Are you a fan of having your pictures uploaded on social medialike Facebook, Nairaland etc? Showing the world that you are about to get married? Posting here and there! You guys laughing, smiling and playing like you two are in Disneyland! An image of two people who are madly inlove?How do you deal with such an issue if you are the type who doesn't like spotlight but getting married to a person who is the opposite? It's a good thing to take pictures for the home albums, yes I would really love that, but having to show everyoneon the planet!!! people i don't even know exist!What is the essence of uploading the pictures online in the first place? I believe ladies are the instigators of these acts. Guys don't have time for such drama, well maybe a few guys. And the reasons are not too farfetche: To be the envy of everyone who views the pictures? To get likes and comments? To be the talk of the town? To read the AWWW!! and OHHHH!!!After that period of let's say 3 or 4 days of continuous bombardment of comments from people (even those you don't know), what next?I have come to realize that most of what we do when it's having to do with wedding preparation has alot to do about what people wouldsay or think rather than what you really want for your event. Some are even turning into a competition? with who exactly? probably someone you know who invited you to their own wedding? Or maybe you have a targeted person/audience who you want to show off to.Painting an expression that all is well is basically the reason for uploading pictures of you and your partner in happy and celebrating mood. The social media is just like a mirror. You willsee a fine reflection but you cannot see what is going on within it. The social media is now a tool to tell the world "my marriage is perfect", "I found my perfect partner" even when it is not the case.Social media lives among couples most times are the opposite of what is really going on in their home, in most case but not all.I rather we use the social media topropagate messages and news. I rather we use the social media to educate ourselves on the right and wrongs in the society. I ratherwe use the social media to fight corruption. I rather we use the social media to tell the world the truth about our country. I rather we use the social media to promote love and unity.I am not a fan of telling the world Iam getting married by uploading beautiful pictures on social media. I really don't see how it concerns you, who are reading this post. My families and friends are those who should even have info about the event.Don't get me wrong, but I am a fan of the social media, most especially Facebook. I can mention benefits I derive from Facebook:1. Meeting old and long forgotten friends again.2. Getting old school songs and videos from groups and meeting fans who are even crazier than me.3. Friend's birthday remembrance.In brief, posting of your pre-wedding photos online shouldnot be for strangers. What is theirbusiness about your marriage to start with? unless you are a celebrity, in which case you won't even be the one to post them online. But if you are not a celebrity, send them to friends and families who would make comments that would come with genuine affection and congratulations.

jaksmillioniar:
Are you a fan of having your pictures uploaded on social medialike Facebook, Nairaland etc? Showing the world that you are about to get married? Posting here and there! You guys laughing, smiling and playing like you two are in Disneyland! An image of two people who are madly inlove?How do you deal with such an issue if you are the type who doesn't like spotlight but getting married to a person who is the opposite? It's a good thing to take pictures for the home albums, yes I would really love that, but having to show everyoneon the planet!!! people i don't even know exist!What is the essence of uploading the pictures online in the first place? I believe ladies are the instigators of these acts. Guys don't have time for such drama, well maybe a few guys. And the reasons are not too farfetche: To be the envy of everyone who views the pictures? To get likes and comments? To be the talk of the town? To read the AWWW!! and OHHHH!!!After that period of let's say 3 or 4 days of continuous bombardment of comments from people (even those you don't know), what next?I have come to realize that most of what we do when it's having to do with wedding preparation has alot to do about what people wouldsay or think rather than what you really want for your event. Some are even turning into a competition? with who exactly? probably someone you know who invited you to their own wedding? Or maybe you have a targeted person/audience who you want to show off to.Painting an expression that all is well is basically the reason for uploading pictures of you and your partner in happy and celebrating mood. The social media is just like a mirror. You willsee a fine reflection but you cannot see what is going on within it. The social media is now a tool to tell the world "my marriage is perfect", "I found my perfect partner" even when it is not the case.Social media lives among couples most times are the opposite of what is really going on in their home, in most case but not all.I rather we use the social media topropagate messages and news. I rather we use the social media to educate ourselves on the right and wrongs in the society. I ratherwe use the social media to fight corruption. I rather we use the social media to tell the world the truth about our country. I rather we use the social media to promote love and unity.I am not a fan of telling the world Iam getting married by uploading beautiful pictures on social media. I really don't see how it concerns you, who are reading this post. My families and friends are those who should even have info about the event.Don't get me wrong, but I am a fan of the social media, most especially Facebook. I can mention benefits I derive from Facebook:1. Meeting old and long forgotten friends again.2. Getting old school songs and videos from groups and meeting fans who are even crazier than me.3. Friend's birthday remembrance.In brief, posting of your pre-wedding photos online shouldnot be for strangers. What is theirbusiness about your marriage to start with? unless you are a celebrity, in which case you won't even be the one to post them online. But if you are not a celebrity, send them to friends and families who would make comments that would come with genuine affection and congratulations.

