She says she loves me but refuses me intimacy.

she didn't refuse me brah

Maybe she is waiting for the right time

After 4months of relationship? Can a lady dat is not a virgin love a man n not hv intimacy with him? I strongly disagree

s/e/x/. equal love now?


OMG!!! What the hell. Cant even have the word s/e/x/ abbreviated. These moderators!

poster = nigeria

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-410811.0.html

why do most naija men talk like they are entitled to sex if they are with a woman geez, so she refused, no reason to come here and complain, get over it or go get urself off

Oga ooo

Na by force?
She no want 4rm you.
At least not now.ABEG,

Leave the girl now, all you want is to get down and find a new catch.

and is sex love

parhaps you've got a reputation with women that she knows about
think hard enough to know what that is

May be you are too direct in your approach, be deplomatic.

So according to you winkie, love equals sex abi ?

Leave the poor girl alone,with all the troubles Nigeria is passing through now,it is only s/e/x that comes to your mind abi ? Who knows maybe the poor girl is even mourning what happened recently in jos or waiting for her sugar daddy, Yar'Adua to recover

watch out~

someone out there is shinning her condo~

WHY NOT TRY HAND JOB?
LOL

just four months and u are complaining already

and so what if she does? is she entitled to sleep with u because she loves u? either leave and get some or go watch some porn lol

Oga yiwo si service lane jooo!!!!

Give yourself a stranger.

hey u wats up?

Im great thanks. How are you?

im fyne, howdy hope ur pretty head aint achin no more

Just four months, is that all that she is all about to you?

Im much better today, well rested and all thanks

Thats good to know missed u though

awwww missed ya too I guess you left, see ya 2moro.

@ Poster, wetin make u won sleep wit her? u won marry her? if yes marry her and u will get it ova dose. that i assure u

You never stated whether you loved the girl, ?

Please don't get it twisted, intimacy does not equal love. People have intimacy with people they dislike!
She may be religious and does not believe in sex before marriage, ask her what her views her and what her reason is.

Whatever the reason is, its her body and her choice. If she is not ready, leave her be.
If you cannot handle it and you really want intimacy, leave the decent girl for a better man to respect her wishes.
You can get intimacy so easily these days, you dont even need to be in a committed relationship to get intimacy.
The choice is yours.