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Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
agbonkamen:wow.. lovely name.. i thought u ar an edo lady,cos i av lovely frnds from there.. all d same,am a graduate of microbiology from ekiti state University. nice metin u |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 8:29pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
thotianna: Honestly this is the only truth am seeing right here. He infected her with STD, isn't man enough to get both of them treated. And untop that, he is trying to crumble her emotionally by not having sex with her and eating her food. What kind of husband is that sef? Op is in a weak position in her own home that's why shes overlooking his excesses. Op, your husband has a mistress outside, whether it sounds pleasing or not but that's the plain truth. He's done trying for a baby with u and he's optimistic his side chick could get pregnant. Wow! I don't know how u will be able to turn the table around and make him the loving husband he used to be, cos this scenario as it is now, has become difficult and cunning to arrive at a decisive solution. And the solution lies with your husband. Until he becomes willing again to fulfil his role as your husband and be cooperative , instead of this cat and mouse game he's playing with u, then Every other thing else is just a waste of time. One thing is sure, your husband is cunning. Sorry lemme rephrase the words I said up there. Your husband is not cunning, in fact he's responding to the kind of games uv playing all these while. I read some of the op former threads and I realised both of them have trust issues and fidelity issues. So op don't Play victim here abeg. Retrace your steps and just be transparent to your husband shikena. No need crying foul here 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by agbonkamen(f): 8:02am On Oct 19, 2017 |
aro1:Lol I am from Edo State o |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 19, 2017 |
agbonkamen:i thought has much.. gud mrn.. hw was ur nyt |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 10:16am On Oct 19, 2017 |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by iyisco2001(m): 11:41am On Oct 19, 2017 |
Summary of the Op's story The OP's situation is the main reason why I never wanted to get married early. They met at 16, they got married at 21 and had a kid at about that age. She unilateraly made a decision not to have another so soon, so she went for family planning without the support of the husband. Dude got really pissed, started giving her attitude and she went ahead flirting with some dude. Dude stupidly went ahead to break his family(aiding what the wife has done instead of being in charge of his family) by getting another girl pregnant. Now, their family is broken. She cant believe the hubby went ahead to have another kid outside marriage, a child which she never wanted from the hubby for about 5yrs. Hubby also is fathering two childs from diff mothers(this kind of exams, you do without collecting results). Lessons: Never take decisions behind your spouses, not important decisions, Always resolve all issues you have internally, without inteference from outside sources. Never do what will hurt your spouse. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by agbonkamen(f): 11:45am On Oct 19, 2017 |
aro1:morning |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 11:49am On Oct 19, 2017 |
TINALETC3: Mogbe !!! Offer to bath him? he's paralyzed? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 19, 2017 |
iyisco2001: Serious 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Alennsar(f): 8:23pm On Oct 19, 2017 |
my own advice is for you to forgive and forget. please you can make it work. and glory be to God you're pregnant again. if you still love him try and work things out. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by arnold123: 10:45pm On Oct 19, 2017 |
agbonkamen:banana wan fall on you soooo!!! hmmmm 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Cannicus: 4:37am On Oct 20, 2017 |
tollahni: What if its a boy? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by agbonkamen(f): 6:14am On Oct 20, 2017 |
arnold123:only Money is only allowed to fall on me not banana |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by 1miccza: 1:30pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
agbonkamen: As in eh from people experience the thing come dey be like trap for my eye now oo |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by 1miccza: 2:29pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
tollahni: Then its safe to say he's seeing someone else with his mother's backing. Just pray and try to talk to him and adjust. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 6:23pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
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Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Cannicus: 6:29pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
tollahni: It really shouldn't, but it might score you points with the mum. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 6:29pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
iyisco2001: I understand, thank you |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 6:30pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Cannicus: U saying I should go to her? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Cannicus: 6:31pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
tollahni: I'm saying keep the baby. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 6:34pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
Cannicus: Really? I don't plan on going for abortion, I can't do that but I'm done with kay and his family. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Cannicus: 7:07pm On Oct 20, 2017 |
tollahni: Oh OK. That's nice to know. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by arnold123: 12:12am On Oct 21, 2017 |
agbonkamen:you have to take plenty banana in your well hole if you desire money excessively!, #truth be told 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Dunasy, I don't think I have a husband anymore, |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Cannicus: What's the meaning of this nonsense? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 6:05pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
tollahni: Madam, try to sort your marital problems outside nairaland, it is not every family secret you will expose. You don't even know if some people giving you advice here are sane or not. If you have a mum or trust worthy aunt you can try to seek counsel from them. Grow up 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Cannicus: 6:21pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
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Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Cannicus: 6:24pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Pidgin2: Na you sabi. Its not my fault that you are too dense to extrapolate, meaning: fill in the gap(s) or connect the dots. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by dunasy(f): 9:11pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
tollahni: I really wish you well...have you spoken to your mum and dad? you need all the emotional support you can get and also need to be strong for your daughter & unborn child. You should start taking prenatal drugs already.... |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Galaxydon1(m): 2:33am On Oct 23, 2017 |
Headlesschicken:stop smoking weed |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by Nobody: 4:36pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
dunasy: Hi, thank u sis, my mom understands but my dad doesn't .. I 'll be fine.. thank u so much |
Re: My Husband Keeps Avoiding Me by iyisco2001(m): 5:46pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
tollahni:Be strong. |
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