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Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 5:33pm On Sep 27, 2017
1. They tend to disappear when you need them most.

2. They frequently gossip about other friends to you (so they likely gossip about you as well).

3. They try to make you feel guilty or use passive aggressive behaviors when things don't go their way.

4. They have a hard time being happy for your successes and achievements.

5. They are disinterested in getting to know you on a deeper level.

6. They put you down for your opinions or beliefs.

7. They judge your flaws and mistakes harshly.

8. They rarely initiate get-togethers or calls to connect.

9. They always turn the conversation back to themselves.

10. They never stand up for you in front of others.

11. They frequently break promises or “forget” commitments.

12. They have a heightened sense of self-importance and entitlement.

13. They use backhanded compliments to confuse and wound you.

14. They say things to embarrass or shame you in front of others.

15. They call you only when it appears they have nothing better to do.

16. They are quick to take offense or get angry with you.

17. They hold your past mistakes over you and won't let them go.

18. They infect you and everyone else with their bad mood or ill temper.

19. They forget the important things going on in your life.

20. They can easily drop you as a friend when it suits them.


Often these fake friends are selfish, immature, or unenlightened people who haven't learned emotional intelligence and don't understand what it takes to be a good friend.

Sometimes people grow and become more self-aware with age and maturity, and you may find a fake friend can evolve into a true friend over time.

In the meantime, it's important that you protect your emotional well-being by creating boundaries around these friendships or by stepping away from them completely.

If you find your friend is causing too much unhappiness and draining your emotional energy, then you may need to take a break and seek out other people who are more like-minded and willing to invest in a real friendship.

Like any good relationship, a solid friendship requires effort and commitment from both people. You deserve the kind of friend you want to be to others.

Sometimes it's hard to know if a friend is sincere and trustworthy. It's helpful to know the signs of fake friends vs. real friends.

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Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by paiz: 5:35pm On Sep 27, 2017
Weldone op
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 5:38pm On Sep 27, 2017
paiz:
Weldone op
tnk u bros warch out for dem smiler wit u hear insult u elsewere
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 5:39pm On Sep 27, 2017
this to who it may concern
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 5:45pm On Sep 27, 2017
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Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 6:41pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:
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guy I feel pains u see I neva blog anybody name a girl got me mad a girl I neva expect curse me a lot in a public room a girl I tot is my friend prooved as a back stabbed not a joke I always say am leavin dis rums I stay cos of those I tot are friend. I see dey aint worth it
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
guy I feel pains u see I neva blog anybody name a girl got me mad a girl I neva expect curse me a lot in a public room a girl I tot is my friend prooved as a back stabbed not a joke I always say am leavin dis rums I stay cos of those I tot are friend. I see dey aint worth it

really bruv? shocked shocked

who was that?
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 6:47pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


really bruv? shocked shocked

who was that?
forget it bro am done wit dis fuccking room
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 6:59pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
forget it bro am done wit dis fuccking room

ahan........was it that serious

dont leave o biko........sad

wait do mean romance section or nl in general?
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 7:15pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


ahan........was it that serious

dont leave o biko........sad

wait do mean romance section or nl in general?
romance roooms too much kids witout sence
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 7:55pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
romance roooms too much kids witout sence

lol
true word man

what rooms u gonna frequent now?
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:00pm On Sep 27, 2017
Mtcheeeeeew
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:00pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


lol
true word man

what rooms u gonna frequent now?
Masturbating room grin
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 8:15pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
Masturbating room grin

lmfao cheesy cheesy
no let jakan hear you o cheesy cheesy

so masturbating rooms dey nl............
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by hanassholesolo: 8:16pm On Sep 27, 2017
So all my friends are fake friends?
Everyone i know exhibits one or two of the above listed.
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:17pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


lmfao cheesy cheesy
no let jakan hear you o cheesy cheesy

so masturbating rooms dey nl............
Jaky will create that one and also be mod there
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 8:21pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
Jaky will create that one and also be mod there

cheesy cheesy
i swear dis cracked me up real hard cheesy cheesy.........................hope you know my niggie jakan would come for your head later


meanwhile how're you doing today? smiley
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:23pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


cheesy cheesy
i swear dis cracked me up real hard cheesy cheesy.........................hope you know my niggie jakan would come for your head later


meanwhile how're you doing today? smiley
I know how to calm the old man
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 8:25pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


lol
true word man

what rooms u gonna frequent now?
politics or dating sports

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Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:26pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
politics or dating sports
dating sports?
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 8:27pm On Sep 27, 2017
hanassholesolo:
So all my friends are fake friends?
Everyone i know exhibits one or two of the above listed.
be careful abt dose u call friend
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 8:29pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
Masturbating room grin
madam pls kip off
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:35pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
madam pls kip off
Old man, how you dey?
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 8:36pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
I know how to calm the old man

lol
lets hope for ur sake you can do that grin

so ermm when do i get to meet the "strong woman" you see "in ur mirror" in person
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:38pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


lol
lets hope for ur sake you can do that grin

so ermm when do i get to meet the "strong woman" you see "in ur mirror" in person
Lol, anytime you visit Port Harcourtgrin
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Nobody: 8:55pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
Lol, anytime you visit Port Harcourtgrin

grin grin
lemme start making plans then grin

have you gone to meet ur younget sis now? smiley
or its not time for omugwor now
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 8:57pm On Sep 27, 2017
thepussyhunter:


grin grin
lemme start making plans then grin

have you gone to meet ur younget sis now? smiley
or its not time for omugwor now
They are not in PH

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Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 8:58pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
Old man, how you dey?
dont call me dat am not in d mood
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 9:00pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
dont call me dat am not in d mood
Last time you said you're sick and asked about your health. You didn't reply me. Papa, what is wrong?
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 10:29pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
Last time you said you're sick and asked about your health. You didn't reply me. Papa, what is wrong?
pls dear am in pains tonite dont want to chat
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by Oyindidi(f): 10:30pm On Sep 27, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
pls dear am in pains tonite dont want to chat
What pains? Tell me
Re: Some Sign Of A Fake Friend by jaksmillioniar: 11:01pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
What pains? Tell me
one useless girl here make me mad dont want to put her name I just maturity ignore but she insult my mum

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