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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by chijioka(m): 5:25pm On Oct 05, 2017
Me dey find sure 3 odds for today abeg
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by stano2(m): 5:26pm On Oct 05, 2017
While changing, u will be required to confirm new password. How did u confirm after putting random Numbers and alphabets

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by olaolutreasure(m): 5:27pm On Oct 05, 2017
Jesus I thank you. Never got myself into any of these mess
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by masterP042(m): 5:29pm On Oct 05, 2017
aumeehn:
a girl can masturbate 10 times a day without loosing weight or sick, please ask a guy to masturbate once in 24hrs he will tell you the results, but its just my opinion fah!
What is this one saying?? Which research proves that masturbation causes weight loss in men? angry
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Sheun001(m): 5:38pm On Oct 05, 2017
whether you change your password to garbage e.g &#;:#!;@&:2!!@!!
if you still wanna play its easy either by getting a new password with FORGOT PASSWORD option or visit nearest shop
angry
as for me I must regain what Nairabet took from me before I stopsad
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by aumeehn: 5:52pm On Oct 05, 2017
masterP042:

What is this one saying?? Which research proves that masturbation causes weight loss in men? angry
go get a real clean and tight pvssy and stop hurting your prick bro!
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Hashimyussufamao(m): 6:16pm On Oct 05, 2017
tosyne2much:
The best way to stop bet addiction na to sell your phone go buy torchlight phone so you no go fit dey forecast cheesy
diz bro ehn
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by byemx06(m): 6:18pm On Oct 05, 2017
emusmithy:
Top-Three Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them


Good day friends.

This thread is a 'commendable' and proven panacea (remedy) to the common bad habits most young people are struggling with, day to day, unknown to parents, friends or guardians.

I'm gonna be sharp and precise.

1. Masturbation (Self-Service)-
Does the name scare you? Lol. Even if it's still controlling you, look it in the face and call it by its name and say, 'I'll overcome you someday'. I pray that day comes soon.


2. Online Betting (Nairabet, Bet9ja etc)


3. Taking toxic substances (Smoking, drinking, partying etc.)


Important Question:


How did it all begin? This will help you understand the nature of that "unholy attachment" and how to "RESET the factory settings", so to speak.

- Through family/ friends?
- Through idleness?
- Via the media/internet?

OBVIOUSLY YOU FEEL IT DOESN'T KEEP ITS PROMISES OF 'pleasure extraordinaire' otherwise you won't be reading this and looking for a way to break up with it.


Masturbation

People who are today addicted went in with a good intention; "I want to abstain from sex so lemmie stick here with, self pleasure." Same for others.
They later found that out to be deceptive and addictive.
They want out.

SOLUTION FOR POINT 1

Masturbation is like a BABY (Call it Boss Baby) that feeds on three meals:

- Lusting after Curvy, busty girls OR well-built guys.

- Porn

- Idleness

You can kill the baby if you CUT THE SUPPLY of food and attention given to it.

No prayer can do that for you. Just cut it.

Most youths; Believers or Unbelievers have this as their 'soft spot'.

Speaking of 'soft spot', Man is made from the earth, clay. When water touches a part of clay, that part becomes slippery, soft. That's called SOFT SPOT. But if you shut the tap. The clay becomes hard, until whenever you put on the tap again. So put off the tap! Stop telling people your weakness. Work dirty on it until it's no more!

REAL ENGLISH: If you are a Christian, surround yourself with Godly materials. For me, I bought an MP3 tape messages of my spiritual leader and played it constantly. A day, 3 to 5 hours go to messages; while cooking, walking, working etc. Minus sleeping time. I didn't know when those teachings started driving me to BLOCK those WhatsApp girlfriends who adds no value to me other than lusty chats. obscene sites became disgusting. Looking at girls' behind reduced drastically; What's the point?

That's what I call SHUTTING THE TAP or STARVING THE BABY.
It works all the time!

I even discovered that when I spent so much time playing video games on my laptop, the urge for self-servicing comes: What's the Link, I thought? (You've got to be smarter.)

IDLENESS of hands invites Satan, I found out.

I deleted all my laptop games (PS 4). Cut my pads and dumped them.
That even kept 'useless' friends away.
I now use my time wisely to pursue my goals.
Talk about ruthless self-discipline.

