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Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Lalas247(f): 7:45pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni:You see this is what men do .. promise heaven and earth make you do things for love ... but I think you should first speak to him even if you need to cry do what it takes so you can be sure it's not you .. look you not getting pregnant could be his fault a lot of Africans just blame the wife and most cases it's low sperm count, lifestyle a lot of factors that will hinder this process .. Don't talk to his mum it's the worst thing to do .. talk to him his response will let you know what steps to take .. also if he isn't having sex when you are ovulating chances are baby will never come .. Stay strong Mynd44 lalasticlala advice needed 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 7:47pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Lalas247: Thank u so much dear |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by IamLEGEND1: 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni:O.k Now, don't listen to lalas247 or the other women saying he definitely has a Mistress. When a man won't eat your food, trust me, the problem runs far deeper than him getting tired of you or having a Mistress. He obviously wants a child very much, so he blames you for the fertility issues you guys have been having...... He probably feels like you've robbed him of that opportunity because while not the desired outcome, but let's face it, total sterility is still a very possible reality for you. Sit him down, talk to him. Show him how enthusiastic you are about having more kids..... Make an appointment with a fertility doctor and drag him along with you. Your husband is obviously not very forthcoming when it comes to how he feels at the moment and quite honestly, is being a little too bitter about everything... Hell, maybe you can get a gym membership card and whip yourself back into shape, take him along too on weekends if he's started growing a pot belly. It'll at the very least help you two reestablish whatever bond that was lost. Oh, and wear sexy shit_around the house. Niggahz love that_shit. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1: Lol...u got me smiling thank u so much. I'll do whatever I can to work things out. Tho I get scared whenever I think of speaking to him. I'm scared he might hit me again 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Lalas247(f): 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1: but I said the same thing ... only that side chic is a reality so don't gas her into thinking it can't happen hence why talking first is the best option ... wearing sexy lingerie won't fix It may help but won't solve the main issue .. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Lalas247(f): 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni:Hold up He has hit you before Well the plot thickens .... 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 8:10pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Lalas247: Yeah he's not a bad person, he's cute and sweet but I think he got really upset and couldn't control himself that day.. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Lalas247(f): 8:11pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni:Hmmmmm I can't even .... Speechless right now Iamlegend1 and u say no side chic ok o .... |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by IamLEGEND1: 9:07pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni:Wait. What? He has hit you before? First, don't try to defend his actions because it is never okay to hit your wife. Any female acquaintance i have, even more so if we've got a thing going on between us knows that physical violence is not something I'd even consider......and I don't even consider myself a nice guy. I go out of my way to make sure a woman knows that I do not pose a physical threat to her in any way,Under any circumstance. ........unless of cause she tries to smother me in my sleep or something like that, then I'd choke her to death in self defense. So, it's not okay that your husband has crossed a line so much that you are afraid to speak freely around him. You'll do well to bring that up when next you have your heart to heart. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by IamLEGEND1: 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Lalas247:The thing shock me too o! And sure, a side chick is still very much a possibility but it isn't by any means a foregone conclusion. Obviously they have more than a few problems between them...... That much is clear now. My point is she should focus more on trying to put the pep back in their marriage and see how it goes instead of turning into the stereotypical paranoid wife and risk alienating the husband even further. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 9:17pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
It was meant to be a mutual relationship, but you alienated him. It's high time you raised the issue and seek his forgiveness and the only way he can let you know he has forgiven you, is by performing his matrimonial duty to you. The number of issues you listed and the kind of man you described makes it logical to believe that your husband has made a decision and the responses you are seeing, are strategic to hit back at your solo decisions. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Homeboiy: 9:19pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
some are blind to have seen the cause of your problems . Your husband no longer makes love to you because u can't get pregnant again. The pill u took has destroyed ur womb Next is for him to throw u out.. U went and did family planning without Hus consent. When u where collecting diicks from ur bfs u never reasoned of karma |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 9:29pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Homeboiy: What the hell are u saying? 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 9:31pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1: Thank u so much |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by IamLEGEND1: 9:47pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni:You're welcome..... Good luck And i really hope everything works out between you and your husband. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by jashar(f): 9:52pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
tollahni: Hi hun.... Is that the cause of the fertility issues? Have you been treated properly and does he know about this? Sisto, never make excuses for a man that hits a woman, not to talk of his wife. It's always a mistake the 1st time...they never mean to do it... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 10:12pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
G jashar: Yeah and the fact that I stayed on fp for years.I understand sister but I don't think he'll ever try it again |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Lalas247(f): 10:36pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
IamLEGEND1:True dat |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by khristal87(m): 11:04pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
[quote author=tollahni post=60730732]Good evening guys I usually come on here to seek advise because I have no one to talk to... My husband has been acting weird for the past one month. He has refused to Make love to me, Whenever I ask he's always giving out excuses,like he's exhausted, or not in the mood. We're trying to have a baby but I think he's given up on me. We have a daughter and I initially did something bad nd I've been unable to conceive since then. While this issue was going on, he was always so nice to me even when I went to Do some Family planning shit without his consent, he wasn't really upset but now he's acting really weird. He comes home late at times and would sometimes refuse my food, tho he plays with me once in a while(no sex involved) love my husband so much and I can't bear to lose him..Please Guys I need advice..i would have spoken to his mom about it but she doesn't really like me..[/quote Pretend like u dnt care, try to mke him jelous once again... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Dyt(f): 11:17pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
A smart woman killing her husband by giving excuses for him yet putting up the things he's done to her Smart move He's loving and sweet Yet he hit you Infected you and he doesn't have a side chic What else did I read? Sisisioge Epppp me 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 2:15am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Op is a troll. Possibly that demented whywhyogun person. @dyt, baby girl. Kilon supin 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Dyt(f): 2:35am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Marshmallows: I dey like dele |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Acidosis(m): 5:39am On Sep 23, 2017 |
tollahni:you had an extra marital affair? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 5:59am On Sep 23, 2017 |
tollahni: Lol sexism from the mother, a girl now has less value than a boy, wait is that even sexism can't you be sexist against your own gender, Anyone care to help with a word when you are biased against your own type. Damn I was gonna give some advice but this dilemma has kicked my curiosity or quest for finding a definition for this to hyper-mode sorry dear. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by raumdeuter: 6:02am On Sep 23, 2017 |
tollahni: Who infected you? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by sisisioge: 6:04am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Dyt: Well...loving eyes never see. Let's just hope everything settles alright for her. The babe don too suffer . |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 7:10am On Sep 23, 2017 |
raumdeuter: He did but I'm not really making it a big deal because I don't know how he got infected |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by femi4: 8:07am On Sep 23, 2017 |
tollahni:you cheated on him, he's doing same to you now. Its not easy to forgive and forget |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 8:18am On Sep 23, 2017 |
tollahni: Hmmmmm most victims usually talk like this. Oh well 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 8:19am On Sep 23, 2017 |
femi4: She never said she cheated, how did you conclude that ? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Eketem: 8:24am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Your husband is treating an STD 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Ryabcool(m): 9:13am On Sep 23, 2017 |
lol Having taken time to go through her profile, I discovered the real cause of the problem. https://www.nairaland.com/3859507/husband-hit-me#57493868Perspectives: 4 Likes |
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