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Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by Nijablog: 7:41am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Getting married nowadays is now like a battle for most
individuals especially ladies.It is very pathetic that we
still find ladies of over 50years still looking for spouses/
husbands.
I recently attended a Church service and during the
course of one of the prayer sessions,the pastor called
on single ladies to come out for prayers.You need to
see the in flock of ladies who came out for
prayer,almost every lady came out and the surprising
thing is that most are women of over fourty,fifty years
of age.At first i thought they were widows/divorcee until
aftermath information reveals they aren’t rather they are
still searching, I was like wowwww you mean this
women haven’t had sex legally/morally in their life
though I know they might have done it in those youthful
days and some still doing it.Later I was like what could
be responsible for this,it wasn’t until I carried out a
careful investigation that I noticed ladies are usually the
cause of this problem.
Yes 99.99% cases of not getting married or early is
caused by ladies themselves. Now let me let you know
that there are enough men to marry all the ladies in the
world despite their population, all thanks to some
Religions that allow polygamous marriage but the cause
of ladies not getting married/early is usually as a result
of:
1.Pride: You must agree with me that most if not all the
ladies are filled with pride nowadays.The moment Mr.
right will come,pride will just blind them cause maybe
he may be too dark,fat,short,slim,ugly e.t.c but sisters
remember the bible didn’t say “He made them both
man and woman beautiful” i.e you may be beautiful,
then why not just allow him despite his ugly condition to
save your life of future shame.For just like beauty is in
the eyes of the beholder,so is ugliness.
2.Delusion of enjoyment: You see most ladies
nowadays mostly in their early/late twenties shying
away from marriage with the motive of wanting to enjoy
themselves which is all a delusion cause they are not
really enjoying themselves in the actual sense rather
they are just destroying their future.Before they know
it,time is gone and they will start/continuing searching.
3.Immorality: You already know no man want to marry
an immoral woman be it that his moral characters are
questionable,A man could have slept with over
hundreds of girls but still desirous of a virgin for
marriage but are there still girls with dignity?,”hmmn
very very few”,The rate of immorality among girls of
nowadays is mindblogging.apart from having sex
anyhow as if it is some kind of food,you see girls do
disgusting things e.g filming themselves during
sex,masturbation,shower and others and thereafter
uploading them online for reasons known/unknown to
them…Sometimes I just conclude the females are the
most spoilt gender.Now after doing all this,they will try
to share the repercussions that follows with another
innocent man in the name of marriage which will
definitely not work out since the man is going to
discover her past dirty deeds and dump her and there
you go my sister,another search begins.
4.Beauty: Though almost synonymous with pride but it
somehow differs.Beauty has eaten into the head of
ladies that they don’t realise it will fade away one day.Is
your grandma still looking like you.It is so pathetic
some ladies believe going into marriage early will
destroy their beauty/shape,so they waste their time
modelling until it is too late when no man will
acknowledge that beauty they so much depend on.so
sister grab your man now that your beauty can still be
acknowledge and cook your beauty into his eyes till it
fade away.
Source: www.nijablog.com.ng/why-most-ladies-are-finding-it-hard-getting-married/ |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by optional1(f): 7:56am On Aug 24, 2017 |
all this story they tired person oh... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by abelprice(m): 7:56am On Aug 24, 2017 |
I think ladies are finding it difficult cos they watch zee cinema and telemundo 2 much... waiting for love that don't exist.... ... 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by Evablizin(f): 7:58am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Op you are right 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by MhizzAJ(f): 8:05am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Your write up is biased How can u conclude that females are the most spoilt gender The rate of immorality amongst boys/girls is mind blowing....it shouldn't be restricted to the female gender alone afterall it takes two to tangle 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by Nijablog: 8:08am On Aug 24, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:Thank you for the correction,I even felt same but it is just a feeling nevertheless |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by madone: 8:17am On Aug 24, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:lol feminist spotted. This woman right advocate makes it very difficult for some ladies the op didn't add that |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by MhizzAJ(f): 8:40am On Aug 24, 2017 |
madone: u didn't read the write up Mister |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by Nobody: 8:44am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Because some people would rather not marry. Its not by force to marry bruh. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by madone: 8:45am On Aug 24, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:I did ,the op stated facts. B4 he said the word spoilt he listed some things. Na lie he lie about those things he listed. I think he should have used the word ladies are the once most possessed.he didn't say guys re not spoilt.go check internet poll and see the number if ladies exposing their nudity. But see u rushing to attack as if that is the only part u read. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by MyNewJackeT: 9:00am On Aug 24, 2017 |
just get married to one aboki chick and you'll never get issues in marriage again, you'll have someone to stick with you through thick and thin, even if you sip garri she will and won't even complain. most northerners wonder why we can't get married, they believe that we are barren or something is wrong with our women |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:17am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Since they started having wrong ideology about marriage. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Are Finding It Hard Getting Married by salvationproject(m): 9:54am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Hmmmmmmn |
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