My elder sister's wedding was fixed for May 1st 2010 but as at last week her husband- to-be family insisted that the wedding should be called off.reason:we are from the north(Adamawa,Christians particularly) and they are from Delta State and na our people day cause commotion for Nigeria especially as they lost some family members in the recent Jos crisis..

How old is he again? How can he judge the actions of a few extremists on the whole state?

He's found a fresh virgin, your sister has served her purpose to him he's moving on to the next conquest, and the riot gave him a good excuse to dump your sis,
Please make sure your sister bills him for all the banging he did

simply return his ring

@kpolli not that easy u know
@tee jay na one person dey enjoy d banging ne?
@ebonyeyes he is almost 35yrs but he is not actually in support of the new development. Do u think eloping should be an option

ebonysmoot:

My elder sister's wedding was fixed for May 1st 2010 but as at last week her husband- to-be family insisted that the wedding should be called off.reason:we are from the north(Adamawa,Christians particularly) and they are from Delta State and na our people day cause commotion for Nigeria especially as they lost some family members in the recent Jos crisis..

I can't say I blame them!

Is it pressure from his family? I dont think its a good idea to alienate ones family for "love" because when love goes wrong who does one turn to? They should try and have a diplomatic meeting where both parties air their worries and look for a suitable solution.

how hard can it be?

Ebonyeyes:

Is it pressure from his family? I dont think its a good idea to alienate ones family for "love" because when love goes wrong who does one turn to? They should try and have a diplomatic meeting where both parties air their worries and look for a suitable solution.

You are right, running away will be crazy. But I just cant find it in me to judge the guy's family.

You know someone shot a close friend of mine and all I think is I just want to catch him (the culprit) and squeeze his brain. And then imagine if I discover he could in any way be related to my BF. The r/ship is over, no two ways about that!

kpolli:

simply return his ring

That's just an excuse. . .There's more to it!