jay7:


If transportation is not the one draining your money then you need to work on your savings, set a saving target for yourself and have a purpose for saving, let say you want to buy a bag of soyabean at the rate of 25,000 naira and resell later all you have to do is deprive yourself of somethings, you can buy half bag this month then half bag next month, because it's hard at times to save money in one's account without spending but buying and reselling of most agricultural products has been helping me save my money.

shege45:
tank God u know putting it in an acct is nt a gud idea in ds period.so pls enlighten me.more n hw to go abt ds issue cus i truly have saving problem

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Re: A Massive Cry For Help by OldBeer: 12:53pm On Nov 13, 2016
@ElsonMorali, thank you for the tips, it could not have come at a better time. I'm done with school and waiting for service. Will turn this period into my alone time. Thanks again.

iyke649:
luv ur comment.

Merryglad:
thanks

hotdi:
Impressive analysis...Op u are right, I also got married earning N48,000, while sponsoring my younger sister in my state's university because my father is late. I was told not to marry yet but I know as a graduate with promising job, at 30 yrs of age it was the right time because I actually planned to get married at age 30.
Then my wife was 27 yrs old and she just finished her NYSC. Most of your plans look similar to mine, I filled her bags upfront too, I have my suit and shoes in stock too, my committee of friends sponsored my bachelors eve, DJ and MC. One of my cousin sister rented the wedding gown, a friend rented a very moderate hall of 45k, I only paid 35k for decoration. My aunt organised her friends to do the cooking after I bought the food stuff including 55k cow. My in-laws waved the dowry even though we presented it. And other favours I can't mention right now.

After the wedding, I was still able to pay my sisters school fees she is now in 300L. I occupied a one bedroom apartment at our staff quarters. Presently, my wife is doing home lesson inside my sitting room for 27 pupils paying her 3k each.
I got the job with my ND and after my wedding I was placed on Grade Level 7 using my HND, now earning 99k.

Note:
I 've always contributed financially during friends wedding in the past ranging from 5k-7k, in addition to physical assistance.
Good deeds pays. I once followed a friend to his elder brother's wedding those days, the cow purchased for the wedding became aggressive during conveyance and got loosed on the road, I took up the challenge of joining them for tracing and capturing it. I never knew the man took notice of my efforts. He is the one who paid 55k for my wedding cow.

Planning is the way out, given the economic realities in this country, as a stitch in time saves nine. You don't want to be paying children school fees at old age, do you? Then better face the hardship now and rest later. There are no comfortable time to marry...you are just deceiving yourself if you think so. Once you are matured in mind, with little resource and matured wife, you will succeed. Don't be a fool at 40, pls. Marriage usually comes with its own luck sometimes.

pocohantas:
You have lots of support system, not everyone is this lucky.
You also didn't tell us you most likely have another source of income.
You buy impulsively according to your writeup, who does that with 35-37k salary?

If they say they can't marry with 35k, leave it for them.
Wish them the best...
While they wish you same.



They are not rare. They are everywhere.
OP, is very discerning that's why he could pick her out of all the karashikas. Some of you want a girl with the so called 'slay queen' looks and body ...someone you can flaunt around as high class babe.

That's how you guys end up ignoring the modest babe because she doesn't look overly flashy. When slayqueen slays una pocket, you come to NL and shout all girls are the same.

Start observing pre-wedding pictures henceforth. Watch how modest young men go for modest young women. The best thing that can happen to anyone...male or female, is to know your size, it's not an insult...it's for ones peace of mind.

lefulefu:
actually not all slayqueens are beautiful.there are some i have seen With sagging tummy,sister mother arms and bloated looking body.the only reason they are different from normal ladies is cos of the heavy amount of makeup dey apply on their body and also cos they do runz.minus dat they just like other babes.i have seen normal ladies with little makeup but more breathtaking beautiful than the glorified slayqueens.

pocohantas:


LOL. I used that word figuratively, I wasn't really talking about beauty, but their excessive desire for expensive things. Things they can and sometimes cannot afford.

donpata:


Thats your opinion. i wear the shoe and know how it pinches. That's why i said, different stroke for different folks. read my intention well.

