A lot of people have not a clue as to the power "why" , to most it's just a statement of inquiry; seeking reasons , but it's so much more;it's a plea 4 liberation, 4 freedom, 4 peace of mind, 4 something 2 hold unto when world's spirallin down deep, dark pit of hopelessness , confused? - bet u're!

u ever been in a relationship & ur BF/GF wakes up one morning with the dreaded "Its Over!" and u ask "why?" but get no answer , gettin d picture now?

if u ever have 2 break-up with ur partner, the least u can do 4 'em is answer that key question "why"; why? 'cos u're probably doing that person a world of good more than u can ever imagine -
u're making it easy 4 'em 2 get over u & move on
u've thot 'em a lesson
and u might not know this, but u're also helpin a relationship in d future

think about it , when u wanna end that relationship, leave that person with something 2 hold on to, thru the mist of heartbreak and pain; u'd have given 'em some joy!

Just a silly question, are you advicing one to give the real reason for the break-up or the "official" reason, because there are some reasons you will give that would only compound somebody's woes, want examples?


What would a lady say if you told her you are calling it quits because you just discovered another girl that is hotter in bed, or one that is better educated, or is more refreshing to be it, or is more adventurous?

Best you revert to the good old lines "I don't think am good enough for you"

Though I completely agree with you in that its best someone knows his / her short falls, it sure would come in handy when dealing with a new relationship,

@ Nduleme

whatever reason it is , no matter how stupidly insane, just tell 'em @ least then evrybody knows where the problem originates!

don't u think - "I don't think am good enough for you" is a lil' outta vogue now?

Might have been in use for a while but I think it does some good to someone's spirit