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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Fratello(m): 12:17am On Oct 06, 2017
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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by AlexVal2017: 1:06am On Oct 06, 2017
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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Kingsley1000(m): 3:48am On Oct 06, 2017
masterP042:

What is this one saying?? Which research proves that masturbation causes weight loss in men? angry
some people and fallacy,it does add to weight gain
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Halogenonimisi(m): 4:49am On Oct 06, 2017
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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by nawtiebynature(f): 6:22am On Oct 06, 2017
Masturbation is much more better than having various dicks infected with STDs. Though too much of it is bad but how many guys can stay without sex for years? Let's just be sincere with ourselves, almost everybody is exposed to sexual scenes everyday.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by bigcee(m): 6:42am On Oct 06, 2017
OMOTOWO:
I have a running game online.when d game cast ,walahi a go do daf point 2..a go try change my password with the letters ggghhhhhbvgvahjshbsg ..my mumu don do for bet9ja

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Chineydum: 7:34am On Oct 06, 2017
emusmithy:
Top-Three Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them


Good day friends.

This thread is a 'commendable' and proven panacea (remedy) to the common bad habits most young people are struggling with, day to day, unknown to parents, friends or guardians.

I'm gonna be sharp and precise.

1. Masturbation (Self-Service)-
Does the name scare you? Lol. Even if it's still controlling you, look it in the face and call it by its name and say, 'I'll overcome you someday'. I pray that day comes soon.


2. Online Betting (Nairabet, Bet9ja etc)


3. Taking toxic substances (Smoking, drinking, partying etc.)


Important Question:


How did it all begin? This will help you understand the nature of that "unholy attachment" and how to "RESET the factory settings", so to speak.

- Through family/ friends?
- Through idleness?
- Via the media/internet?

OBVIOUSLY YOU FEEL IT DOESN'T KEEP ITS PROMISES OF 'pleasure extraordinaire' otherwise you won't be reading this and looking for a way to break up with it.


Masturbation

People who are today addicted went in with a good intention; "I want to abstain from sex so lemmie stick here with, self pleasure." Same for others.
They later found that out to be deceptive and addictive.
They want out.

SOLUTION FOR POINT 1

Masturbation is like a BABY (Call it Boss Baby) that feeds on three meals:

- Lusting after Curvy, busty girls OR well-built guys.

- Porn

- Idleness

You can kill the baby if you CUT THE SUPPLY of food and attention given to it.

No prayer can do that for you. Just cut it.

Most youths; Believers or Unbelievers have this as their 'soft spot'.

Speaking of 'soft spot', Man is made from the earth, clay. When water touches a part of clay, that part becomes slippery, soft. That's called SOFT SPOT. But if you shut the tap. The clay becomes hard, until whenever you put on the tap again. So put off the tap! Stop telling people your weakness. Work dirty on it until it's no more!

REAL ENGLISH: If you are a Christian, surround yourself with Godly materials. For me, I bought an MP3 tape messages of my spiritual leader and played it constantly. A day, 3 to 5 hours go to messages; while cooking, walking, working etc. Minus sleeping time. I didn't know when those teachings started driving me to BLOCK those WhatsApp girlfriends who adds no value to me other than lusty chats. obscene sites became disgusting. Looking at girls' behind reduced drastically; What's the point?

That's what I call SHUTTING THE TAP or STARVING THE BABY.
It works all the time!

I even discovered that when I spent so much time playing video games on my laptop, the urge for self-servicing comes: What's the Link, I thought? (You've got to be smarter.)

IDLENESS of hands invites Satan, I found out.

I deleted all my laptop games (PS 4). Cut my pads and dumped them.
That even kept 'useless' friends away.
I now use my time wisely to pursue my goals.
Talk about ruthless self-discipline.

Of course, I had enough time for Prayer and Hard, Profitable work too.


Solution For Point 2


Betting (Bet9ja, Nairabet etc.)

If I was told I was ever going be involved in this, I would have hissed.
However, some friends came for a holiday in my place. Few month later after they were gone, I dabbled into it BUT Online.
It lingered for like 4 months until I SHUT THE TAP and CUT THE SUPPLY by HIS grace.
I've tried that several times as most of these Online Betting sites makes it tough or impossible to delete your account.
One day, I got really infuriated and wanted out and lo, an IDEA struck my mind.
Get a new password. Just type in random alphabets without knowing what you typed. That worked.
Even if my flesh wants to make free extra cash, which never really come by easily, I won't know the password.
That's how I became free till date.

JUST CUT THE SUPPLY. SHUT THE TAP. STARVE THE BABY TO DEATH.


3. SOLUTION FOR POINT 3

Never tasted any but I know the way out is same.
CUT THE TAP!
You don't have to amputate your hands.

A part of you is getting or has gotten acclimatized to that habit. If you starve that part of you of enjoying that habit (No Compromise), Soon enough, that part of you will get used to living without that habit, harmful substances in this case.


In Conclusion:
I understand Different Strokes For Different Folks but I strongly believe this is one sure deal.

A sex addict don't have to detach his egg plant even as that is not the main trouble.
Stop feeding on things that causes erection. Stay far from them. Don't hang around them. Don't toy with them. That's defensive. To be offensive, begin to feed on spiritual things. Addictions are not chemical reaction problems. I believe they are spiritual otherwise you could have easily put them away. So try out what you've read.

YOU ALSO CAN BE FREE!

Have a blessed day.

