She was a family friend to us all. But my elder brother was always around her. People started speculating they were dating. She didn't call it a relationship but friendship. I even think they have had sex before.
Surprisingly she accepted to date my elder brother who just returned to the country. He had no knowledge of her previous relationship. She didn't say.
The cat was let out of the bag when my brothers were boasting about their girlfriend and found out it was the same person

foolishness

Op I think it very naive of u to be looking for wisdom in such occurrence..!!

Very Stupid move.

who does that

happend to me before, was dating this babe without my brother knowing and not with my whole heart shaa and later I notice she and my brother are now talking better, finally I read my bro whatsapp msg with her and notice they are actually dating now.... I had to let her go cuz I can't let her think she got two on her palms and my regret I didn't f*ck her cuz I was away the period... Girls ehh

Just use her for family dinner, let every man take his share

Great wisdom, u should let yuh father test her too...