I can no longer live with a dead man, please separate us, woman tells court


October 21, 2017


Toluwani Olamitoke


A woman, Adenike Adediran has brought a divorce suit against her husband, Lukman Adediran, at Oja Oba/Mapo Court C Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State on the accounts of neglect and abandonment.

She thus pleaded with the court to separate them and give her custody of their children.

“I have been the one shouldering the responsibility of our home since I got married to my husband 12 years ago.

“I feed him and our children, clothe them and send our children to school.

“He doesn’t know how much the children are paying in school, neither does he know what our house rent is.

“He neglects me and our children and sometimes abandon the home for months.

“He has no shame and goes around boasting I carry out all his responsibilities because I’m head over heels in love with him.

“My lord, he believes I can’t do without him, but I want him to know that I regard him as dead and I can no more live with a corpse, “the plaintiff told the court.

The defendant failed to show up in court after being served a court summon and court hearing twice.

Giving his judgment, the court president, Chief Ademola Odunade, dissolved their union and granted the plaintiff custody of their three children.

He further ordered the defendant to pay the sum of N8, 000 monthly as their children’s feeding allowance and take up the responsibility of their education and health care.







Source: http://www.tribuneonlineng.com/i-can-no-longer-live-dead-man-please-separate-us-woman-tells-court/

This isn’t a man

You married a fuvk Boy pele
*doesnt provide 12 years
* no responsibilities whatsoever
*leaves the house for month (side chic ti takeover)

My dear you did the right thing taken his pitiful self to court... After the will say they want support blah blah blah
See as the woman support person 12 years

the man was 'dead on arrival' in the union, a parasite, a leech, a scumbag. madam, abeg move on with ur life jor, 12yrs no be 12 day, u try.

u know that and u marry him? 12yrs the lord is your strength

Pheals:
u know that and u marry him? 12yrs the lord is your strength

She has been trying to see, if she could make it work.

Lalas247:
This isn’t a man

You married a fuvk Boy pele
*doesnt provide 12 years
* no responsibilities whatsoever
*leaves the house for month (side chic ti takeover)

My dear you did the right thing taken his pitiful self to court... After the will say they want support blah blah blah
See as the woman support person 12 years

I feel for her.

8,000 naira for feeding allowance monthly? except it is paid per child but for 3 kids that alimony is too little abeg

Dasherz:
8,000 naira for feeding allowance monthly? except it is paid per child but for 3 kids that alimony is too little abeg

Especially, in recent times.

tosyne2much:
When a woman is shouldering the family's responsibility, the man becomes a loaf of bread

True talk.

But the last time i checked it is not all that bad for a woman to cater for the family, are they nt the ones crying for gender equaility, but d man self him knw try ooo

Hector09:
But the last time i checked it is not all that bad for a woman to cater for the family, are they nt the ones crying for gender equaility, but d man self him knw try ooo

Women do not like hearing this part.

some men of nowadays are lazy and not ready to provide for their family.....Na to Bleep and chop dem sabi.........women in this situation are trying ooo cos it's not easy to be carrying all the burden of the family whole Ur husband is jobless and less concern about the welfare of the house.

habsydiamond:
some men of nowadays are lazy and not ready to provide for their family.....Na to Bleep and chop dem sabi.........women in this situation are trying ooo cos it's not easy to be carrying all the burden of the family whole Ur husband is jobless and less concern about the welfare of the house.

No man should leave the job of providing for the family to the woman.

habsydiamond:
some men of nowadays are lazy and not ready to provide for their family.....Na to Bleep and chop dem sabi.........

Na wetin dem sabi , na I'm dey make the women follow them.

Flexherbal:


Na wetin dem sabi , na I'm dey make the women follow them.

it seems u have forgotten that all fvck and no work for hand make man u foolish one....

habsydiamond:
it seems u have forgotten that all fvck and no work for hand make man u foolish one....

True talk!