If u walkd up 2a preety young chick on d streets, in a bar, a shopping mall or even in a friends office, and in ur mind ur lyk "men! Na my only chance b dis o, dis cup must not pass me by" what would be ur starting line having in mind its got to b something to capture her attention or make her smile, NL brothas show ur talent on dis thread

To me the Most important thing is creating a connection first of all. either by creating an eye contact and then smile or by complementing  her friends shoes/bag if she came with one. What ever will make it not seem like i snuck up on her , then i go like, "I enjoyed my assessment  but I think it's time to upgrade on dat by officially introducing myself",  At the end of the day how comfortable you say it will determine if it will go well or not,

lyk wen i c a clean fine dude, i lyk smile n mk a comment abt his luks n trust me i dont get turned down cos i gat d swagger, jst 4 d fun of it u know

Don't know if u can buy a hint from a novice like me,but i think its always good to start from a neutral but friendly manner,cus most ladies don't like being dominated by a "strange guy" with a rude confidence!

daylae:

Don't know if u can buy a hint from a novice like me,but i think its always good to start from a neutral but friendly manner,cus most ladies don't like being dominated by a "strange guy" with a rude confidence!

Lovely

what ever you say dont use this line

Scooby1:

what ever you say dont use this line

lol!

daylae:

Don't know if u can buy a hint from a novice like me,but i think its always good to start from a neutral but friendly manner,cus most ladies don't like being dominated by a "strange guy" with a rude confidence!

Gbam!!!!!!

daylae:

Don't know if u can buy a hint from a novice like me,but i think its always good to start from a neutral but friendly manner,cus most ladies don't like being dominated by a "strange guy" with a rude confidence!

rude confidence, no, but u do have to be confident to an extent else she'll run off to her frens and they'll all laugh their asses out,

I tend not to "Toast" but rather strike up a casual conversation with watever is around both of us thats funny, Pray to God she laughs and says "really?"

then its game on


you cant win all the time my good man, 4 out of 10 is a very good pass mark when it comes to stranger talk

daylae:

Don't know if u can buy a hint from a novice like me,but i think its always good to start from a neutral but friendly manner,cus most ladies don't like being dominated by a "strange guy" with a rude confidence!

True dat if possible 0 confidence. . . uhh na actually dat wouldn't work ofcourse cause if he didn't even have just a lil his wimpish a$$ wouldn't be able 2 approach moi!

Lol jwo o

Sometimes I just like to keep it real depending on my mood, for example sometimes ago, I saw this very shapely chick and her really pretty friend in a mall coming up the escalator. I walked up to them and I was like ''hi (offered a handshake), I was standing just over there (pointing to where I was standing) and just saw you and your friend coming up and I thought to myself that I'll be committing a sin if I didn't tell you how beautiful a body you got (paused for like 2secs), I see ladies with really nice bodies every now and then but honestly (gesticulating with my head) yours is whao!'' she smiled, then I looked at her friend and nodded, I was like ''you guys are birds of a feather'', now they both smiled. That was it, I introduced myself chatted a bit and before you say Jack Robinson we were somewhere drinking,

Tell her: Baby u're too much like China's population.

Krissykriss:

Tell her: Baby u're too much like China's population.

lol! Guy u funny

@sexykelly yeah,everyone likes it when they're complimented. complimented.

liking this thread, i can relate.

and it's all the more harder cos girls being girls they form too much, acting all fulfilled and all when deep down they need a date/dying for some action which they haven't had in months. would like girls to help us out. you know you're stepping out with your girl friends looking all hot, intimidating and all. but deep down in you, you want to be toasted. what tips would you give guys?

some months back i was really going with the "you look familiar line" for cheap girls (worked in most cases). but when i see a classy girl i just hope the environment is right to pick up a cool friendly line to use. even at that if we don't get serious minutes to gist for long, i feel kinda ashamed (desperate/foolish) asking for the digits in the small time frame (has happened so many times to me). things become better when I'm sure of seeing the chick again pretty soon to consolidate even without asking for her number at first.

but like Area_boy said, we can't always win, can't always get what we want all d time. it's natural, so no need to feel disappointed. happens to the best.

Circumstance determines what to say to a lady at any given time.

sexykelly:

Sometimes I just like to keep it real depending on my mood, for example sometimes ago, I saw this very shapely chick and her really pretty friend in a mall coming up the escalator. I walked up to them and I was like ''hi (offered a handshake), I was standing just over there (pointing to where I was standing) and just saw you and your friend coming up and I thought to myself that I'll be committing a sin if I didn't tell you how beautiful a body you got (paused for like 2secs), I see ladies with really nice bodies every now and then but honestly (gesticulating with my head) yours is whao!'' she smiled, then I looked at her friend and nodded, I was like ''you guys are birds of a feather'', now they both smiled. That was it, I introduced myself chatted a bit and before you say Jack Robinson we were somewhere drinking,

That is a nice one too!