LorDBolton:


You seem overconfident ...

donpata:


Yes I am. Though not in my ability but through the strength of Christ which so powerfully works in me. I know I have to double up my game. I know it won't be easy. But I also know that in d next six months, my monthly income shall be greater than what I have now. How? I can't say but I believe and will act accordingly. Sooooo.... I can't wait till that time to do the needful. I must start somewhere.

GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....Irony of Life......Op @30 has 2 plots of land

@30 I cant even boast of a bag of cement

And on that other Thread som guyz want som other guyz to wait until they start Earning 700k monthly before they start talkin marriage......700k that is not even guaranteed and in d process they might end up waitin for 700k till another 25yrs......55yrs don waka be dat oo

Safiaa:
Nice thread. Not applicable to all, but inspirational and encouraging to many.

Safiaa:
what lol?

Piiko:
you aired me

Safiaa:
we'll talk tomorrow hun. Goodnight x.

missnawty:
My fiancé earns about 70k monthly, I am presently not working. He is talking abt marriage alrdy and I'm alws lookin at him with one side eyes. Will 70k b enof for us?

The plenty money for Wedding, life after wedding (atlist we Shuld stay in a two bedroom apartment, yes nah.. Wat if we have visitors?) taking care of me, him and our baby wen we later have one.. With just 70k? Let's be realistic jare!!! hiahn! How will we clear all d wedding debts and live well with 70k after wedding? I wuldnt be this bothered if I'm working sha.

He is kinda living ok for now cos he isn't married.. Inshort he is okay. Bt wen he's married nko?

Seeing op with just 35k as salary as he is stil this positive.. Well.. Well.. Well..
God Dey sha!

vladimiros:
anybody praising this OP is just as foolish as the op

op is a madman, I fvcking mad man

30k salary and he wants to get married .

op let me make u feel bad.

I am 23 and last month I made over 800k, what do I do? agro trading..simple

I started with 50k. I currently have 3 employees..

and the 800k even small sef.

op u better fing money or else..

I have warned you

Safiaa:
Nice thread. Not applicable to all, but inspirational and encouraging to many.

donpata:


dont pity me. Pray for yourself and include me too.

Simplep:
Wow what a plan,i love this! But seriously tell me in my ear,are u sure its jst d 35k? because i dnt realy see how dat will b possible...anyway it wud hv been better if ur wife have somtin doin...u guys are in on loooong run bt u will survive no matter what,thats life,by dis time next 3 years ur story go don change..i wish u guys all d best...and one thing,u are very lucky,very lucky to have so many support for ur wedding,u are not even spending too much!!..with those people around you,am very sure u will make it!!..

hotdi:
Impressive analysis...Op u are right, I also got married earning N48,000, while sponsoring my younger sister in my state's university because my father is late. I was told not to marry yet but I know as a graduate with promising job, at 30 yrs of age it was the right time because I actually planned to get married at age 30.
Then my wife was 27 yrs old and she just finished her NYSC. Most of your plans look similar to mine, I filled her bags upfront too, I have my suit and shoes in stock too, my committee of friends sponsored my bachelors eve, DJ and MC. One of my cousin sister rented the wedding gown, a friend rented a very moderate hall of 45k, I only paid 35k for decoration. My aunt organised her friends to do the cooking after I bought the food stuff including 55k cow. My in-laws waved the dowry even though we presented it. And other favours I can't mention right now.

After the wedding, I was still able to pay my sisters school fees she is now in 300L. I occupied a one bedroom apartment at our staff quarters. Presently, my wife is doing home lesson inside my sitting room for 27 pupils paying her 3k each.
I got the job with my ND and after my wedding I was placed on Grade Level 7 using my HND, now earning 99k.

Note:
I 've always contributed financially during friends wedding in the past ranging from 5k-7k, in addition to physical assistance.
Good deeds pays. I once followed a friend to his elder brother's wedding those days, the cow purchased for the wedding became aggressive during conveyance and got loosed on the road, I took up the challenge of joining them for tracing and capturing it. I never knew the man took notice of my efforts. He is the one who paid 55k for my wedding cow.

Planning is the way out, given the economic realities in this country, as a stitch in time saves nine. You don't want to be paying children school fees at old age, do you? Then better face the hardship now and rest later. There are no comfortable time to marry...you are just deceiving yourself if you think so. Once you are matured in mind, with little resource and matured wife, you will succeed. Don't be a fool at 40, pls. Marriage usually comes with its own luck sometimes.



Lmao at tracing and capturing