

you never loved her

I think you didn't make her feel comfortable enough and hope inferiority complex is not killing her if ladies felt inferior to their guy they can shy for Africa...

bakynes:
I have dated one, I dated her for just 2 months her own is just to the extreme, she can't look at anybody's face she is not used to, you ask her questions she is unable to open her mouth to talk, she keeps her face down when we go out . I tried letting her know nobody will eat you alive for talking but all my efforts were in vain so I just let her go.

mine now she doesn't even wanna go out , i can't tell her anything bugging my mind cuz she can't even talk to me on normal grounds , not to talk to interaction

Akinbahm:
I think you didn't make her feel comfortable and hope inferiority complex is not killing her if ladies felt inferior to their guy they can shy for Africa...

that's another major problem and i have placed myself to be so humble,i brought myself down to her level just cuz of my love for her

una beg you don't come down to her level oh, you attack small you defend big time...

Akinbahm:
una beg you don't come down to her level oh, you attack small you defend big time...

i don't understand u

If you truly love her, you shouldn't be tired of anything. . You got a very shy girlfriend. Does she really care about You? If Yes, then don't ever let that shy part of her fade away. Chill, the kiss will come at the right time. Relax and keep loving your woman.

iamrex:
i don't understand u

What football fan are you?

Dillusionist:
just give her time..I'm an extremely shy lady too..but just a matter of time she will get used to you around her.....and also tell her to be ajai and play smart too..

Ajai = Agile, you mean?

There's a difference between being shy and being quiet

someone like me I'm not shy at all but I'm very quiet which often gets mistaken for shyness. I can stay with you for 2 days and I won't say a word (just keep on looking at you and observing you) but when I'm ready to talk I can be very naughty and open.

Just give her space and try to find out if she the quiet one.

sing for her

iamrex:

mine now she doesn't even wanna go out , i can't tell her anything bugging my mind cuz she can't even talk to me on normal grounds , not to talk to interaction

Well it is someone like you that will change them, if you not cool with it just let it go but try to break it up in a way she won't feel offended.

Evaberry:
There's a difference between being shy and being quiet

someone like me I'm not shy at all but I'm very quiet which often gets mistaken for shyness. I can stay with you for 2 days and I won't say a word (just keep on looking at you and observing you) but when I'm ready to talk I can be very naughty and open.

Just give her space and try to find out if she the quiet one.

Damnnnn! This is me

Evaberry:
There's a difference between being shy and being quiet

someone like me I'm not shy at all but I'm very quiet which often gets mistaken for shyness. I can stay with you for 2 days and I won't say a word (just keep on looking at you and observing you) but when I'm ready to talk I can be very naughty and open.

Just give her space and try to find out if she the quiet one.

pls be naughty to me

Evaberry:
There's a difference between being shy and being quiet

someone like me I'm not shy at all but I'm very quiet which often gets mistaken for shyness. I can stay with you for 2 days and I won't say a word (just keep on looking at you and observing you) but when I'm ready to talk I can be very naughty and open.

Just give her space and try to find out if she the quiet one.

Hmmm! Two days without talking to your boyfriend



Naturally you are a monitoring spirit

Don't mind me ooo! But you dey try shaaa and your boyfriends try pass...

Give her some time op. She wld come around. And also always bring up a discussion when both of u are together.

She's Shy. abeg whc mouth she use tok yes wen u toast her?

iamrex:
please guys, i need an advice from you, my current girlfriend which i met i think february on facebook is an exact opposite of what she appears to be on social media.
im this type of guy that loves a very naughty, stubborn and free lady and those are the kind of things she portray on social media.
but here in the real setting is a different thing, she's scared of talking back at me, she cant even look up to my face, we have been dating for months and she's still scared of sharing a kiss with me
and i'm sincerely getting tired of everything ..
she's just too shy of everything

OP, only God can satisfy we human being, supposing she is a talkative or nagging type, am very sure u re gonna complain about her character, Love her the way she is joor, nature can't be cheated unless u don't love her

those kind of girls usually don't like fornication or premarital kiss/romance, so just marry her

Op confess!!

the only reason you're tired is cos she's still shy to kiss you plus the possibilty of having sex with her is 0.2%
(which frankly is very poor )

if you dont want sex soon you wouldnt be complaining cos i know most guys (except me and a few) prefer quiet shy ladies to authoritative overly outspoken ones

Shy you said.. but never shy in the bedroom

Transfer money into her bank account, come beat me if you wont kiss her tired that day.