Dudes please forgive me for bothering you guys again. Am confused, about last month my fiance told me that her mum went to a prophet concerning our union and the prophet said that we cannot be together. As if that was not enough, she told me again that she had a dream where i saved her from being drowned in a river and later i couldn't make it. I was marveled cos she even told me that her family were planning her marriage with another man. I had decided to forget about everything and has been planning on how to move on when she came last week and said she doesn't like the man in question. My problem now is that she is being more desperate on the marriage issue, telling me i should haste up that she wants to be with me. Though she z friendly but she is also domineering and disrespectful. Please how do i handle this? She is having thos. emotional trauma to the extent that anytime she feels depressed, she will just faint. Am the only one that gives her peace according to her. Mature advice please.

My broda, you need to let the lady in question be for now. Seems she is totally confused right now. I would suggest you talk to her to learn how to take things easy. First, let her settled with her family before anything because continue with her against her family wish is dangerous.

It all depends on you and your emotions.

How old is she?. I asked 'cause she doesn't seem like someone who takes major decision concerning her life.

Secondly, this person seem desperate to be married. Does she sleep and breath marriage?. I hope she's not hoping to offload her baggage on a man?.

Emotional stress doesn't make people faint just like that. Could be low sugar.

Why should a prophet tell her who to be with?

My brother na sign be that ooo beta use ur tongue count ur teeth...

can't you pray to God and get things about u by yourself, weather you should be with her should be as u recieve direction from God by yourself.....about the aspect of she fainting whenever she is depressed I will suggest that u should be more of friends for now till she can calm herself down...



remember this Marriage is a lifetime affair.....Don't rush

Lolz. Marry her and watch your sorrows hug you every seconds.

joseo:
can't you pray to God and get things about u by yourself, weather you should be with her should be as u recieve direction from God by yourself.....about the aspect of she fainting whenever she is depressed I will suggest that u should be more of friends for now till she can calm herself down...



remember this Marriage is a lifetime affair.....Don't rush

Thanks dear

Rorachy:
Why should a prophet tell her who to be with?

I warned her earlier cos in my family we don't visit prophets.

Personally I detest confused girls... And I don't need to seek for opinions from people for me to delete her from my life.

Halo22:
I warned her earlier cos in my family we don't visit prophets.

If u can't live with a domineering lady, don't venture. Don't come crying us a river.

K

Family dont like u, mother n pastor dont like u and u want to con die put....is she from dangote family?


I beg free her jare.

be happy for the prophet's word my brother, more of a blessing in disguise..


#the act of rejection showed by the girl's parent ain't dope atall, just take your time and don't rush into marriage...


as for the fainting part, tell her to go for a medical "check_up", don't let her use that self_pity attitude cajole you into getting married.

From when prophets are telling her what to do
It's signs she is very unstable person .. she gets depressed faints

Look God is showing u the signs early
U don't have to save everybody dear .. please tell her u are not interested
Because when u were she giving u bullish!t excuses .. that was your first Alarm Bell
Be smart