I met my bf this January,we are both from same side though he lives outside Nigeria,at first I didn't really take him serious but because of how committed and nice he is,I began to love him so much,he makes me laugh out loud like no one else does.he is very witty.My happiness some how revolves around him.when he says something because i love him,I will just believe.

When I first started talking to him.one day I slept and dreamt a dream,in the dream 2 women approached me and warned me to stay away from him,the one talking to me was pointing the other one that this is his wife that she already has 2 kids,the dream was looking so real that I was afraid and I asked him if he was married or in serious relationship,he said No,that why would he hide such a thing from me that there was nothing like that.I moved on from the dream and we continued,we talk,chat,video call almost daily on phone,but on Sundays we make long calls like 2 to 3 hour but something happened this pass Sunday. we were on whatApp video call,he kept saying bad network that he was not hearing properly,I now said okay let me call from my side on audio,immediately I placed the call,a baby was screaming at the background,fear grip me,I asked him whose baby was crying,he said he was in his friends house,the child was his friend's,he noticed I wasn't convinced,he became angry that why would ask if the baby was his that don't I trust him,bla bla. Now i beginning to believe the dream i had.

Please do you guys think,how do I even begin to disconnect emotionally and mentally from him,it will be quite hard

I still don't understand why Nigerian girls will date a man they'd naturally not give a second thought to simply because he is overseas!!!!!!

Your relationship with this man is known in Nigerian parlance as "The more you look, the less you see".
Simply put, it is a mirage.

I'd advice you to discard the euphoria of having a diaspora lover and devote more energy to building a feasible relationship with a man in close proximity to you.

A man you can see,
A man you can touch,
A man who can scratch your back when you feel itchy.

Not a manipulative piece of lying jerk whose honesty you'd have to conduct a poll on NL to ascertain.

Believe me, there are a million things about a man you would never find out even if you spend all year with him on WhatsApp, Skype and Viber.

Marriage is much more than him calling you over free Wi-Fi and you sending him nudes.
Use your head ma.

nwaamaikpe has said it all.

The signs are clear, he is a married man who wants to use u to satisfy hIs libido and then dump u .

NwaAmaikpe:



I still don't understand why Nigerian girls will date a man they'd naturally not give a second thought to simply because he is overseas!!!!!!

Your relationship with this man is known in Nigerian parlance as "The more you look, the less you see".
Simply put, it is a mirage.

I'd advice you to discard the euphoria of having a diaspora lover and devote more energy to building a feasible relationship with a man in close proximity to you.

A man you can see,
A man you can touch,
A man who can scratch your back when you feel itchy.

Not a manipulative piece of lying jerk whose honesty you'd have to conduct a poll on NL to ascertain.

Believe me, there are a million things about a man you would never find out even if you spend all year with him on WhatsApp, Skype and Viber.

Marriage is much more than him calling you over free Wi-Fi and you sending him nudes.
Use your head ma.

They won't listen.

NwaAmaikpe:



I still don't understand why Nigerian girls will date a man they'd naturally not give a second thought to simply because he is overseas!!!!!!

Your relationship with this man is known in Nigerian parlance as "The more you look, the less you see".
Simply put, it is a mirage.

I'd advice you to discard the euphoria of having a diaspora lover and devote more energy to building a feasible relationship with a man in close proximity to you.

A man you can see,
A man you can touch,
A man who can scratch your back when you feel itchy.

Not a manipulative piece of lying jerk whose honesty you'd have to conduct a poll on NL to ascertain.

Believe me, there are a million things about a man you would never find out even if you spend all year with him on WhatsApp, Skype and Viber.

Marriage is much more than him calling you over free Wi-Fi and you sending him nudes.
Use your head ma.

Hope some see sense

On the flip side, he may be telling the truth. It seems you don't really trust the guy you're dating with women and dreams sometimes could be a product of what your mind was fixated upon for too long. Secondly, it could've been a coincidence that he was with his married friend whose child was making noise at the time you called. Don't make rash decision out of assumption.

You can detach from him if you want to, this is the time where you have to forgo your emotions and let your brains help you.
It won't be easy, but it's possible..
Learn from others mistakes and don't make yours for others to learn..run before it's too late..

Start by cutting all ties with him, do what you enjoy, go out, you'll be tempted to talk to him, but let your brains do the reasoning and not emotions..
Trust your instincts.

I have never seen NwaAmaikpe in this apparel before. Sister, this is the truth served you on a platter of gold. Men on Skype, imo and Co are a facade. If there's a concrete way you can verify his claims, please do so ASAP! You won't see the loop holes because love seems to blind us all. In my opinion, I think it's a lil inappropriate to do a long call of 2/3 hours with my partner at a friend's place. Our discussion is meant to be private! Shine your eye Sis.

NwaAmaikpe:



I still don't understand why Nigerian girls will date a man they'd naturally not give a second thought to simply because he is overseas!!!!!!

Your relationship with this man is known in Nigerian parlance as "The more you look, the less you see".
Simply put, it is a mirage.

I'd advice you to discard the euphoria of having a diaspora lover and devote more energy to building a feasible relationship with a man in close proximity to you.

A man you can see,
A man you can touch,
A man who can scratch your back when you feel itchy.

Not a manipulative piece of lying jerk whose honesty you'd have to conduct a poll on NL to ascertain.

Believe me, there are a million things about a man you would never find out even if you spend all year with him on WhatsApp, Skype and Viber.

Marriage is much more than him calling you over free Wi-Fi and you sending him nudes.
Use your head ma.

nwaAmaikpe you are such an intelligent chap but very stupid sometimes

Clear conscience fears no accusation...

If the guy was telling the truth why then would he get upset cos you asked him a simple question?

Use your head...it's obvious he's playing you for a fool

Hustle for yankee husb

aunty unless u a wh0re wer do u wake up every morning

unless u a gboy wer do u go every morning?


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crunchyDope:
aunty unless u a wh0re wer do u wake up every morning

unless u a gboy wer do u go every morning?


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What are you saying?

chiomadim:

What are you saying?

i can't even remember d point i was trying to make