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How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by lila007(f): 12:34am On Mar 24, 2010 |
I have been with this guy for 5yrs and we have children together and live together too I have been faithful I have been honest I was 135 pound after my two kid i gain 5 pound and i am a beautiful girl I met him when i was 24 yrs and we been together for 5yrs, do the math and you will know my age I feel like i am wasting my time and my energy with him. His mother told me to have patience but my mind tell me another thing He doesn't wanna talk about marriage He say he doesn't understand why peoples get married,i will ask him does that mean that you don't wanna get married,he will say that is not what it's meant COULD SOMEBODY OR A GUY TELL ME WHAT ITS MEANT BY THAT |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 12:37am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Well I admit some folks are better off just remaining partners but this your Beau puzzles me I mean he already has two kids why not make it official? |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by TOPE20001(f): 12:40am On Mar 24, 2010 |
This usually happens when u guys co-habit b4 marriage, after u start having kids the guy often relaxes. i doubt if he will ever do the deed anymre. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by coolier(f): 12:43am On Mar 24, 2010 |
lila007: Obviously you are okay with the arrangement, if not there wouldn't be these many children. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by 190: 12:44am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Its a lady affair No males please! |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by sulad82i(m): 12:45am On Mar 24, 2010 |
some men are afraid of commitment. I dont want to hurt ur feeling but I'll like to say maybe he has an eye somewhere else but think the baby was by chance. His mum def know something, he might have told her he's not willing to settle with u. At the same time, I think he's considering it. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by lila007(f): 12:52am On Mar 24, 2010 |
WHAT ABOUT YEARS I SPENT WITH HIM? |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 12:53am On Mar 24, 2010 |
My dear, we hear of women being with men for 8, 10 or even 15yrs without a ring in sight and sometimes they get dumped eventually. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by lila007(f): 12:59am On Mar 24, 2010 |
HE SAY : I AM 100% COMMITMENT TO THIS RELATIONSHIP THAT SHOULD BE OK WITH ME BECAUSE THAT MARRIAGE DOES NOT BRING ANY HAPPINESS RELATIONSHIP I WANT MORE THAN COMMITMENT |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by lila007(f): 1:05am On Mar 24, 2010 |
MALE AND FEMALE I NEED TO KNOW WHAT ITS MEANT BY I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLES GET MARRIED |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by waleski(m): 1:11am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes:Useless set of people it is mindbulgling spending dat amount of time with smbody nd u dnt marry in d end |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 1:13am On Mar 24, 2010 |
waleski:You dont know the lies those spawns of the devil told those women. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by sulad82i(m): 2:11am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: its not all true that way. I was with a gurl for 5 years when I was in 9ja before leaving for the state. After three years here, I planned to go home and get engage with her. To my surprise, she told me off that I left the country when she needed me the most. She left me for one yahoo-boy. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:13am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Na wa so you expected her to wait for you? I think the girl tried. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by sulad82i(m): 2:22am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: so u mean if ur man see an opportunity for better life for u and him but will require him to leave for a while , u will do the same? |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by fifi09(f): 5:00am On Mar 24, 2010 |
lila007: @Post: It's mainly a question of commitment to your partner. Not all guys are scared to commit; some men react differently to commitment than others, some just want to have a good time and not commit and run away, but I have to say some men are not scared to commit to the right women. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by kitlady02(f): 5:01am On Mar 24, 2010 |
@sulad82i, Why not,time waits for nobody especially women. lila007: meaning - i dnt understand why people bye the whole cow when they can have the milk free. . . . My dear your in a mess n May God help u, |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by kitlady02(f): 5:07am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by THEAMAKA(f): 6:57am On Mar 24, 2010 |
I don't think the number of years matter. (although i believe[b] AT LEAST[/b] a year so you can say you know your partner well enough) the feeling just had to be there and you need to know that's what you want. some people can date for 5 years and still not ready or in the right mindset for marriage. so. . . |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Girl846(f): 8:12am On Mar 24, 2010 |
Please get married as soon as possible. However if your guy is forced into marriage it will not be good. I do not know your religion, but the only kind of relationship acceptable and pleasing to God is marriage. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by daduke2k(m): 8:12am On Mar 24, 2010 |
5 yrs, hell no. Cant even date 4 two months. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by 190: 8:14am On Mar 24, 2010 |
THE AMAKA: |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by THEAMAKA(f): 8:26am On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^^ excuse me? |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by 190: 8:35am On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ yes baby how can i be of assistance!! |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by THEAMAKA(f): 8:49am On Mar 24, 2010 |
190:be keeping shut! |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by 190: 8:54am On Mar 24, 2010 |
^^ Not until Our kids stop crying go and brea,st feed em |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by sistajay(f): 8:59am On Mar 24, 2010 |
@ Poster Why you askin dis kan question, you made it damn ezi for this guy, by livin together and raisin kids together and now all you want is proof on paper his your man. If you want to carry his name go and have it done by deed poll, jare! This guy ain't ready to marry ya! |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Tinksh(f): 9:08am On Mar 24, 2010 |
He has got what he wants, 'wife' and kids he obviously doesnt think he needs to do more. I dont understand why you wont marry the mother of your children, maybe he is keeping his options open. Doesnt make any sense. I wish you well. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by lila007(f): 3:25pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
THANKS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO SHOULD I MOVE ON? I DON'T WANNA WASTE ANOTHER YEAR WITH HIM |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by Nautillus(m): 3:46pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
Your Pseudo husband is just a Jacka$$. . .(sorry abt the language) He just Eating his cake, Having a woman at home doing all the "womanly" stuff/ having kids. . .while he can still brandish the "i'm very single" status outside your home. Honestly,. . .i think u are in too deep already. . . .Guess you just have to wait it out and pray that he eventually grows up and take u to the altar. He is a jerk. . . .an over grown jerk. . .and the bad part is , . .his mum supports him |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by boy1(m): 3:56pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
He should seal d deal if he's so serious about u. . .it's high time. |
Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by fifi09(f): 5:40pm On Mar 24, 2010 |
lila007: To be honest, only you can take ownership of your feelings and decisions, no one can do it for you. There's only so much one can take before they break, when the time comes you'll know when to move on. Nautillus: So true, it's so |
she will 'beat' him till he dies of hunger / For The Sake Of Our Marriage / I Will Be Getting Married This Year,
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