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Picking The Right Wife by 2buffagain(m): 10:46pm On Nov 13, 2017
An interesting article. What do y'all think?

You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this article is for you. We will not review whether or not you should get married but we will review how to pick the right wife.

Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.

Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.

You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) – you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.

Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.

Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.

There are only two reasons a man should ever get married:

1) He wants to start a family.

2) His career or political ambitions demand he has a wife (he is interested in going into politics). We will not talk about this except to say that a political wife is for show and show only. For this article we will assume the reader falls into the first category.

There is absolutely no other reason to ever get married. Love is not a reason to get married. When you get married you sign all your power over to your wife – it must be of some benefit for you to do so. That benefit is to grow old with your family.

The goals of a marriage should be:

1) Minimize the chance of divorce theft and child robbery.

2) Maximize wife's happiness with her wifely and motherly duties (the complete opposite of everything you will see, read or hear). It's not about empowerment (or any other buzzword designed to kill the traditional family), she should be completely devoted to her family. True happiness for a woman comes from her family, it does not come from her career, or her “independence”, or her sexually liberated point of view.

3) Have a healthy, happy family with well educated, respectful children – non-sissified sons and girlish daughters with strong family values.

Be honest about what you want:

Most men don't want an “independent, empowered” woman. That's code for bitchy slut with a chip on her shoulder.

We all want a sweet, nice, joyful, feminine woman who treats her man like a King.

Bullshitters will suck up to the dregs and say the opposite in a futile attempt to get some action. These poor suckers get shit on the most and never understand why. Hear this gentlemen – women love men who go after what they want, who don't take a woman's BS seriously, and treat her like a woman, not like a man in drag. Women hate suck-ups as much as they hate stepping in dog poop on the street. To a woman, a male suck-up is less than human.

Divorce:

There is no denying that marriage is a very, very bad deal. When you get married you immediately give your wife all the power over your money and your children. “No-fault” divorce really means “his-fault” divorce. If your wife is to decide she wants a divorce she can have all the benefits of being married and none of the drawbacks. Divorce is theft from the man. It's a redistribution of wealth from men to women. She can live off of your paycheck via alimony and child support and she can keep your children and raise them in a single-mother or step-daddy household. She has the complete and full support of Papa Government behind her. In the eyes of the law she can do no wrong and you can do no right. And there is nothing you can do about any of that. That's why you have to choose the right wife in the first place to eliminate much of that risk.

Steps should be taken to minimize the chances of divorce. You must take extra special precaution to choosing the right wife so you can avoid the possibility of a financially devastating and family ruining divorce.

When to get married:

The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn money, think of what he wants in a wife, and settle down a little bit. The ages of 20-30 are the wild years but after the 30 year mark men will tend to settle down. Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with.

Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man's marriage value is at its highest.

We have spoken about the need for a good woman here. In the following section we will look at how to determine good women from bad women.

The top 12 rules for picking the right wife to maximize a happy life and minimize the chance of divorce…

1) She should be young.

The woman should 30 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.

A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it go...
It's long so finish the rest there
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Re: Picking The Right Wife by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 13, 2017
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Re: Picking The Right Wife by Nobody: 10:48pm On Nov 13, 2017
bull shittt every where undecided
Re: Picking The Right Wife by babyfaceafrica: 12:20am On Nov 14, 2017
Not bad

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Re: Picking The Right Wife by TIDDOLL(m): 12:39am On Nov 14, 2017
Marriage is an Institution in the society we live in, not some business enterprise... undecided
Re: Picking The Right Wife by 2buffagain(m): 6:23am On Nov 14, 2017
TIDDOLL:
Marriage is an Institution in the society we live in, not some business enterprise... undecided

Tell that to the women out here in the west.
Even Nigerian women are not exempt.

It's a hard-ball article, and not 100% agreeable, but its an article every man today needs to read to regain their advantage in this thing called 21st century marriage. It is exactly because of the ignorance of us thinking that the marriage we knew in past generations is the marriage we see today. Women aren't smiling.

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