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Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Qxty(f): 3:43pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Pls mature minds only......... My girl friend met a moslem guy from North in NYSC camp.....and from good frnds, dey become more closer that d guy propose a love to her, d guy refused to redeploy because of the love he had for this gal.....the guy want a relationship that will lead to marriage, but my friend is confuse cos of d religion, though she truely love d guy and she can't let go..,..pls ur kind advice is needed, tnx. |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by madridguy(m): 3:45pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Tell her to follow her heart. |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by favourmic(m): 3:48pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Qxty: How this my business? Once she is happy with that weting be my own? Mind you anything call love or marriage dont put mouth if you dont want them to put blame on you in future... |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
I won't even advise my enemy. The marriage will be a lot easier if she marries her fellow Christian. 1 Like |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by zionmde: 3:49pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Tell ur girlfriend that divorce for a muslim is very easy. But if she is a Christian once she divorces she would stay single as anything else is considered adultery in the bible. Also let her enjoy it wen the man packs home 3 more wives because maximum a muslim can marry is 4 |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by MhizzAJ(f): 3:49pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
This NYSC programme is a very wonderful one..It has a way of bringing people together (relationship wise) This is my opinion I cannot advise my enemy to marry a hausa Muslim because when the reality sets in she would know that love is not blind. She better open her eyes well Does she understand their language Does she understand their culture Does she understand their religion Can she tolerate their lifestyle Can she accept the things they do She would be so uncomfortable during family reunion or gatherings and i don't know if hausa muslim men are actually bold enough to stand up to interfering in laws She's d woman here..she's going to make so many sacrifices...is she ready for it? Marriage in Africa isn't about the couples..it's about the families involved... Let her think deeply before making this decision Congrats to her in advance 1 Like |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by dingbang(m): 4:00pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Please she should go ahead with the marriage... 1 Like |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Ninethmare: 4:02pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
When she is not mad |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by iliyande(m): 4:07pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Let her be rest assured that in the next 1-2 years she will get kishiya (second wife). Let her know this |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by PatriotTemidayo: 4:13pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Let her learn from other people's experience. There is money to make but lessons to learn. Here are few things to consider: 1. Is she okay with sharing him with three other women in nearest possible future? 2. Has she bought her praying mat for doing Sallah five times in a day? 3. Is she ready to indulge some fetish and magic process? 4. Is she ready to lose contact with her family, parents and siblings. 5. Would she be relevant in his life in the nearest 10 years? If she get the answer to these questions right, then she's good to go. Else.......... 1 Like |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Nothing bad if he is from NE but stay away from fulanis |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Qxty(f): 4:53pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:u have make a point, but she said d guy told her that if she accept to marry him, that he will take oath never to marry another woman, but for culture, we all learn from others that's y inter state marriage exist |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Chuknovski(m): 4:54pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
laiye....impissiblo |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Qxty(f): 4:57pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo:according to her, d guy want to take oath never to add another wife, and will allow her to be a Christian except she love Islam and want to join |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Qxty(f): 4:58pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Danielmoore:....Kastina but not Fulani |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Lothario(m): 5:03pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
She should not even try it because she will definitely regret it |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by MhizzAJ(f): 5:06pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Qxty: Wetin be oath...Forget about that oath thing...All that one is just to give the girl hope that he won't do otherwise ...Anything can happen in d course of that marriage. There's actually no disadvantage in marrying from another tribe as long as she can tolerate and make d necessary adjustments. looks like she's in love and confused at d same time but she has already made up her mind to marry the hausa muslim guy 1 Like |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by PatriotTemidayo: 5:14pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Qxty: My brother, I grew up in Kano. Forget the issue of allowing her to keep her faith, it is not possible. They will threaten her into Islam. And also, oath with an hausa muslim means nothing, and also, will he take oath not to divorce her. Cuz the moment he gives her "Seki uku", the oath becomes null and void. Tell her to ask from people who have been there, once she goes in, no coming out, except as a divorcee, And a battered woman. |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
No! |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by mofeoluwadassah: 5:19pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
if shes going to be happy in it.....she should go ahead now |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by TINALETC3(f): 9:20pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
No |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by blackjack21(m): 10:15pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
TOO MUCH FUCTARDS SAYING BULSHIT. HAUSA, ESPECIALLY FULANIS, ARE THE BEST MEN YOU CAN EVER GET. OP, this is a complicate case. go seek advice from detribalised people. i have seen countless of hausa and other tribe/religion, love birds get married, and the turn out to be better than even some all hausa couple. GIVE LOVE A CHANCE, WALK YOUR WALK AND LEARN YOUR LESSON. 1 Like |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by empire2017(m): 10:29pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
CAPITAL NO |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by empire2017(m): 10:31pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Qxty:CAPITAL NO |
Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by wunmi590(m): 10:41pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Until you come out to tell us you are the one, before you will get better advice 1 Like
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Re: Can U Advice Ur Sister(a Christian) To Marry A Hausa Moslem?? by Sierusvirus(m): 8:16am On Sep 18, 2017 |
If that's what she wants, she should follow her heart. |
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