In the modern world today, the phone has become more than a communicative device as it abhors thoughts and secrets of its owners. This is much revelatory in the present age of social media where a single post can lead to an outburst of thoughts and opinions. A man or a woman in a relationship that has issues are often scheming for that chance to get a hand on their partner’s phone. This is often not the best choice but it has continued to dominate minds and feelings of people.

Trust, that evergreen ingredient that keeps a relationship in the balance is gradually eroding in the present world. The issue with trust is that it is not seen but it can be felt or thought of. Most people who go after their partner’s phone are struggling with trust issues. It is a hard fact that checking up on your partner’s phone is not a sure proof to discover any evidence or discern their true personality. The ill-effect of checking up your partner’s phone has a psychological edge that may be detrimental in the long run.

Trust issues do not start in marriage as partners are often in the know before they commit. The decision to go on with a relationship that reeks of dishonesty and conflict is not ideal for any person but if you insist then you must accept the reality. The phone due to its portability and importance to its user therefore becomes an appetizing option for the prying other. This is a choice which will only lead to depression and worry.

There may now arise a question how one should relate with their partner’s phone. If you must operate your partner’s phone, then you must be willing to access it with an open and honest mind rather than as an investigative move. On the other hand, if you are only interested in operating your partner’s phone because it is the best way to monitor their movement, then it is very improper and not healthy for the future of your relationship.

NB: This may not apply to all but most especially for singles who desire more from their relationship.
Written by me.