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Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 04, 2017
Top-Three Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them


Good day friends.

This thread is a 'commendable' and proven panacea (remedy) to the common bad habits most young people are struggling with, day to day, unknown to parents, friends or guardians.

I'm gonna be sharp and precise.

1. Masturbation (Self-Service)-
Does the name scare you? Lol. Even if it's still controlling you, look it in the face and call it by its name and say, 'I'll overcome you someday'. I pray that day comes soon.


2. Online Betting (Nairabet, Bet9ja etc)


3. Taking toxic substances (Smoking, drinking, partying etc.)


Important Question:


How did it all begin? This will help you understand the nature of that "unholy attachment" and how to "RESET the factory settings", so to speak.

- Through family/ friends?
- Through idleness?
- Via the media/internet?

OBVIOUSLY YOU FEEL IT DOESN'T KEEP ITS PROMISES OF 'pleasure extraordinaire' otherwise you won't be reading this and looking for a way to break up with it.


Masturbation

People who are today addicted went in with a good intention; "I want to abstain from sex so lemmie stick here with, self pleasure." Same for others.
They later found that out to be deceptive and addictive.
They want out.

SOLUTION FOR POINT 1

Masturbation is like a BABY (Call it Boss Baby) that feeds on three meals:

- Lusting after Curvy, busty girls OR well-built guys.

- Porn

- Idleness

You can kill the baby if you CUT THE SUPPLY of food and attention given to it.

No prayer can do that for you. Just cut it.

Most youths; Believers or Unbelievers have this as their 'soft spot'.

Speaking of 'soft spot', Man is made from the earth, clay. When water touches a part of clay, that part becomes slippery, soft. That's called SOFT SPOT. But if you shut the tap. The clay becomes hard, until whenever you put on the tap again. So put off the tap! Stop telling people your weakness. Work dirty on it until it's no more!

REAL ENGLISH: If you are a Christian, surround yourself with Godly materials. For me, I bought an MP3 tape messages of my spiritual leader and played it constantly. A day, 3 to 5 hours go to messages; while cooking, walking, working etc. Minus sleeping time. I didn't know when those teachings started driving me to BLOCK those WhatsApp girlfriends who adds no value to me other than lusty chats. obscene sites became disgusting. Looking at girls' behind reduced drastically; What's the point?

That's what I call SHUTTING THE TAP or STARVING THE BABY.
It works all the time!

I even discovered that when I spent so much time playing video games on my laptop, the urge for self-servicing comes: What's the Link, I thought? (You've got to be smarter.)

IDLENESS of hands invites Satan, I found out.

I deleted all my laptop games (PS 4). Cut my pads and dumped them.
That even kept 'useless' friends away.
I now use my time wisely to pursue my goals.
Talk about ruthless self-discipline.

Of course, I had enough time for Prayer and Hard, Profitable work too.


Solution For Point 2


Betting (Bet9ja, Nairabet etc.)

If I was told I was ever going be involved in this, I would have hissed.
However, some friends came for a holiday in my place. Few month later after they were gone, I dabbled into it BUT Online.
It lingered for like 4 months until I SHUT THE TAP and CUT THE SUPPLY by HIS grace.
I've tried that several times as most of these Online Betting sites makes it tough or impossible to delete your account.
One day, I got really infuriated and wanted out and lo, an IDEA struck my mind.
Get a new password. Just type in random alphabets without knowing what you typed. That worked.
Even if my flesh wants to make free extra cash, which never really come by easily, I won't know the password.
That's how I became free till date.

JUST CUT THE SUPPLY. SHUT THE TAP. STARVE THE BABY TO DEATH.


3. SOLUTION FOR POINT 3

Never tasted any but I know the way out is same.
CUT THE TAP!
You don't have to amputate your hands.

A part of you is getting or has gotten acclimatized to that habit. If you starve that part of you of enjoying that habit (No Compromise), Soon enough, that part of you will get used to living without that habit, harmful substances in this case.


In Conclusion:
I understand Different Strokes For Different Folks but I strongly believe this is one sure deal.

A sex addict don't have to detach his egg plant even as that is not the main trouble.
Stop feeding on things that causes erection. Stay far from them. Don't hang around them. Don't toy with them. That's defensive. To be offensive, begin to feed on spiritual things. Addictions are not chemical reaction problems. I believe they are spiritual otherwise you could have easily put them away. So try out what you've read.

YOU ALSO CAN BE FREE!

Have a blessed day.

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by taylor88(m): 3:08pm On Oct 04, 2017
plzzzz remove masturbation from ur list




a man without a living and imaginary girlfriend is dead



do u know how many times I've fvcked cherokeeD'ass with vaseline?



kukuma kill me op

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 3:16pm On Oct 04, 2017
taylor88:
plzzzz remove masturbation from ur list




a man without a living and imaginary girlfriend is dead



do u know how many times I've fvcked cherokeeD'ass with vaseline?



kukuma kill me op

I understand but you can be free undecided

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by SenhorSean(m): 3:16pm On Oct 04, 2017
I agree...
Looking forward to dropping 2nd point.
Quitted point 3 some months back...lemme say it just happened like dat.
Point 1 is no issue...kind of odd,maybe cos i don't masturbate

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 04, 2017
SenhorSean:
I agree...
Looking forward to dropping 2nd point.
Quitted point 3 some months back...lemme say it just happened like dat.
Point 1 is no issue...kind of odd,maybe cos i don't masturbate

Point 2 isn't really easy if you have no other financial source. You've got to do something fast.

