IAH:

HA, Can you really do this?

Yes i can hunnie.. I hate playing with how i feel. Seriously. Do you guys not watch movies, read books. See how those people that carry their "ego" lose what they really want?? I don't want my life to be like that. If i want something, best believe im getting it!

Just for the record, i tell guys i like them when i really do. It sometimes don't mean i want to date them, i just make them know that.. Hey, i like how u act. And you r cute or summin like that. I think it's absolutely normal. i say, Fxck ego and double fxck Personal standards.
This ain't about being a "foolish, shameless girl" (as that is what most people think you are when you tell a guy u like him). It's basically about me, letting the sh!t out of me by telling him "i like you".

Sometimes you realize that when you tell the guy you like him, you feel soo relieved and it's like.. "whew, i did it, that wasn't too hard". It also depends on how u say it. If you go all slutty and you're like.. "hey sexy, you know i like you hunny cakes". That is just NOOOO... NOo, don't do that.

Like i said earlier, it only takes u to say "do u want to go to the movies on saturday"?

The guys you like will not always like you in turn. But only a stupid, foolish, baboon headed, mothertrucking guy will make fun of you for telling him you like him. Now that's WORD!

jinny542:

Anyway if u like me hot angel just tell me because i need u. bad

you're a case. Lemme put u in the cooler. Anyways, there r so many kinds of like. Of course i like you. U r funny.

Lizzy, I really feel you on this one.

As for you ladies out there who care about personal standards, what's the big deal about a girl asking a guy out? I've met girls who have poured out their feelings to me and that only made me like them more.

F*ck ego and double f*ck personal standard! Think about "your feelings".

There is really no big deal in a gurl asking a guy out

vinna:

I'm basically a very friendly and playful girl, you know the type that would want to make the quiet guy/babe in the room talk (not necessarily because i'm attracted). As for literarily asking a guy out ...I CAN'T, because that will be below my personal standards. I believe its the man that woos and not vice versa (civilisation or no civilisation).

If i crazily like him, all i need do is be in his orbit and let him notice me, but it is left to him to do the wooing....... i might help him by saying yes immediately 

Only you is telling the truth here.
You're saying it point blank.
You can only stay close to the guy and give him some body movement that will send a stimulus to his head and will make him notice you.

If you think I'm lying let's open a thread here and start telling us the guy you like and will want to go out with here on the forum.
Men in the house, am I talking sence?

@GP
I still dont see anything wrong in a girl asking a guy out
She is only expressing her feelings
Must the guys do the wooings?

GP...

People vary. When you get close to some guys thinking you are giving them "signs" that you like them, and waiting for them to do the wooing.. Boyyyyyy.. u r in for trouble. Cos i'll be sitting here, laughing at you and cuddling the guy i told i like him.

How many threads do we get each day from guys asking how to "approach" gurls? More than enough if im right.

QUEENZY:

@GP
I still don't see anything wrong in a girl asking a guy out
She is only expressing her feelings
Must the guys do the wooings?

You very right, I ask a guy out if I like him, I don't wait for him to ask me out, the thing is If I like a guy, as in like fancy him right?... and I wan go out with him, and I know he don't fancy me, I don't ask him out, because there's no point, it'll only make matters worse for me because it would be very embarrasing when he says no, because he don't fancy me, so if I fancy a guy and he fancies me back, and I'm pretty darn sure, he fancies me back, I don't wait for him to ask me out, if he does ask me out first, then fine, if he doesn't, I ain't gon sit my butt down and do nowt about it, I'll go for it, and ask the bobo out , LMFAO , I mean I've asked a couple of guys out like I said earlier, and there's been no qualms so far, so why not?

Z4M4eva:

I've asked a couple of guys out like I said earlier, and there's been no qualms so far, so why not?

Kai! You're BOLD!

LMFAO, you can say that

_{Really, it's going for what I want}

I have asked a guy out b4,i was in JS 3 then and we dated for 2 years.We had to break up cos i was travelling and the distance was much
But now we are best friends

QUEENZY:

I have asked a guy out before,i was in JS 3 then and we dated for 2 years.We had to break up because i was travelling and the distance was much
But now we are best friends

Good for you,Queenzy,that's what I'm talking about

QUEENZY:

I have asked a guy out before,i was in JS 3 then and we dated for 2 years.We had to break up because i was travelling and the distance was much
But now we are best friends

@

Why d fxck u kissing her?

IAH:

Kai! You're BOLD!

IAH.. it's abt getting what you WANT!

Why d fxck u kissing her?

Yei,tempers flaring!

QUEENZY:

I'm re-emphazising that VINNA won't ask no guy out!! Why? Like i said, its way below my personal standard. I live my life on principles and standards; there are things i can and will do, and others i can't and won't do. SIMPLE!

As for the guy not catching my hints, then its his bad luck. Its either he is not attracted (of which i can't force myself on him) or he is not a go-getter (of which i don't have time for such a guy).    I'll move on, He just lost a great lady!

But i ain't asking no dude out! nada!!

Whatever floats your boat hun.

is not a big deal girls asking guyz out as long as the guyz say yes. the main thing is to always go for what you want and dont wait for it 2 come cos it might not.

xsaint:

is not a big deal girls asking guyz out as long as the guyz say yes. the main thing is to always go for what you want and don't wait for it 2 come because it might not.

'xactly

Infact the guy does not have to say YES. It only saves you from 'sulking' and being more like 'depressed'. If you've crushed on someone that don't notice you, yOU'LL KNOW WAT I MEAN. U r there pounding like this and it's like the guy don't even know u breath. You'll ask a guy out if u want him (IMO).

It's better to know the guy don't like you, or he does. Instead of just sitting, spending hours thinking abt him. Infact, u might not know, the guy u like might also be shy.. so ermm, why not leave the suspence and fast forward the 'movie'? Help him out. And u shall both be happy

{i smell a "HA, has this happen to you b4" question coming my way. Well the answer is No/YES. Dont even ask me}

In my opinion its cool. Aint nutin wrong with that. as a matter of fact I'd rather the girl does the asking, that way I can get to make "shakara"

All these ladies claiming they have asked a man out at one point or the other are not saying the truth.
All na make i talk make the matter sweet, or making a cheap popularity.

Greatpeter:

All these ladies claiming they have asked a man out at one point or the other are not saying the truth.
All na make i talk make the matter sweet, or making a cheap popularity.

I have asked a couple of guys out before, and it's the truth, not to make a cheap popularity, it's the[b] TRUTH[/b]

Z4M4eva:

I have asked a couple of guys out before, and it's the truth, not to make a cheap popularity, it's the[b] TRUTH[/b]

Good for you and what is the outcome?
I want to know the big achievement in there.

Greatpeter:

Good for you and what is the outcome?
I want to know the big achievement in there.

You want to know the outcome?well...it turned out to be good, because they fancied me back, and I knew that before I asked them out,because like I said earlier, I don't ask guys out I fancy if they don't fancy me back, because I know if a guy fancies me, and well...they fancied me back and it went from there.And yeah like you said, good for me!

QUEENZY:

Why you rolling your eyes?it's true