Saintsammurai:
Its like you are just dishing out my mindset.. I told a friend of mine that nothing on earth will make me get married to a poor lady, and he said it means i want to marry for money.. LOL obviously he and many other guys have not really seen the bigger picture of life.. yours is even better, as for me,she must be industrious and must come from atleast an averagely rich home or she should atleast make her little amount of money that makes her to take care of herself.....Nothing for broke ladies...I believe in that school of thought, to always choose ladies that are in your class or atleast close to your class..

Saintsammurai:
Any guy that get married to a student, is taking a risk.. Such marriage dnt last..

Safiaa:
Yeah. I agree with what the Op is saying, but in real life its not practical. Most guys just don't really care, when it comes down to it. Thats why successful women tend to be single and slayers tend to be married. Men care more about physical appearance more than anything else, and i just wish they would admit that. Instead of being in denial and practising what they don't preach.

sunshineG:
where are those ladies always bashing broke guys...your yansh is outside come and defend yourself...

Although money moves
Therefore, it is not reasonable to judge a person's wealth or riches by the amount of money In the bank at a particular time.... Nevertheless, I am against the mindset of ladies who always view marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme.

So fire on my boss
Cc thepussyhunt.er this could be interesting

thepussyhunter:


this is soooo true man

prophet saintsammurai i totally agree with you boss

i would never let any lady take me as her means of escaping poverty.................

Tahra:
I agree with you op but the problem is,when a female is really successful,most men get intimidated.Some of them become petty,short-tempered and jealous if their partners(s'pposedly the weaker sex) have fatter bank accounts.So they go for the ones they can easily control.

sunshineG:
any guy intimidated by a lady's success, sould not call himself a man

I came from a family where ladies are extremely successful... so I don't think it should be extremely intimidating

sunshineG:

Where are them broke guy slayers

thepussyhunter:


hehheheh
they're prolly planning a comeback

lemme pack my here first just incase something goes down here

Saintsammurai:
IF he propose and you love him, then you should accept.. The two of you with your various sources of income, can build an empire..

Rukkydelta:

Thanks dear

thepussyhunter:


this is soooo true man

prophet saintsammurai i totally agree with you boss

i would never let any lady take me as her means of escaping poverty.................

Saintsammurai:
I see some ladies online, calling guys broke, you see a lady that still depends on her parents or boyfriend, calling a guy that hustles hard, "broke" AND this same lady wants to get into marriage without her having any financial backup to assist the man.. I know that a man should cater for his supposed wife, but any lady that do not have atleast 50,000 naira in her bank account, dont deserve to be taken to the alter,, You cannot just pray for a marriage with 5,000 naira bank balance... Atleast even if the man wont ask for your money, but you should atleast have a saving that you can use in assisting your man.. Except if as a lady, you are getting married to a sugar daddy... So as a lady, you should atleast have a reasonable cash in the bank before you talk about marriage with your lover.. You need to contribute finanicially in your own little ways....

lazeal:


50,000 naira is too small na. Some can raise that money forking dicks. If non can't boast of 500,000 they should stay far away from me. I could help a serious minded lady who takes my relationship with her serious as priority to raise that money.

I can't marry a liability even if she is the only one that loves me(which isn't possible anyways). I have grown over the years into a 100 pounds 16 foot hustling gorilla. So any lady who doesn't have traces of a hustling spirit in her can't get my attention. At best a few hang out, sex and part ways.

Future has no place for lazy bones... Empty heads. Fortune favours only value adders.

IamSINZ:



True. I was shocked when I saw the staggering figure my brothers wife has emarked earmarked as her own contribution to their wedding ceremony. How many women these days can do more than paying for the wedding cake? I'm talking about more than half a mill here.. How many?? All they do is look pretty and heap bills on the poor soul lenient enough to wife an unproductive woman! Men should know that a wife should be an asset not a liability. Basic rules in business advises advise business men not to spend more than they earn. Marrying a broke slay-princess is bad but it gets worse if she's inconsiderate and shallow.

BadBradley:

Good contribution.