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NICE POST OP. BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT EVERY MALLAM TO HIM OWN KETTLE. JUST LIKE IF YOU NO WEAR GUCCI YOU NEVER JOIN THE CLIQ. FOR ME I PREFER THE QUITE LIFE THO.

Babysnow1:
NICE POST OP. BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT EVERY MALLAM TO HIM OWN KETTLE. JUST LIKE IF YOU NO WEAR GUCCI YOU NEVER JOIN THE CLIQ. FOR ME I PREFER THE QUITE LIFE THO.

God bless thanks u make sence most girls just want to spend pir money wit rubbish shakara notice me

Oyindidi:

baby

When I decide to get married I will make sure it's an intimate and private ceremony, not everyone has good thoughts for us

Cos many people have mistaken marriage for wedding.

Why do you open threads to wish someone happy birthday? Can't you DM them? Must you make it a public announcement?
You no see the one way you dey do, you dey chuck eye for other people own. Abeg, to each his/her own. If you don't want to see the picture shut your eyes. You just dey drink panadol for non existent headache.

jaksmillioniar:
baby

Nice blog

Thanks for the mention.
I don't believe in unnecessary exposure.
Most people do it just for attention and showmanship, for others who most often don't give a rat's behind

Because they need to fill an empty void in their lives and feel relevant...perhaps? Just saying...

When you dont flaunt your progress in life, its difficult for people (read enemies and frenemies) to know where to attack you from.

Nobody gives a sh1t about your happiness. Everybody will feel entertained by your downfall.

Keep it quiet. Keep it real.

I personally don't believe in posting photos on social media especially l events like prewedding, wedding , vacations, pregnancy, baby pictures etc etc etc etc.

Piiko:
When I decide to get married I will make sure it's an intimate and private ceremony, not everyone has good thoughts for us

God bless u guy u are matured.

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NoToPile:
I personally don't believe in posting photos on social media especially l events like prewedding, wedding , vacations, pregnancy, baby pictures etc etc etc etc.

it rubbish I hate it too many wicked pple u never knw who plan to hurt u

ElsonMorali:
Because they need to fill an empty void in their lives and feel relevant...perhaps? Just saying...

When you dont flaunt your progress in life, its difficult for people (read enemies and frenemies) to know where to attack you from.

Nobody gives a sh1t about your happiness. Everybody will feel entertained by your downfall.

Keep it quiet. Keep it real.

you make sence guy. wen ur happy u get haters when your down they become happy. av expirince this

elektra:
Why do you open threads to wish someone happy birthday? Can't you DM them? Must you make it a public announcement?
You no see the one way you dey do, you dey chuck eye for other people own. Abeg, to each his/her own. If you don't want to see the picture shut your eyes. You just dey drink panadol for non existent headache.

u better shut up ur mouth efore I get mad at u can u be matured. make ur point witout insult. I put birthday blogs because I care for my friends not a wedding pix were nobody knw u yet u show urself to d world

eyinjuege:
Thanks for the mention.
I don't believe in unnecessary exposure.
Most people do it just for attention and showmanship, for others who most often don't give a rat's behind

God bless u dear

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I Am Not A Fan Of Takin Pictures... Talkless Of Pre Wedding Photos... If My Woman Wants To Then I might Grant her

Oga, give credits to the original writer. You didn't write that stuff up there, because you don't know how to write. I don't know how to write too, but I make use of "comma" and "fullstop" even if I don't use them correctly. But I nor sure say you go recognise comma if you see am sef... You better tag the original writer or post link, before I go vess begin sand you anyha.

most of the photo shoot are ideas of females we are photocreatures am guilt as charge

jaksmillioniar:
u better shut up ur mouth efore I get mad at u can u be matured. make ur point witout insult. I put birthday blogs because I care for my friends not a wedding pix were nobody knw u yet u show urself to d world

Kindly point out the insult in my post.

elektra:


Kindly point out the insult in my post.

dat I drink panadol

kullozone:
Oga, give credits to the original writer. You didn't write that stuff up there, because you don't know how to write. I don't know how to write too, but I make use of "comma" and "fullstop" even if I don't use them correctly. But I nor sure say you go recognise comma if you see am sef... You better tag the original writer or post link, before I go vess begin sand you anyha.

u must be crazy

pocohantas dacblogger God bless u guys

jaksmillioniar:
dat I drink panadol

Have you considered investing the time you spend on nairaland in education yourself?

elektra:


Have you considered investing the time you spend on nairaland in education yourself?

if u think I will insult u I wont cos am matured than that.dont mention me in ur life again

jaksmillioniar:
if u think I will insult u I wont cos am matured than that.dont mention me in ur life again

Do your worst.

elektra:

Do your worst.

u are a kid I let u go.when uve past 30 in age then we talk

jaksmillioniar:
pocohantas dacblogger God bless u guys

And bless you too.