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Single Mothers by Pascopele: 12:07pm On Aug 14
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

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Re: Single Mothers by kingkakaone(m): 12:26pm On Aug 14
I'm not against you OP but I want to ask some important questions.

What if the said lady is toxic?
What if she's a problem to the guy?
What if she's unmarriageable?
What if she is a chronic cheat?
What if she is the person not ready for the guy?

Would you advise your brother or even yourself to marry such a lady after having a child for you before or after marriage?

Did you ask yourself these questions before you wrote your note?

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Re: Single Mothers by eleko1: 1:12pm On Aug 14
sad sad single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

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Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 1:33pm On Aug 14
Please, open up but censor the persons name.
eleko1:
sad sad single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

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Re: Single Mothers by eleko1: 1:39pm On Aug 14
Pascopele:
Please, open up but censor the persons name.
She's a Nairalander. A fellow Nairalander warned peepz to becareful of her.I decided to play along with her and truly, the guy dat warned pipu about her type was rite.I won't disclose her moniker

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Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 1:40pm On Aug 14
I am not asking for the monicker, share your experience, let others learn without mentioning her name
eleko1:
She's a Nairalander. A fellow Nairalander warned peepz to becareful of her.I decided to play along with her and truly, the guy dat warned pipu about her type was rite.I won't disclose her moniker

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Re: Single Mothers by amprat: 2:33pm On Aug 14
Everyone has a reason for leaving Both male and female If you don't know the story ,you might be judging wrongly .

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 3:11pm On Aug 14
Single mothers are losers

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Re: Single Mothers by united442(m): 4:09pm On Aug 14
eleko1:
sad sad single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

40% is way to big..
for me 25% manageable.. even the 5% inside sef, there head dey skipgrin

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Re: Single Mothers by Momoney77: 4:13pm On Aug 14
Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.


Have you heard of Baby Rabies Op, You think guys are the problem right??

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Re: Single Mothers by Blackivy27(f): 5:00pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
Single mothers are losers
grow up. As a man you would come out complaining about your responsibilities even with a female helper as a wife. Well single mother out there shoulder it alone.

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Re: Single Mothers by Blackivy27(f): 5:03pm On Aug 14
united442:


40% is way to big..
for me 25% manageable.. even the 5% inside sef, there head dey skipgrin
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

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Re: Single Mothers by missjo: 5:08pm On Aug 14
Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.
This must surely be a Nigerian men and women thing. Most women in contemporary societies know that the decision to get pregnant or stay pregnant lies solely with them.
My point being,a woman like me would only ever get pregnant when i want to and if I do then the nigga wants to flake on me, well that's his loss.

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 5:12pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
grow up. As a man you would come out complaining about your responsibilities even with a female helper as a wife. Well single mother out there shoulder it alone.
single mothers are losers
Re: Single Mothers by Martinez39: 5:22pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.
Leave ubunja out of your sophistry. Single mothers raise weak men and it is never a good idea to marry a single mother and train her child(ren). Marrying a single mother is like continuing someone's saved game from where they stopped. grin

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Re: Single Mothers by lukui(m): 5:23pm On Aug 14
you(woman) collect my money finish, I carry you to shoprite, buy Gucci for you, buy Ferrari for you, buy human head for you, buy the whole world for you, but at the end of the day, I cannot give you belle?

if I slap you ehn?

the cane that angel Gabriel wants to use to beat you is still being soaked inside hot boiling simmering pepper!!!!
grin grin grin grin

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 5:28pm On Aug 14
Martinez39:
Leave ubunja out of your sophistry. Single mothers raise weak men and it is never a good idea to marry a single mother and train her child(ren). Marrying a single mother is like continuing someone's saved game from where they stopped. grin
imagine!! Who in this day and age even thinks single motherhood deserves glory?

Those are brainless hoes

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Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 5:40pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
imagine!! Who in this day and age even thinks single motherhood deserves glory?

Those are brainless hoes
single fatherhood deserves all the glory I guess... what do I know?

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 5:41pm On Aug 14
Mystic2019:
single fatherhood deserves all the glory I guess... what do I know?
yes sir.

That's how it is.

You get it.

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Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 5:45pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
yes sir.

That's how it is.

You get it.
lol..Ubunja this, Ubunja that. Used to think you were sensible...hahahaha. I'm disappointed! BTW, it's "ma".

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 5:52pm On Aug 14
Mystic2019:
lol..Ubunja this, Ubunja that. Used to think you were sensible...hahahaha. I'm disappointed! BTW, it's "ma".
me and sense are East and West. We don't meet. So stay away.