Of course, I had enough time for Prayer and Hard, Profitable work too.


Solution For Point 2


Betting (Bet9ja, Nairabet etc.)

If I was told I was ever going be involved in this, I would have hissed.
However, some friends came for a holiday in my place. Few month later after they were gone, I dabbled into it BUT Online.
It lingered for like 4 months until I SHUT THE TAP and CUT THE SUPPLY by HIS grace.
I've tried that several times as most of these Online Betting sites makes it tough or impossible to delete your account.
One day, I got really infuriated and wanted out and lo, an IDEA struck my mind.
Get a new password. Just type in random alphabets without knowing what you typed. That worked.
Even if my flesh wants to make free extra cash, which never really come by easily, I won't know the password.
That's how I became free till date.

JUST CUT THE SUPPLY. SHUT THE TAP. STARVE THE BABY TO DEATH.


3. SOLUTION FOR POINT 3

Never tasted any but I know the way out is same.
CUT THE TAP!
You don't have to amputate your hands.

A part of you is getting or has gotten acclimatized to that habit. If you starve that part of you of enjoying that habit (No Compromise), Soon enough, that part of you will get used to living without that habit, harmful substances in this case.


In Conclusion:
I understand Different Strokes For Different Folks but I strongly believe this is one sure deal.

A sex addict don't have to detach his egg plant even as that is not the main trouble.
Stop feeding on things that causes erection. Stay far from them. Don't hang around them. Don't toy with them. That's defensive. To be offensive, begin to feed on spiritual things. Addictions are not chemical reaction problems. I believe they are spiritual otherwise you could have easily put them away. So try out what you've read.

YOU ALSO CAN BE FREE!

Have a blessed day.

thank God I don't do all this .........
I stop bet 2015,
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by chukzyfcbb: 6:34pm On Oct 05, 2017
You played online bet for just 4minths and you think that qualifies you a pro on the subject matter?

See if you have played football bet for years, you will know how to control your urge. You can stay 6months without even thinking of betting.

We all gamble in this life.
when you participate in a gameshow by Mtn telling you to send a text worth 100naira to win an MTN goody bag. what's that?

When you send text costing 100/SMS to participate in the Who wants to be a millionaire show what's that?

Even in church, during bazaar. Raffle draws are sent out to members who buy this tickets to win motorcycle or generating sets on the day of the bazaar? what's that?

Its all gamble man
Gambling is done in church
gambling is done in your home
its done every frigging where.

What you should preach about is addiction!
Addiction to something is pretty bad and really messed up...

switch your style up bruh!

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 6:46pm On Oct 05, 2017
stano2:
While changing, u will be required to confirm new password. How did u confirm after putting random Numbers and alphabets

I actually put in like 7 alphabets and 2 numbers...repeated them to confirm...BUT force my brain not to memorize it.

Now, I have forgotten. cheesy
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 6:48pm On Oct 05, 2017
Sheun001:
whether you change your password to garbage e.g &#;:#!;@&:2!!@!!
if you still wanna play its easy either by getting a new password with FORGOT PASSWORD option or visit nearest shop
angry
as for me I must regain what Nairabet took from me before I stopsad

The last paragraph is where the bait is bro

smiley
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Tonynelson(m): 6:50pm On Oct 05, 2017
Bet9ja for me is good.. U just have to stick to Ur own rules and play like a biz man and not a gambler..
For people into the game.. Check this and advice Ur self. B928ESZQEAWSRE-3431166
Tnx
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Josephamstrong1(m): 7:05pm On Oct 05, 2017
Tonynelson:
Bet9ja for me is good.. U just have to stick to Ur own rules and play like a biz man and not a gambler..
For people into the game.. Check this and advice Ur self. B928ESZQEAWSRE-3431166
Tnx

Guy, are you for real?
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by JustAPhase(m): 7:18pm On Oct 05, 2017
Tonynelson:
Bet9ja for me is good.. U just have to stick to Ur own rules and play like a biz man and not a gambler..
For people into the game.. Check this and advice Ur self. B928ESZQEAWSRE-3431166
Tnx

B938ESZZTAAREQ-4261846

Abeg bros help me... We can be friends.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Uhomanbulus110(f): 7:35pm On Oct 05, 2017
I believe all us fall in one of the three we should try and change and ask God for mercy too
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by spencekat(m): 7:35pm On Oct 05, 2017
frenzydilz:
The greatest habit most Nigerian youths have is UNEMPLOYMENT. If that one is taken care of, most of these minor ones OP listed will go
Employment does not stop betting even masturbation.

