According to Nigerian girl, paying a small amount as bride price for a woman is seen as a demeaning act. Since it makes it look as if the bride is been given out as a 'dash' to her groom. And according to her, this is one of the reasons why most ladies prefer guys paying huge amount of money as bride price when coming to marry them...Cos no girl wants to look 'cheap' before the whole world...

I don't really see it as a demeaning act
Women aren't 'products'

The amount paid as bride price varies with different families and culture

Where i come from..it isn't too expensive

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Truly I abhor bride price.

A means to sell a woman.

I wonder why women think it's okay

they are stylishly selling you off and you are there smiling and snapping picture

What is she saying?


Well A Nigerian Girl is talking not a A Nigerian Woman so i got nothing to say to you,when you grow up i believe you will talk like a matured woman not like a girl

So buying the woman and using her like slave will be better

I agree. Selling off your daughter at an expensive rate for a one time will help you recoup your investments and her new owner.... sorry pls husband will value his latest investment alot.

Making him pay tru his nostrils makes him angry which leads to constant beating and humiliation to ur person...why? U av sold ur self to him... I don't blame some men tho

Evaberry:
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Truly I abhor bride price.

A means to sell a woman.

I wonder why women think it's okay

they are stylishly selling you off and you are there smiling and snapping picture

If 'it's paid for.
It is a commodity.
Similar to a pair of slippers, whether Okrika or Gucci.
To be used and abused at the owner's convenience.
*Barbaric.

U re still a girl though...U will understand better when u grow up.

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Guys ain't idiots that's why they don't go to those places to get a wife, I guess your dads are the ones to get married to you guys when your time passes, some imo indigenes are suffering from these, cos of this issue. WISEUP LADIES

In my locality, it's usually a very small price which cannot be used to buy even a bag of pure water. This simply means our daughters are walking into such Unions as equals.

I believe the lady who said this should be from a particular tribe in Nigeria. Why should I spend a fortune to buytake a wife. The idea of given out my daughter in marriage, and collecting money from her husband to be is just so archaic

Team foreign babes. Marry with no bride price

that's a shallow way of thinking. .paying an exorbitant amount on a lady automatically adds common sense into her??you need a medical check up young lady

vicfuntop:
I believe the lady who said this should be from a particular tribe in Nigeria. Why should I spend a fortune to buytake a wife. The idea of given out my daughter in marriage, and collecting money from her husband to be is just so archaic

Oh, your husband is gonna be such a lucky man. Hope you won't sing a different tune when you get to the village sha

Yeah she is right
It is very cheap

The guy should probably use his life savings to pay her bride price and wait for donations from well wishers to take care of her

That will definitely make her look expensive and too costly for her husbad to maintain

Rubbish

TimeMod1:
Anyone reading this, May you never offend someone that will never forgive you...
This girl here is a morrafooker kid.
Listen little girl, If you ever have the gut to go through what I left you on whatsapp wherein I gave your ass & that of your wimp lover a befitting burial. Your half ass boyfriend could ruin your life all I care. He got into your head like a dead fly & you acted like a wet fart. Typical of two grown down kids!
I tried as much to apologize & appease you yet you still call for my head as though you are one morrafooker roman goddess. What dafuq you think you are shrimp?
I advise you fold your forgiveness in that dead round hole of yours. You may now consider yourself a broken past. Asswipe!

I was going to mind my own business, but since you're ruining whatever vestiges of respect NL ladies have for men with your poorly crafted juvenile rants, I think it is in fact my business. What kind of sorry excuse of a man are you? So she offended you so badly that whatever childish message you sent her on WhatsApp wasn't enough, you had to come online to display your inability to construct simple sentences without sounding like a dimwit. I always wondered why some NL ladies think majority of guys are inbred im'beciles, judging from this abomination you think you so cleverly scripted, I can't say I blame them. You left NL to go and chat on WhatsApp then came back here to torment us with your idiocy. How does it concern us that she has a boyfriend she wouldn't cheat on with you?? If you feel hurt and rejected why not lick your wounds in private and preserve whatever scrap is left of your ego? Why come here to announce to the whole world that a lady did not find you good enough to spit on. You even insulted her boyfriend for making her love him too much to even reason your matter, how pathetic is that? You mean her guy is so much better than you that compared to him she saw you as s'hit? My friend you are an apology of a man.
N.B just to be clear this is not how real men behave, this weak coward displaying feminine tendencies is in no way representing typical male behavior. When real men get turned down, they show some class, they don't come online to whine about how a lady broke their pathetic little heart.

MhizzAJ:
I don't really see it as a demeaning act Women aren't 'products'
The amount paid as bride price varies with different families and culture
Where i come from..it isn't too expensive

but it expensive though?

MhizzAJ:
I don't really see it as a demeaning act Women aren't 'products'
The amount paid as bride price varies with different families and culture
Where i come from..it isn't too expensive

but it expensive though?

frankkydee:






but it expensive though?

not at all

BenShammer:
Bros pls how old are you? I don't want to hear tomorrow that I traumatized a JSS 2 brat. You sound so r'etarded, I'm actually disgusted that such a repulsive quim like you exists. You were ranting about how you left a message for her on WhatsApp and how she rejected you because of her boyfriend even after desperately begging her, and you're accusing me of jumping to conclusions? Are you insane? Do you not realize that it would be assumed that that's how guys react when ladies tell them to fvck off? You think after watching you embarrassing yourself because she turned you down, any NL lady would be willing to take any friendship offline? Its my business because you're acting like a little b'itch because a lady told you no. Don't you get how pathetic that is? You're a disgrace to your family, that's if you're not a bastard. Animal

bros take a chill the guy is just lad who don't really know much. pls pardon him!

MhizzAJ:

not at all

then i will love to come to your place very soon,hope i will be welcome?

frankkydee:





then i will love to come to your place very soon,hope i will be welcome?

You re welcome anytime anyday

Evaberry:
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Truly I abhor bride price.

A means to sell a woman.

I wonder why women think it's okay

they are stylishly selling you off and you are there smiling and snapping picture

Don't allow any man pay ur bride price OK.