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She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Vollon234: 2:58pm On Feb 07
I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Ryda(m): 3:09pm On Feb 07
Flesh and blood won't reveal what I'm about to say to you...


Modified
If she parked in, it means you have two cookie jar at your disposal. You may end up losing your gf if you're not careful.

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Jayrockk: 3:10pm On Feb 07
That will make it two pussy fr u to Bleep in one lodge cheesy

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by 2dice01: 3:16pm On Feb 07
Men are cheap grin

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Beebah2000: 3:32pm On Feb 07
U don't have any business with her. So, why are you complaining??
Wahala for who dey carry unnecessary wahala for head. undecided

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by uthlaw(m): 3:51pm On Feb 07
Vollon234:
I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.
why did you apologized when she say you ignored her,sabi na she wan space...what advice you want us to give you....been a SIMP is a big disease!

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by fikayormi(m): 3:57pm On Feb 07
You are not a real niqa bro , Are you the one paying her rent? She can choose to live anywhere.

Alaye mi Mafor, put her for bestie zone , if chance still dey lash her but let her sabi her boundary

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:57pm On Feb 07
lol, you are not making any sense! why would you care whether this girl moves in your lodge or not, if you have a new girl that you care for?!?! she said she didnt want you, so why are you looking at her as if you have unfinished biz?

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Brendaniel: 3:57pm On Feb 07
Oga, what is your business with her moving to your lodge, face your front, tell her too to face her front and not disturb you if that is what you want...

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by CXLVII: 3:58pm On Feb 07
Keep fvcking her till you are tired

Dispose when done

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by emmanuelbrown26: 3:58pm On Feb 07
Young man, better concentrate on your studies and leave woman alone.
Back to d topic, your ex no say your flesh dey weak to resist toto and if u continue with weak flesh, women go do u shege

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by positivelord: 3:58pm On Feb 07
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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by AxeofGod(m): 3:58pm On Feb 07
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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Exkandayee(m): 3:58pm On Feb 07
The way you acting, you still have feelings for her, let her relocate to your Lodge nothing come out,una go start banging again if 2 say you bangam well those days,okafor law activated,,,but you suppose to de read your books no woman matter, I'll advice you to start banging and move on,no feelings

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by ivolt: 3:58pm On Feb 07
How is this your problem?
She has the right to move into any apartment she rents.
If you are uncomfortable, just park out.

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Csami(m): 3:58pm On Feb 07
Look, landlord go ignore you. Just park out that lodge now cause na vawulence she dey carry come. I’m talking from experience sha but it’s your choice

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by YoshihideSuga: 3:59pm On Feb 07
Simply tell that you have a girlfriend and can't have another random person let alone a female be in your house. It's that simple.

What sort of young men do we've in Nigeria sef?

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by martin1772(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07
70 years old man.

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Hoppeyhemmy(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07
Nawa

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Simeony007(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07
If you've truly moved on tell her so she can look for another lodge. Else she'll ruin your new relationship and still end up dumping you like she does before and this time it will be Glorious Emotional Damage!!!

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Hotzone(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07
That’s improvement

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Dukeolumidemans(m): 3:59pm On Feb 07
To be frank with u, I think ur behaving like a SIMP. I would have moved on if I were u.

Secondly if she comes around with some romantic bullshit, I go fucccck the hell out of her totorials and still move on with ma new chick. No time to check time...

Real life story: I chased a girl in school for 4yrs and she said no to me because I was too slim, broke and ugly then. Fast forward to 3yrs later, I followed up after I got a bank job and she quickly agreed after she saw how sweet and choby I was looking. I show am cash and she mellow. I took her to a hotel in Surulere and fuucçked her from morning till evening. I stepped out to get one or two and left from there. I told the receptionist downstairs that if she ever sees me again in that hotel, make I know wetin cause am. I took a cab and left her there naked. Some days later, she called me and I told her we are done. And that it was in response to how she treated me back in school. So I repeat, no time!!!

I come in peace!!!

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Calibrator: 3:59pm On Feb 07
You should learn to set boundaries when dealing with people and stick religiously to them.


Las las you both will soon start cohabiting because of close proximity.

I live alone and nobody my female friends inclusive, can summon up the courage to tell me that they want to cohabit because they all know that I won't even give you an answer, one dead cold stare is the best you can hope for.





Set boundaries!

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by FuckloveJnr: 4:00pm On Feb 07
2dice01:
Men are cheap grin


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Make Una help me like this post make I win £10 abeg . My wife go divorce me if I no win this money cry cry embarassed

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by lapazi(m): 4:00pm On Feb 07
Ryda:
Flesh and blood won't reveal what I'm about to say to you...

yOU Have nOTHING tO sAy

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Godada(m): 4:00pm On Feb 07
tongue

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by sylve11: 4:00pm On Feb 07
@op, what do you want us to do now? undecided cool

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by revived2: 4:00pm On Feb 07
I ne mumu

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by AxeofGod(m): 4:00pm On Feb 07
Op, I don't want to digest rubbish otherwise I would have read your entire post.

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Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Oppy2k2: 4:00pm On Feb 07
Apologized

Such a SIMPle man....

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