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Uhomanbulus110(f): 7:38pm On Oct 05, 2017
We should also ask for the grace of God to keep us so that we can live right
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Sheun001(m): 7:50pm On Oct 05, 2017
emusmithy:

The last paragraph is where the bait is bro
smiley
na so the thing be oh
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 05, 2017
Sheun001:


na so the thing be oh

smiley
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Kingsley1000(m): 7:59pm On Oct 05, 2017
vaseline crew don suffer today
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by SuperSuave(m): 8:13pm On Oct 05, 2017
aumeehn:
i cant survive a day without weed!! Infact call me a junkie i can use my last card and stash some grass so that i will never run down! Thank God i dont bet, pills and the rest, just weed shikenan! grin grin grin
I bet you were high while typing that brogrin your dp says it allgrin



enjoy while it lasts, you need to break your addiction.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by FromZeroToHero(m): 8:26pm On Oct 05, 2017
Did you call betting a bad habit? I won N177,800 with N1000.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 8:32pm On Oct 05, 2017
What about we that our own is sleeping
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by FIDELITY24(m): 8:38pm On Oct 05, 2017
taylor88:
plzzzz remove masturbation from ur list




a man without a living and imaginary girlfriend is dead



do u know how many times I've fvcked cherokeeD'ass with vaseline?



kukuma kill me op
hahahahaaha.... una no go kill pesin for this forum o!
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Dollarship(m): 9:37pm On Oct 05, 2017
Ok
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by CharliParker: 9:43pm On Oct 05, 2017
OK.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Jimmy231: 10:05pm On Oct 05, 2017
emusmithy:
Top-Three Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them


Good day friends.

This thread is a 'commendable' and proven panacea (remedy) to the common bad habits most young people are struggling with, day to day, unknown to parents, friends or guardians.

I'm gonna be sharp and precise.

1. Masturbation (Self-Service)-
Does the name scare you? Lol. Even if it's still controlling you, look it in the face and call it by its name and say, 'I'll overcome you someday'. I pray that day comes soon.


2. Online Betting (Nairabet, Bet9ja etc)


3. Taking toxic substances (Smoking, drinking, partying etc.)


Important Question:


How did it all begin? This will help you understand the nature of that "unholy attachment" and how to "RESET the factory settings", so to speak.

- Through family/ friends?
- Through idleness?
- Via the media/internet?

OBVIOUSLY YOU FEEL IT DOESN'T KEEP ITS PROMISES OF 'pleasure extraordinaire' otherwise you won't be reading this and looking for a way to break up with it.


Masturbation

People who are today addicted went in with a good intention; "I want to abstain from sex so lemmie stick here with, self pleasure." Same for others.
They later found that out to be deceptive and addictive.
They want out.

SOLUTION FOR POINT 1

Masturbation is like a BABY (Call it Boss Baby) that feeds on three meals:

- Lusting after Curvy, busty girls OR well-built guys.

- Porn

- Idleness

You can kill the baby if you CUT THE SUPPLY of food and attention given to it.

No prayer can do that for you. Just cut it.

Most youths; Believers or Unbelievers have this as their 'soft spot'.

Speaking of 'soft spot', Man is made from the earth, clay. When water touches a part of clay, that part becomes slippery, soft. That's called SOFT SPOT. But if you shut the tap. The clay becomes hard, until whenever you put on the tap again. So put off the tap! Stop telling people your weakness. Work dirty on it until it's no more!

REAL ENGLISH: If you are a Christian, surround yourself with Godly materials. For me, I bought an MP3 tape messages of my spiritual leader and played it constantly. A day, 3 to 5 hours go to messages; while cooking, walking, working etc. Minus sleeping time. I didn't know when those teachings started driving me to BLOCK those WhatsApp girlfriends who adds no value to me other than lusty chats. obscene sites became disgusting. Looking at girls' behind reduced drastically; What's the point?

That's what I call SHUTTING THE TAP or STARVING THE BABY.
It works all the time!