Thanks op. This is candid, practical and straight to the point tips to kill these habits. These are the things that bedevils our youth today.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Obriks: 7:56am On Oct 06, 2017
Broda, na true o. I hate dis betting but i stil da do am cuz man nor get work for now.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 8:24am On Oct 06, 2017
nawtiebynature:
Masturbation is much more better than having various dicks infected with STDs. Though too much of it is bad but how many guys can stay without sex for years? Let's just be sincere with ourselves, almost everybody is exposed to sexual scenes everyday.

None is better!

They are all with huge consequences.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by nawtiebynature(f): 8:32am On Oct 06, 2017
emusmithy:


None is better!

They are all with huge consequences.


One is better than the other, if not in excess. Na ur type dey bleep (w)hores...
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by newslifeop: 8:32am On Oct 06, 2017
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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 06, 2017
Point 2. You can't type a password randomly cos u will be asked to retype password again to confirm, so if u type randomly and you don't know how can you confirm?

This android app is very helpful secure teen parental control or parental Flux on playstore it automatically block any porn or adult site in any browser in your phone
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:07am On Oct 06, 2017
[quote author=bigcee post=61150184][/quote]bigcee how far na.I have done that done that already ...

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:10am On Oct 06, 2017
nawtiebynature:
Masturbation is much more better than having various dicks infected with STDs. Though too much of it is bad but how many guys can stay without sex for years? Let's just be sincere with ourselves, almost everybody is exposed to sexual scenes everyday.
my female neighbour disturbed me so much yesternight.the lady masturbated for close to two hours despite having her younger sister beside her on the bed .she was yelling and using her leg to make noise on my door.I saw her this morning and I was like see mastubator abi na masturbater
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:14am On Oct 06, 2017
stano2:
While changing, u will be required to confirm new password. How did u confirm after putting random Numbers and alphabets
guy I wrote the random letters and no on a paper and after I confirmed ,I later tear the paper.u can do it also
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:18am On Oct 06, 2017
phranq30:
Bros, abeg I need games badly. Bet don kill me ooh! grin
bro.I have a game I can give u today ..if e come,se u go do normal..
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:20am On Oct 06, 2017
Tobium1:


Tosyne abeg find me 2 sure odds make i use do something
can I give u?do u wanna stake ?if yes,se u go roger me if d game come
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:20am On Oct 06, 2017
phranq30:
Abeg, who get 10 odds, make I knack am with 2k. Man need money badly
bro..I have one ...do u wanna play and will u reward me ?
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:21am On Oct 06, 2017
Tope2580:
abeg any sure games for the weekend?
game dey bro..between today and tomorrow ..will u reward me if e green ?
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:23am On Oct 06, 2017
[quote author=bigcee post=61150184][/quote]baba I have 59 odd game for today/tomorrow oo..se u go play ?
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by phranq30(m): 10:30am On Oct 06, 2017
OMOTOWO:
bro.I have a game I can give u today ..if e come,se u go do normal..
Walahi, I go do normal
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:38am On Oct 06, 2017
phranq30:
Walahi, I go do normal
OK how many odd do u want make I give u.I am 80% confident sey e go green and wen u play ,u go send me d coupon code make a dey monitor ..how much u wan stake
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by phranq30(m): 10:45am On Oct 06, 2017
OMOTOWO:
OK how many odd do u want make I give u.I am 80% confident sey e go green and wen u play ,u go send me d coupon code make a dey monitor ..how much u wan stake
Like 20 odds, I go stake 1K..Make we talk for Facebook. ikenna.ozoh@yahoo.com..Add me, make we talk business wella
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 10:46am On Oct 06, 2017
phranq30:
1K..Make we talk for Facebook. ikenna.ozoh@yahoo.com..Add me, make we talk business wella
sent a request
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Tobium1(m): 11:22am On Oct 06, 2017
OMOTOWO:
can I give u?do u wanna stake ?if yes,se u go roger me if d game come

Make it 10 then if u want roger
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by nawtiebynature(f): 11:54am On Oct 06, 2017
OMOTOWO:
my female neighbour disturbed me so much yesternight.the lady masturbated for close to two hours despite having her younger sister beside her on the bed .she was yelling and using her leg to make noise on my door.I saw her this morning and I was like see mastubator abi na masturbater

I guess she's addicted. Too much of everything is bad.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 11:56am On Oct 06, 2017
nawtiebynature:


I guess she's addicted. Too much of everything is bad.
na she sabi..e don even tey wey a see her supposed boyfriend ..if no be for my wife ,e go easy to dey bang that her pussy free of charge ...e don tey wey she dey do that tin..
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by nawtiebynature(f): 11:59am On Oct 06, 2017
OMOTOWO:
na she sabi..e don even tey wey a see her supposed boyfriend ..if no be for my wife ,e go easy to dey bang that her pussy free of charge ...e don tey wey she dey do that tin..

She needs ur prayer... lol
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by OMOTOWO(m): 12:00pm On Oct 06, 2017
nawtiebynature:


She needs ur prayer... lol
hope u no dey do am too much like er sa
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 06, 2017
nawtiebynature:



One is better than the other, if not in excess. Na ur type dey bleep (w)hores...

undecided
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by bangalee1(m): 4:30pm On Oct 06, 2017
see them, Wetin Op just dey advice una against una still dey do am for the thread dey share odds and join betting group. Alabi has the best baba alawo in the world.

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