So I moved into an apartment and my roommate another naija girl has this boyfriend, I think they have been together a year plus. When he comes over (he lives less than a block away), and his girl is not home but I am and we'll lie down on the couch (not like on each other o but rather on opposite ends of the couch) and watch  TV together. Other times when he comes over and she has gone to bed, I am in the living room, he comes and we watch TV till about 3/4 am or whenever I go to bed.

I never thought anything about it but another friend pointed it out to me so I am wondering is he flirting or it is just an overreaction by my friend

Watching TV together = Flirting?

you are the one flirting with him ,
I think you should read your post all over again and see for yourself ,

1. lying down on the couch with him? no matter the position
2. he stays with you 3 to 4am watching TV? (is that all you do, and are you sure)
3. does your roommate know about this?

you are flirting

Lol, look within yourself and ask yourself that question again.

Set your boundaries, and you will be fine.

[size=13pt]cos u watch teevee together ??
as far as you dont have ulterior motives
nd he doesnt creep up on u or play touchie during movie hours
i guess u are good. . . . . wat is wrong with being innocently friendly? [/size]

Just make sure you dont watch ppornn 2gether.

chamotex:

Just make sure you dont watch ppornn 2gether.

All na TV.

But really I think the poster is attracted to the guy and she is feeling guilty.
Poster confess

@poster
did i miss a part or something?!

WHERE IS THIS FLIRTING THAT SEEM TO HAVE OCCURRED?!

sitting on the couch with you?! watching TV with you at 3am while his gf is sleeping?
this guy has been coming there and watching TV before you moved there so he is comfortable in this house as he probably has always been.

here is a clue about flirting: "talking to you" is a good start, "noticing" that you are in the room or looking at you also would greatly help!!! LOL

asking the question here on NL means that you may be interested/attracted by the guy because if you didnt think any of this bull crap then you wouldnt enquire about this and would continue live your life like/since nothing had happened.

anamgirl:

So I moved into an apartment and my roommate another naija girl has this boyfriend, I think they have been together a year plus. When he comes over (he lives less than a block away), and his girl is not home but I am and we'll lie down on the couch (not like on each other o but rather on opposite ends of the couch) and watch  TV together. Other times when he comes over and she has gone to bed, I am in the living room, he comes and we watch TV till about 3/4 am or whenever I go to bed.

I never thought anything about it but another friend pointed it out to me so I am wondering is he flirting or it is just an overreaction by my friend

as a grown up u shld know when a man is flirting with u. did he touch u, did he try to keep an ungodly eye contact with u? what abt his body language? if there is nothing there, dont make a mountain out of an ant hill abeg

Girl do you want something to happen because "thus far" it looks like harmless fun to me? Your friend is a brave girl because I will not let any female friends within a 10000 mile radius of my man

Ebonyeyes:

Girl do you want something to happen because "thus far" it looks like harmless fun to me? Your friend is a brave girl because I will not let any female friends within a 10000 mile radius of my man

insecure as usual

na2day?:

insecure as usual

Sue me, while you at it please kick rocks. Thanks.

Ebonyeyes:

Sue me, while you at it please kick rocks. Thanks.

sure will, where can i cast the rocks on u?

it seems like your trying to steal your roomates brother watching t.v. does not mean that he's flirting with you

There's something about hanging out a lot with another woman's boyfriend when she's not there. Its only a matter of time before the devil whispers in one of you's ears. Probably his.
Next he'll suggest you watch Tv with the lights off or something. It always starts innocently. Does he not have Tv in his house? If his GF has turned in, maybe its time for him to go or turn in too.

@ poster

He may not even give a damn about you.

spoilt:

There's something about hanging out a lot with another woman's boyfriend when she's not there. Its only a matter of time before the devil whispers in one of you's ears. Probably his.  
Next he'll suggest you watch Tv with the lights off or something. It always starts innocently. Does he not have Tv in his house? If his GF has turned in, maybe its time for him to go or turn in too.

is it the guy that has a higher probability of being the one the devil will use?   u women are so sexist!  

something is about to happen between u two.

Situation might get critical. I think boy is in to you as much as you are in to him. Or I sense fairy tales. This ain't nollywood girl get a reality check up on it.

so watching tv with the opposite sex is a crime.

hold up o, what are you you guys watching till 4am. i better not be them viagra and extenze commercials

chamotex:

Watching TV together = Flirting?

na2day?:

as a grown up u shld know when a man is flirting with u. did he touch u, did he try to keep an ungodly eye contact with u? what abt his body language? if there is nothing there, dont make a mountain out of an ant hill abeg

who said she is grown up~

190:

who said she is grown up~

my apologizes, e bi like say u know am well well

bawomolo:

so watching tv with the opposite intimacy is a crime.

hold up o, what are you you guys watching till 4am. i better not be them viagra and extenze commercials

SEUN!!

ifedy:


SEUN!!

Yes, how can i help you?
opposite sex

elowa:

Yes, how can i help you?
opposite intimacy

Is that really you Seun 

ifedy:

Is that really you Seun 

I can confidently make an educative guess that your full name is Thomas Ifedy 

elowa:

I can confidently make an educative guess that your full name is Thomas Ifedy

Voice of Jacob
Skin of Essau

@poster
Do you have your own fella? go get one and watch tele with him till 4am
and stop lazying about with someone elses's man.

lying in opposite ends of the sofa; hope ur not wearing mini skirts or them
evil nighties.
Tomorrow the man will stray with ur consent and the poor girlfriend will come here and call men dogs.
WOMEN!!!

There are a lot of things you people will and can do together

@OP read ur post again. I guess u are trying to flirt also. Maybe agro has been holding u 4 u to come here and post such It seems u are interested in ur room mate bf