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by taylor88(m): 3:19pm On Oct 04, 2017
emusmithy:


I understand but you can be free undecided

did i complain to u i was in bondage



if my diick wanna explode let it be

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 3:34pm On Oct 04, 2017
taylor88:


did i complain to u i was in bondage



if my diick wanna explode let it be

#thumbsup#

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Beamborla(f): 3:46pm On Oct 04, 2017
emusmithy:


#thumbsup#
Hey you!

Been a while.

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Uyi168: 3:48pm On Oct 04, 2017
Point2 is heaven sent..

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 04, 2017
Beamborla:

Hey you!

Been a while.

Hmm, you! smiley

I'll chat you up elsewhere wink
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Beamborla(f): 3:57pm On Oct 04, 2017
emusmithy:


Hmm, you! smiley

I'll chat you up elsewhere wink
Alright
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 04, 2017
Thanks man..


Your points are really AMAZING
Cc: lalasticlala

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 04, 2017
Thanks man..


Your points are really AMAZING
Cc: lalasticlala

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 8:46pm On Oct 04, 2017
Lol am so glad I don't bet that would have been awkward
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Alecssander(m): 11:35pm On Oct 04, 2017
really love this post

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by tosyne2much(m): 11:50pm On Oct 04, 2017
Waiting for Bet9ja addicts to come and derail this thread cheesy

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by adepeter2027(m): 11:56pm On Oct 04, 2017
The only bad habit I see in ya post is "SMOKING" cos it affects us health wise (whether in small or large dose)

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by SuperSuave(m): 12:34am On Oct 05, 2017
tosyne2much:
Waiting for Bet9ja addicts to come and derail this thread cheesy
We are here, say no more. grin
the bad thing I see with all the points op mentioned is ADDICTION to any. If one seldom indulge in any of the acts, I see nothing bad in it.


Life is short like knicker, acting like zombies won't help. grin

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by tosyne2much(m): 12:50am On Oct 05, 2017
SuperSuave:
We are here, say no more. grin
the bad thing I see with all the points op mentioned is ADDICTION to any. If one seldom indulge in any of the acts, I see nothing bad in it.


Life is short like knicker, acting like zombies won't help. grin
So you sef follow join? Na to bash the OP sure pass now abi? cheesy

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by SuperSuave(m): 12:52am On Oct 05, 2017
tosyne2much:
So you sef follow join? Na to bash the OP sure pass now abi? cheesy
Lol, no need. He made sense. It'll help caution anyone who's addicted to any.wink

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by tosyne2much(m): 12:59am On Oct 05, 2017
SuperSuave:
Lol, no need. He made sense. It'll help caution anyone who's addicted to any.wink
The best way to stop bet addiction na to sell your phone go buy torchlight phone so you no go fit dey forecast cheesy

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by SuperSuave(m): 1:03am On Oct 05, 2017
tosyne2much:
The best way to stop bet addiction na to sell your phone go buy torchlight phone so you no go fit dey forecast cheesy
true tho, what if one lives near a bet shop? your own don finish if they have virtualgrin

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 05, 2017
tosyne2much:
The best way to stop bet addiction na to sell your phone go buy torchlight phone so you no go fit dey forecast cheesy

Lol! grin

You go borrow your friend own one day
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 05, 2017
Simmzz:
Thanks man..



Your points are really AMAZING

Cc: lalasticlala

Hope it'll help...
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by greatman247(m): 4:16pm On Oct 05, 2017
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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by merryossai(m): 4:16pm On Oct 05, 2017
video game raises ur urge for masturbation? nnam you need deliverance. for me video games help me to shut out some unnecessary acts and thought. video game is too good and very enjoyable, its a welcome distraction, but must be handled with moderation. shout out to all my PlayStation brothers.

as for masturbation? hmmmm am speechless, my condolence goes out to those who got themselves in such mess.

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by muller101(m): 4:17pm On Oct 05, 2017
grin these are not bad habits at all. Only people who are considered to be a genius have the capabilities to make a move towards the opposite direction

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by Icon4s(m): 4:17pm On Oct 05, 2017
That number 2 is the worst.
Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by autotrader014(m): 4:19pm On Oct 05, 2017
taylor88:
plzzzz remove masturbation from ur list




a man without a living and imaginary girlfriend is dead



do u know how many times I've fvcked cherokeeD'ass with vaseline?



kukuma kill me op

grin

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Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by xreal: 4:19pm On Oct 05, 2017
4. One Corner Dance


This wave is coming from Ghana.


Some even climb the tree just to dance.

Re: Top 3 Bad Habits Among Youths And How To Overcome Them by frenzydilz(m): 4:20pm On Oct 05, 2017
The greatest habit most Nigerian youths have is UNEMPLOYMENT. If that one is taken care of, most of these minor ones OP listed will go

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