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Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by LazyNairalander(m): 1:30pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
We have been close friends( very close like brother and sister) from sec school, but along the line feelings started developing (you know how it is). Two years ago we decided to take the friendship to the next level, making our relationship official by letting our parents be aware of the development! Her parents were happy about our decision likewise my parents, though they are from the same place with my mum! Her mum ''was'' very fond of me, she always want to talk to me whenever her daughter is on phone with me. We agreed to get married 3 years time by then she will be 24 and I will be 26. The emotional feelings are mutual, I love her so much and she loves me back, but she made a decision to become a musician (rapper) which is against her dads wish and she is keen on becoming one. Now I wouldn't want to marry a rapper or musician considering the way the industry is and their lifestyle, scandal, marriage issues etc. Honestly I have been to a show that she also performed in her school and what I saw was not alright to my emotions plus I have a very soft heart that get hurt easily, personally I will not like any of my child to become a musician and therefore I shouldn't give them one as a mother. Now this is where my problem is she claims that been a rapper doesn't mean she's bad and that I don't love her from the beginning that I just wanted use and dump her and leave, her mum also is a pain on the neck stating that if I truly love her daughter I will love all of her. I'd told her to quit the music thing and we are cool or I will had to leave her even though its a very tough decision I make. Now she no longer pick my calls, her mum is no longer in good terms with me and I know it a matter of time her dad will be on her side. Please I Need Advise. What do I do? I can't bear seeing my wife in all those nuddy Nigeria female artiste dress up, that will push me into some foolish imaginations, negative thoughts and sorting for retaliations. |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by IamLEGEND1: 1:32pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
You used "am" instead of "I'm". So, no advice for you. |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by taylor88(m): 1:35pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
A problem 5 bottles of alcohol can solve Nawaoo |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by LazyNairalander(m): 1:38pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1:this is very serious please! |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by LazyNairalander(m): 1:39pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
taylor88:Am not a fan of bottles |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by TINALETC3(f): 1:40pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Op I understand Hw u feel, women shud always b careful of d type of carreer dey choose, for crying out loud, dey ain't men, u ar going to b a mother and a wife. Considering d type of divorced life our celebrities ar living, am nt sure of a happy home. Well, u ar d one dat wl live wt her, if u cn endure, go ahead, if u cnt, free her. A broken relationship is beta dan a broken marriage. Wish u luck 1 Like |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by taylor88(m): 1:44pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
U don't want her to be a rapper But u can twerk ur scrotum when u hear nicki rap |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by Nobody: 1:46pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
t... 1 Like |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by ladyF(f): 1:47pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
By the time she don blow now, your mouth go change... |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by Nobody: 1:49pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
ladyF: ... |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by LazyNairalander(m): 1:55pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
ladyF:I prefer a happy family to the money she will blow out. |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by Young03(m): 1:58pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
U don't want her to be a musician and she said she wants to be a musician Bro your confused If u don't like her opinion u get the fúck out of her life and let her be |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by LazyNairalander(m): 2:08pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
TINALETC3:Thanks a lot. |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by LazyNairalander(m): 2:10pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
bluetrails7:Appreciate big time. |
Re: Am Confuse Between Her And Her Career. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
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