since my fiance started her one year contract job here in enugu, she moved in with me as she has no other choice. little has changed since she moved in with me, at first she wanted to drain me with s*x but the frequency later started reducing since she is seriously busy.

at a point she said we need a break (at least six months) which i agreed (i think she was thinking the sex was too much), only for me to travel to the south for a week and came back and she nearly finished me with her moves and i let her have her way. i find it difficult, in fact i have never said no to her move but she threats mine like its nothing sometimes.

please guys, am i the only one that finds it difficult to say no when she's feeling high and ladies how do you feel when you say no to your hero's move?

Balistic4:
since my fiance started her one year contract job here in enugu, she moved in with me as she has no other choice. little has changed since she moved in with me, at first she wanted to drain me with s*x but the frequency later started reducing since she is seriously busy.

at a point she said we need a break (at least six months) which i agreed (i think she was thinking the sex was too much), only for me to travel to the south for a week and came back and she nearly finished me with her moves and i let her have her way. i find it difficult, in fact i have never said no to her move but she threats mine like its nothing sometimes.

please guys, am i the only one that finds it difficult to say no when she's feeling high and ladies how do you feel when you say no to your hero's move?

Its self control, you dont have to make love whenever you are together. You can engage in some other activity, you can watch TV, get a good movie and watch.

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Op

Let me just advice you been in a similar situation where I was dating a guy and I just didn’t have the time he needed from me ...
Now sometimes you guys find it really hard to compromise ... she is most likely tired .. when a lady is tired sex is the last thing we thing about obv it’s different with males

Have u ever tried cooking a meal doing romantic stuff when she gets back ! Trust me she will see all the efforts and indirectly start showing more love ..
Also you talk to her too tell her what u like and she will do the same ... if the moves she gave u after the break was too much then Oga u seem confused ...

Lalas247:
Op

Let me just advice you been in a similar situation where I was dating a guy and I just didn’t have the time he needed from me ...
Now sometimes you guys find it really hard to compromise ... she is most likely tired .. when a lady is tired sex is the last thing we thing about obv it’s different with males

Have u ever tried cooking a meal doing romantic stuff when she gets back ! Trust me she will see all the efforts and indirectly start showing more love ..
Also you talk to her too tell her what u like and she will do the same ... if the moves she gave u after the break was too much then Oga u seem confused ...

SMH

A stressed man can use sex to relax.
A stressed woman will only sex when she is relaxed.

Fit this into your situation and you have your solution.

pocohantas:
A stressed man can use sex to relax.
A stressed woman will only sex when she is relaxed.

Fit this into your situation and you have your solution.

Lol basically what I tried telling him ... guys sha just won’t get it
They have to understand

Lalas247:
Op

Let me just advice you been in a similar situation where I was dating a guy and I just didn’t have the time he needed from me ...
Now sometimes you guys find it really hard to compromise ... she is most likely tired .. when a lady is tired sex is the last thing we thing about obv it’s different with males

Have u ever tried cooking a meal doing romantic stuff when she gets back ! Trust me she will see all the efforts and indirectly start showing more love ..
Also you talk to her too tell her what u like and she will do the same ... if the moves she gave u after the break was too much then Oga u seem confused ...

all diss relationship guru

some pple started sex adventure very early in life, some started during dia teens and as a result, dey hv had so much experience over d years, unfortunately, most of dem later ends up wt sumone who may nt hv had experience like dem. U dnt hv 2 kill ursef bc u dnt wnt 2 offend her by saying no, wen it comes 2 "death in active service" men ar mostly affected, if u ar stressed, u let her no, she is ur fiancee, u hv 2 start it now atleast 2 see her reaction. I no myself, I personally cn nt cope wt a guy who is 2 wild wen it comes 2 sex

Lalas247:
Op

Let me just advice you been in a similar situation where I was dating a guy and I just didn’t have the time he needed from me ...
Now sometimes you guys find it really hard to compromise ... she is most likely tired .. when a lady is tired sex is the last thing we thing about obv it’s different with males

Have u ever tried cooking a meal doing romantic stuff when she gets back ! Trust me she will see all the efforts and indirectly start showing more love ..
Also you talk to her too tell her what u like and she will do the same ... if the moves she gave u after the break was too much then Oga u seem confused ...

we both are busy and thats why we set aside mondays for rest and i come back b4 her most of the time and i cook, i love cooking and i don't make advances when she is tired but she does when i am tired. just that i like being treated the way i treat others. she broke our six months fasting just like that i'm thinking, if it was me she won't compromise that

pocohantas:
A stressed man can use sex to relax.
A stressed woman will only sex when she is relaxed.

Fit this into your situation and you have your solution.

Wisdom.

It took me time to figure this out. Immediately I did, there was peace.

Passing by

Have you tried making her think you are cheating on her..

Lalas247:


Lol basically what I tried telling him ... guys sha just won’t get it
They have to understand

Them no dey hear o, later they'll say women are confused.

AntiWailer:


Wisdom.

It took me time to figure this out. Immediately I did, there was peace.

LOL @ peace. You're the man!

Balistic4:

we both are busy and thats why we set aside mondays for rest and i come back b4 her most of the time and i cook, i love cooking and i don't make advances when she is tired but she does when i am tired. just that i like being treated the way i treat others. she broke our six months fasting just like that i'm thinking, if it was me she won't compromise that

What do u want from her ? Do u even know ?