Are you just wedded or about to wed or you know someone that is about to get hitched? then this article is for you. There are some basic mistakes people make that actually in the long run ruins things or makes the relationship feel impossible. Yeah, we know the feeling that comes with getting married, the honeymoon tale, the paparazzi and many more. Newlyweds are always carried away doing some unnecessary things that eventually gets annoying eventually.
These are some common mistakes you should avoid as newlywed.
1. Never Get busy entertaining people: enjoy your first year of marriage. Don't spend it just allowing many people come visiting or sleeping over. Some couples actually just lodge somewhere for a while, if you don't have such money to lodge, just keep your location not too accessible for all.

2. Don't Spend it All: yes, you just got married and you feel the urge to buy everything possible. Sometimes, you just want the house to look well furnished, kitchen stocked and so on. Just take it easy. Buy the things that are important not all you see. Find time to have a savings account. DON'T just spend it all.

3. Go For What is Important: Come up with a list or scale of preference. While shopping as newlyweds, only buy what is important.Only go for events that is important. Don't do it because it looks cool or because others are doing it. Do what both of you love and want.

4. Avoid Third Party Interference: once you are just married, there are some family members, inlaws, friends, so called well wishers that is all about acting nice, gossip, settling issues, interfering in personal business. Don't give them such luxury to enjoy. The more you give them opportunity to talk, the more they get in your family issues.

5. Fighting Over Little Things: often times, couples fight over what is not so important. I hope you know you are married to this person forever. Fighting over irrelevant things and not looking for ways to settle it. Fights are bound to happen, It is just important to know how to solve it.

6. Still acting single: you are married already and should act like one. There is no point still hanging out late with friends, when you have someone waiting for you at home. Now you’ll need to negotiate how much time to spend with friends and how to maintain your former friendship while balancing that with your marriage.

7. Unrealistic Expectations: many couples going into marriage with some expectations that are so unimaginable. There is no big deal in having fantasies, wishes, expectations and so on. The key is to keep them real. Don't expect to change your partner. The only person you can change is you. Don't expect it to be a smooth ride always. Prepare for the worst, just incase.
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