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Re: Single Mothers by Martinez39: 5:53pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
imagine!! Who in this day and age even thinks single motherhood deserves glory?

Those are brainless hoes
Don't mind them. To show the hypocrisy, why don't these bimbos ever praise single fathers if they really thought single parenthood is the stuff of bravery? Why should a single parent be seen as brave as if he/she was forced to have sex to give birth? If single parents do not take care of their kids, who will? Beside, it's their responsibility to do so and no one deserves a trophy for fulfilling their responsibilities.

Funny how women always want undue privileges, praises and accolades for doing nothing. Very soon all girls will start saying "having a vagina is the bravest and toughest thing in the world". Already, many of them think that their presence in a relationship is worth something and compensates for the money and luxurious lifestyle their boyfriends give them. What bunch of weak losers. grin

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 5:58pm On Aug 14
Martinez39:
Don't mind them. To show the hypocrisy, why don't these bimbos ever praise single fathers if they really thought single parenthood is the stuff of bravery? Why should a single parent be seen as brave as if he/she was forced to have sex to give birth? If single parents do not take care of their kids, who will? Beside, it's their responsibility to do so and no one deserves a trophy for fulfilling their responsibilities.

Funny how women always want undue privileges, praises and accolades for doing nothing. Very soon all girls will start saying "having a vagina is the bravest and toughest thing in the world". Already, many of them think that their presence in a relationship is worth something and compensates for the money and luxurious lifestyle their boyfriends give them. What bunch of weak losers. grin
I tell you. Very soon you gonna hear that rubbish.

Single Mothers tho.
Why must a woman who couldn't use any of the free dozen and plus contraception available and couldn't get pregnant for a responsible man be praised as a heroine.

During our ancestral age they were shamed for their immorality

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Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 5:59pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
me and sense are East and West. We don't meet. So stay away.
you didn't have to say this. I need no prophet to tell me. All your fans must be senseless too. What a shame. A single mom might be one whose husband/fiancé died. Common sense would've told anyone to stop generalizing. Several situations warrant such. Even before your response, I had made my conclusion. Lol.

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Re: Single Mothers by Nobody: 6:00pm On Aug 14
Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.
Ok. Noted.
Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 6:02pm On Aug 14
Mystic2019:
you didn't have to say this. I need no prophet to tell me. All your fans must be senseless too. What a shame. A single mom might be one whose husband/fiancé died. Common sense would've told anyone to stop generalizing. Several situations warrant such. Even before your response, I had made my conclusion. Lol.
yes. So walk away

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Re: Single Mothers by 24kmagic(m): 6:19pm On Aug 14
The only single mothers I love and respect are those who lost their husbands or got divorced.

But you see all those ones that fvcked one dude and gave birth outside wedlock? I fvcking hate them. They fvcking disgust me. I'm never having anything serious to do with them, except to add to their misery.
Na me go clean another person mess? #spits


The only single mother I will marry if I see is a widow. I will love and treat her child (ren) as mine. I will love and treat her right.
Every other category of single mother is a complete turn off.

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Re: Single Mothers by united442(m): 6:57pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

its truegrin
especially single mom of this present world/generation within the age of 25-30, not gone at the days wen ur mom was still fresh.

jst fix her within or inside the 25%..

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Re: Single Mothers by Blackivy27(f): 7:04pm On Aug 14
united442:


its truegrin
especially single mom of this present world/generation within the age of 25-30, not gone at the days wen ur mom was still fresh.

jst fix her within or inside the 25%..
grin She's in the 1%group. Its rare to see mums like her.

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Re: Single Mothers by Rosay15(f): 7:07pm On Aug 14
Mystic2019:
you didn't have to say this. I need no prophet to tell me. All your fans must be senseless too. What a shame. A single mom might be one whose husband/fiancé died. Common sense would've told anyone to stop generalizing. Several situations warrant such. Even before your response, I had made my conclusion. Lol.
.. You shouldn’t have replied him, d guy and his fans are just something else.
He think he knows it all but to me he knows nothing, I don’t just know what’s all the hype all about.

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Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:08pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.
technically speaking a widow is NOT a single mother.


Oh that's why people here get mad when I diss single mothers? cheesy

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Re: Single Mothers by Blackivy27(f): 7:11pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
technically speaking a widow is NOT a single mother.


Oh that's why people here get mad when I diss single mothers? cheesy

Yep. Suh who's a single mum?

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