After maintaining eye contacts for a while. .i'd just go over

Me: Hi, lets stop staring at each other,

Her:. . but i wasn't staring at you!

Me: but now you are. . .

she smiles

Me: ve u got a name? most people have one

she smiles more. . . **if she doesn't tell me her name**. . .i introduce myself.

Me: My name is violent. . . .and i kill people for a living

ROTFL, bros na 440 race d girl go take.@ op, excuse me nne , i love u, talk ur own.

violent:

After maintaining eye contacts for a while. .i'd just go over

Me: Hi, lets stop staring at each other,

Her:. . but i wasn't staring at you!

Me: but now you are. . .

she smiles

Me: ve u got a name? most people have one

she smiles more. . . **if she doesn't tell me her name**. . .i introduce myself.

Me: My name is violent. . . .and i kill people for a living

I swear I like your sense of humor

violent:

After maintaining eye contacts for a while. .i'd just go over

Me: Hi, lets stop staring at each other,

Her:. . but i wasn't staring at you!

Me: but now you are. . .

she smiles

Me: ve u got a name? most people have one

she smiles more. . . **if she doesn't tell me her name**. . .i introduce myself.

Me: My name is violent. . . .and i kill people for a living

Nice one!

sexykelly:

I walked up to them and I was like ''hi (offered a handshake), I was standing just over there (pointing to where I was standing) and just saw you and your friend coming up and I thought to myself that I'll be committing a sin if I didn't tell you how beautiful a body you got (paused for like 2secs), I see ladies with really nice bodies every now and then but honestly (gesticulating with my head) yours is whao!'' she smiled, then I looked at her friend and nodded, I was like ''you guys are birds of a feather'', now they both smiled. That was it, I introduced myself chatted a bit and before you say Jack Robinson we were somewhere drinking, 

Before You walk up to me and offer a handshake,
You had berra be Good Looking and swaggacious(?), else . . .
All those semi-sweet nonsense like ''Did You just fall from Heaven,
I'D be committing a sin if I don't compliment Your look, Heaven must be missing an angel, You look familiar'' blah blah, irritate me. Why can't a brovva just do sumthing
different from the regular recitation with Class? Sense of humor plays a great role too.

hehe!

rokiatu:

I swear I like your sense of humor

Exactly what she'd say. . .and then i hand over my business card and tell her to call me if she want's to get someone killed!

6 times out of 10, we end up at a beach or a club for the weekend!

. . .and 3 times out of 10, i find her waking up in my bed, sometimes i just don't really know how it began!

Some dont lyk when guyz
*Try to chat dem up frm thier car. . .show off buruku!
* tryna guess where d gurl hails from. . .argh!
* Help a gurl wiv smth e.g. her shopping bagz n xpect her number in return

N if yu r one of d guyz dhat goes: "Hi my name is 'Tunde', my friends call me 'Dapo' buh yu can calme 'Steven'. . .i juz dont gettit!

Dats dumb

Hehe!. . .itz either such guyz lose thier nerve while chattin up or r juz rubbish @ it!

i am this shy type, but anyways there are no 2 ways abt it, just walk up 2 her and humbly introduce myself, if she is interested,by the response i will knw and get on with it from there but if she isnt then she is not the only girl around, just will walk away lyk who wants 2 be a millionaire

!GIRLS will walking up 2 her work??.rate it,u knw best!!!!!!

Moyola:

Hehe!. . .itz either such guyz lose thier nerve while chattin up or r juz rubbish @ it!

you sound like you are having fun

walexydon:

i am this shy type,  but anyways there are no 2 ways abt it, just walk up 2 her and humbly introduce myself, if she is interested,by the response i will knw and get on with it from there but if she isnt then she is not the only girl around, just will walk away lyk who wants 2 be a millionaire

!GIRLS will walking up 2 her work??.rate it,u knw best!!!!!!

I think most times what you say is not half as important as how you say it. . . . .

and the moment you start a cov with "Hi, my name is. . ." she already knows what you want!

and don't ever say "Can i meet you?", or "i will like to know you better". . tht's just dumb!

Moyola:

Hehe!. . .itz either such guyz lose thier nerve while chattin up or r juz rubbish @ it!

then teach us!!!!!!!

Dunno why bt none of d replies so make me go 'cool!' inside of me. Guys y'all need 2 get a lot more creative. Go watch movie HITCH, dt's if u havn't already. Peace out!

walexydon:

then teach us!!!!!!!

even my 14yr old lil brother wuld pick MOYO up in 5mins,




moyo abeg na play o