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What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 2:15pm On Sep 07, 2022
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by donaldking100: 2:18pm On Sep 07, 2022
dump her sorry ass.
don't make the same mistake that i made by SIMPishly forgiving her & accepting her back, because few months later she still cheated on me again.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Carcholce: 2:18pm On Sep 07, 2022
Wahala!!

Take heart my dear.

The earlier you know a woman’s pant can go off anytime, any day, the better for you.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Sep 07, 2022
I have stopped chooking mouth in boyfriend and girlfriend matter. Please carry your cross, when you were enjoying and having your own sex with her you did not inform us. Don’t stress yourself over a cheat, dust yourself up and move on.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Carcholce: 2:21pm On Sep 07, 2022
Rozross:
I have stopped chooking mouth in boyfriend and girlfriend matter. Please carry your cross


Please you have to chuck mouth in this one. Don’t shy away from condemning what the lady did. grin

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 2:21pm On Sep 07, 2022
Carcholce:
Wahala!!

Take heart my dear.

The earlier you know a woman’s pant can go off anytime, any day, the better for you.

THAT pant goes off times you don't expect

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by yomi007k(m): 2:21pm On Sep 07, 2022


Wait, do people still fall in love?

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Sep 07, 2022
Carcholce:



Please you have to chuck mouth in this one. Don’t shy away from condemning what the lady did. grin
I’ve modified my post and chook mouth small.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Finisher07(m): 2:25pm On Sep 07, 2022
Guy why are you personalizing a public hoe?
Make una try de get sense Abeg

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 2:35pm On Sep 07, 2022
Finisher07:
Guy why are you personalizing a public hoe?
Make una try de get sense Abeg

if she is public, i can bet it that all girls are public hoe.

She was so decent. So even decent ones can OFF pant when no one is looking

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by incandescentena: 2:37pm On Sep 07, 2022
Forgive her and move on!!

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Hezzyluv: 2:37pm On Sep 07, 2022
You have caught her red handed. Just play along with her and dump her in due time.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Carcholce: 2:39pm On Sep 07, 2022
hotwax:


THAT pant goes off times you don't expect


This is the exact way I dated one lady while I was in school. She come to my place for drawing tutorial.

The tutorial session usually ends in 15 to 20min due to her lack of attention, the next 3 hours that follows is body massage and banging fellowship.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Vinnie2000(m): 2:46pm On Sep 07, 2022
OP, Pele..
You have yourself to Blame sad
You Help Naija Ladies By Giving dem Good Diccking or Urgent 5k!
NOT with Business Ideas or Career Improvements Talks!
They will be Like, U be my Papa

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 2:48pm On Sep 07, 2022
Vinnie2000:


OP, Pele..

You have yourself to Blame sad

You Help Naija Ladies By Giving dem Good Diccking or Urgent 5k!

NOT with Business Ideas or Career Improvements Talks!

They will be Like, U be my Papa

This is dating a LovePeddler

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by nightfox01(m): 2:49pm On Sep 07, 2022
OP don't worry you are a SIMPle guy nothing do you forgive her she will not do it again

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Finisher07(m): 2:49pm On Sep 07, 2022
Just play along, but Note that,a cheater will always cheat,no matter how you cares for her.thats a reality

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Persephone1: 3:05pm On Sep 07, 2022
cheesy

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Persephone1: 3:12pm On Sep 07, 2022
Carcholce:
Wahala!!

Take heart my dear.

The earlier you know a woman’s pant can go off anytime, any day, the better for you.
Just as a man's pants go down. grin grin.

How you all are conveniently able to assume the position of moral judges of the offences you are also guilty of amazes me.

Do these ladies get intimate with woods?

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Vinnie2000(m): 3:17pm On Sep 07, 2022
hotwax:


This is dating a LovePeddler


See dis one. undecided

You have NOT learned Anything, abi

Ladies do not Like their Boyfriends giving dem Plenty Advices and Guidance...

They want more of Romance and Sex.

Just like someone here has said, in my University Days, There was a fine Girl in my Department whom i Always encouraged to read.
One day, She decided to follow me to read in our Facaulty library.
Suddenly, This Babe just close her Books and stared deeply into my Eyes.

If It was in Night and not Afternoon, You know what would have Happened Next!

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Vinnie2000(m): 3:28pm On Sep 07, 2022
Persephone1:
Its just sex!

A woman can love you and still have sex with other guys . Women are not always emotionally attached to who they have sex with. Forgive her, pray for her and try to win her back.

May the universe align in your favour. grin

You are VERY WRONG on this!

Ladies Always have Love or Romantic Weakness for that Guy they Cheated with!

Particularly If the Guy fuccked dem Well!

They are Always Emotional Attached.

If a Marriage Breaks up, the Man looks for New Girls to Fucck.
BUT the Woman tries to hookup with her Ex Lovers or Boyfriends to Fucck!

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Mcslize: 3:29pm On Sep 07, 2022
hotwax:


if she is public, i can bet it that all girls are public hoe.

She was so decent. So even decent ones can OFF pant when no one is looking

Brother are you a learner? Decent kuo. If I sound you eh!

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by blinking001(m): 3:30pm On Sep 07, 2022
Take your L and move on. Stop stressing yourself over a Hoe

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Persephone1: 3:31pm On Sep 07, 2022
Vinnie2000:


You are VERY WRONG on this!

Ladies Always have Love or Romantic Weakness for that Guy they Cheated with!

Particularly If the Guy fuccked dem Well!

They are Always Emotional Attached.

If a Marriage Breaks up, the Man looks for New Girls to Fucck.
BUT the Woman tries to hookup with her Ex Lovers or Boyfriends to Fucck!
grin grin grin

Your outburst is sweeting me grin

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Lordbinsmar: 3:40pm On Sep 07, 2022
grin
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Magnoliaa(f): 3:49pm On Sep 07, 2022
Mens will just wake up and decide that the day is just as good as any to drag women through the mud.

E te siwaju.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by techWriter3: 4:10pm On Sep 07, 2022
THAT hoot comes off times you don't expect
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Chris2863(m): 4:31pm On Sep 07, 2022
Persephone1:
Its just sex!

A woman can love you and still have sex with other guys . Women are not always emotionally attached to who they have sex with. Forgive her, pray for her and try to win her back.

May the universe align in your favour. grin
opposite Oga

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Persephone1: 4:35pm On Sep 07, 2022
Chris2863:
opposite Oga
At least you no hyperventilate like that other Oga grin grin
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by pansophist(m): 4:38pm On Sep 07, 2022
Vinnie2000:


You are VERY WRONG on this!

Ladies Always have Love or Romantic Weakness for that Guy they Cheated with!

Particularly If the Guy fuccked dem Well!

They are Always Emotional Attached.

If a Marriage Breaks up, the Man looks for New Girls to Fucck.
BUT the Woman tries to hookup with her Ex Lovers or Boyfriends to Fucck!

Youre hearing for the horses mouth, and you're still doubting. grin

Women will nack you and forget about you, its not a male thing, but a human thing. Usually what you said works when a woman just started having sex, romeo and juliet things, youngies kinda love.

But as they grow older and receiving advances from all angles and of course, nacking some of these men, then their sexual elasticity reduces. They get less emotionally attached to sex.

And I don't know which world you live in, but the one that I'm staying called earth, these chicks will nack you and delete your number after they left the door. You think say women na your mate? grin

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 4:38pm On Sep 07, 2022
hotwax:
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.
dump her,this little opportunity she has already had sex..if you give her 1 week a porn she go act.dump her before she dumps you.i speak from experience as the experience master.if you like no hear o

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