The answer is blowing in the winds. Men are from mars, women are from hell. Man Smart, Woman Smarter. Men enjoy sex. Women endure it. Sex fiends. Nymphomaniacs and maniacs crop up in the sex dictionary. You have read of the hot-blooded. An insatiable appetite for sex. Multiple orgasms.
Shhhh ! Hush it.

In Nigerian society, sex is not often explicitly being spoken about. The discussion about sex is often supposed to be adumbrated and corseted. Traditionally, men are expected to enjoy sex while the women are expected to endure it.


A decent woman who is perceived to be the weaker sex is expected to be chaste and pure and not discuss the issue openly either with her husband or anybody else. It is not the same for a man who is expected to be a warrior and a conqueror on the issue.



He is therefore entitled to as many women as he wants and sow his wild oats indiscriminately. And later, over palm-wine and other drinks, he and his male colleagues and friends would discuss and laugh over their conquests, talking about the kiss and tell syndrome. A typical Nigerian woman would shy away from an open discussion about sex. A woman who speaks openly about sex is perceived to be wayward.



That is what is expected of women in a traditional society. Cultural and religious barriers hinder women from being explicitly sexual. Across marital relationships, women are not often encouraged to talk about sexual pleasures unlike men who flaunt their sexuality all the way, sometimes, acquiring as many wives as they can, keeping mistresses and patronizing prostitutes.


Culturally, Nigerian men are perceived to be overbearing, controlling, and paternalistic. They believe it is “a man’s world” and so they have the tendency to relegate women to subservient roles. Men are fiercely macho, fiercely independent and with a burgeoning sense of entitlement thinking the world belongs to them and women are made to be at their beck-and-call.


Mostly, the rule of abstinence applies to women and not men. In traditional societies, sex was not to be indulged in for pleasure especially as it involves women. A lot of women have been made to hate sex because of their upbringing. Nigerians are still not comfortable with public display of affection and neither are they comfortable with open and public discussions of abortion, sex and exotic sex acts.

Indeed, at the core of every Nigerian, and indeed every African, is the thumbprint, the umbilical cord of their ancestors. A typical Nigerian father or mother would rarely, if ever, utter affectionate or confidence-building words like “I love you…” to their children.


Nigerian men are afraid to turn control over to their wives? They are averse to showing their sensitive side. They want to control and dominate. Sexually, the perception of women has been that of weakened relevance and subordination tied to the oppression they face in a world referred to as “a man s world”. The world at large views the women as the weaker sex.


Female genital mutilation subdues women sexually

To ensure women do not enjoy sexual pleasure..

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