I even discovered that when I spent so much time playing video games on my laptop, the urge for self-servicing comes: What's the Link, I thought? (You've got to be smarter.)

IDLENESS of hands invites Satan, I found out.

I deleted all my laptop games (PS 4). Cut my pads and dumped them.
That even kept 'useless' friends away.
I now use my time wisely to pursue my goals.
Talk about ruthless self-discipline.

Of course, I had enough time for Prayer and Hard, Profitable work too.


Solution For Point 2


Betting (Bet9ja, Nairabet etc.)

If I was told I was ever going be involved in this, I would have hissed.
However, some friends came for a holiday in my place. Few month later after they were gone, I dabbled into it BUT Online.
It lingered for like 4 months until I SHUT THE TAP and CUT THE SUPPLY by HIS grace.
I've tried that several times as most of these Online Betting sites makes it tough or impossible to delete your account.
One day, I got really infuriated and wanted out and lo, an IDEA struck my mind.
Get a new password. Just type in random alphabets without knowing what you typed. That worked.
Even if my flesh wants to make free extra cash, which never really come by easily, I won't know the password.
That's how I became free till date.

JUST CUT THE SUPPLY. SHUT THE TAP. STARVE THE BABY TO DEATH.


3. SOLUTION FOR POINT 3

Never tasted any but I know the way out is same.
CUT THE TAP!
You don't have to amputate your hands.

A part of you is getting or has gotten acclimatized to that habit. If you starve that part of you of enjoying that habit (No Compromise), Soon enough, that part of you will get used to living without that habit, harmful substances in this case.


In Conclusion:
I understand Different Strokes For Different Folks but I strongly believe this is one sure deal.

A sex addict don't have to detach his egg plant even as that is not the main trouble.
Stop feeding on things that causes erection. Stay far from them. Don't hang around them. Don't toy with them. That's defensive. To be offensive, begin to feed on spiritual things. Addictions are not chemical reaction problems. I believe they are spiritual otherwise you could have easily put them away. So try out what you've read.

YOU ALSO CAN BE FREE!

Have a blessed day.
solution to number 3 you said you haven't tasted any how come you now have the solution...
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by prince2pac(m): 10:33pm On Oct 05, 2017
SuperSuave:
true tho, what if one lives near a bet shop? your own don finish if they have virtualgrin
You are there Joor... Virtual can suck someone like die.. Thank God am quitting little by little
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by mceze(m): 10:57pm On Oct 05, 2017
greatman247:
Wow opp makes a lot of sense. I'm guilty of betting, I really don't think I can stop though cos I have won real big with it and I do think I have huge passion for it too. grin grin grin
Abeg dey send me code or add me on whatsapp-08036423660
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Johnsown1(m): 10:58pm On Oct 05, 2017
SuperSuave:
true tho, what if one lives near a bet shop? your own don finish if they have virtualgrin
my brother virtual is a death trap
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by valentineuwakwe(m): 11:11pm On Oct 05, 2017
what you said may be true but I disagree with the betting point. .let me use my self as a reference. .online betting is not a bad habit for the youth but the greed to win or hammer big is the habit dia. .I started nairabet since Sept 2, 2011 and till date its still the best. .am 32 yrs old. .I won my first bet of N50k with my girlfriend turn wife with N100 . .since then i have won N350k, N269k, N890k with just N50 or N100. .i have never played a game with more than N100 and I do play online. .no month that will pass that I will not win more than N50k. .check my signature or inquire from nairabet about the username valentine202. . .it's just that the youth wants to win N1m, N2m with N100 or so which may not be. .now I do play over 0.5 goals in first half with N500, just 5 games or just 4 bts and I do win and dats now my weekend fuel money. infact its now a habit for me. .infact a very good habit. .my dear, online betting is not a bad habit but the greed by some youths to win big. .it's best you take it small small or you lose it big time. .
www.valentine202.com
08033559733
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by mceze(m): 11:16pm On Oct 05, 2017
Tonynelson:
Bet9ja for me is good.. U just have to stick to Ur own rules and play like a biz man and not a gambler..
For people into the game.. Check this and advice Ur self. B928ESZQEAWSRE-3431166
Tnx

Abeg dey send me code or add me on
whatsapp-08036423660

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