Pweety4me:

_{4get it now edit my comment that u quoted.}

na2day?:

pay me

Pweety4me:

_{You r breaking d rules if u don't see me here again don't cry oo. . .}

sista-jay:

To most, divorce is seen as a failure, most men can't stand losin, especially when they've given their all into the marriage.

Pweety4me:

_{Forum rules!check my profile.}

Pweety4me:

_{Wat church?i am a muslim remember?}

na2day?:

since when?

Pweety4me:

_{I told u dat the other tyme derr brain. . .}

uniqued:

na 2 day. wat u yarnin bout go to bed,

na2day?:

by chance is your yahoo id got anything to do with a sanni?

Pweety4me:

_{Huh?who is sanni?}

Pweety4me:

_{I have no idea wat u r talking about?}

uniqued:

pweety4me dont mind him he is confusing you for one of his yahoo mates.  so dnt b confused
na2 day why u ignorin deal with u when u wake up. hisss

Ebonyeyes:

Oh well, the reverse is the case in developing countries where the man kicks the woman and even his kids out of the house. The western countries have laws that protect the wife and kids.

Sagamite:

Thank God you know those are the only 2 parties it protects and in the case of wife, gives advantage. The man does not get any protection, he gets shafted, hence the suicide rate.

Only a foolish, risk-loving or poor man does not sign a pre-nup if he lives in the West.

Sagamite:

Thank God you know those are the only 2 parties it protects and in the case of wife, gives advantage. The man does not get any protection, he gets shafted, hence the suicide rate.

Only a foolish, risk-loving or poor man does not sign a pre-nup if he lives in the West.

FL Gators:

Abegi, thatz not being foolish jare. Thatz being loving.

My rich husband must not sigh prenup. . . . rubish and nonsense. He must understand that its only okay if I take half of his possessions to take care of his children.

@post
Its only understandable. . . .

Sagamite:

No child needs like 200K (in cases of wealthy people) a year to be taken care of.

No way would you spend that on a child, and no one is going to monitor how you spend the money, and since no child needs it, it is going to your pocket and that of your new lover.

No man should be funding an ex (and her lover in some cases), except he deems it fit himself that she is worth it, not if some stuuupid judicial system sees it acceptable.

If a man feels it is OK to take half his possesions to fund his kids, then let him make that decision himself and expense it himself.

Loving ko, shoving ni! When women love you, they will do anything for you. When they stop loving you, they will care for their own poo more than they care for you. If you are rich, protect yourself for when the "loving" stops.

Otherwise, he will funding a woman he is not interesting in anymore and her lover. A man that does that in this day and age of horror stories is a dumbass!

It is lovely to share when you are together, when you are no more together, I aint sharing my sweat anymore.

na2day?:

e don tey wey i know say that head wey dey for your bodi dey function properly. u be beta persin jare, tell the truth, they need to hear it!

FL Gators:

*death* I see your point. . . . but oga, na joke I dey joke with you sha.
Naija men fear me with their animosity towards marriage nowadays

Sagamite:

Thanks, bruv.

The WEST have destroyed marriage. It is one thing to correct a wrong (women being shafted in divorce), but it is another thing to transfer the wrong.

It is not nice (or romantic, as chics would say) to be doing the whole pre-nup thing, but with the risk to men (financial destruction or injustice) involved nowadays in the West, it is a MUST for any one with his wits with him.

It is pretty silly/risky to meet a woman for 18 - 48 months (of dating), and then put the ability to destroy your life in a her hands by not protecting yourself before marriage (the courts WILL not protect you, they will in fact f you up).

It might sound all loving, romantic, beautiful, heavenly, gorgeous, chivalrous, nostalgic, passionate, enchanting, idealistic to say "I love her and I trust her so I don't think I need a prenup". F that, go and ask dumbass Paul Mcartney and hundreds others. Women are biological inclined to think of only their feelings and needs in a relationship, hence their constant me me me in relationships (except that relationship is with a completely selfish male they are with to change, then they are all giving giving giving like mumus).

Very negligible number of women have the self restraint to not exploit the possibility of getting far more than they know they are entitled to from a man they do not love anymore. They are programmed biologically to think of only themselves and their own feelings, and culturally it is accepted for them to be that way.

Sagamite:

Thanks, bruv.

The WEST have destroyed marriage. It is one thing to correct a wrong (women being shafted in divorce), but it is another thing to transfer the wrong.

It is not nice (or romantic, as chics would say) to be doing the whole pre-nup thing, but with the risk to men (financial destruction or injustice) involved nowadays in the West, it is a MUST for any one with his wits with him.

It is pretty silly/risky to meet a woman for 18 - 48 months (of dating), and then put the ability to destroy your life in a her hands by not protecting yourself before marriage (the courts WILL not protect you, they will in fact f you up).

It might sound all loving, romantic, beautiful, heavenly, gorgeous, chivalrous, nostalgic, passionate, enchanting, idealistic to say "I love her and I trust her so I don't think I need a prenup". F that, go and ask dumbass Paul Mcartney and hundreds others. Women are biological inclined to think of only their feelings and needs in a relationship, hence their constant me me me in relationships (except that relationship is with a completely selfish male they are with to change, then they are all giving giving giving like mumus).

Very negligible number of women have the self restraint to not exploit the possibility of getting far more than they know they are entitled to from a man they do not love anymore. They are programmed biologically to think of only themselves and their own feelings, and culturally it is accepted for them to be that way.