I met this girl early this year and we didn't really connect until recently. So, straight to the pint, the day we had sex (after lots of begging) she told me she was raped at a tender age. I was a bit upset, asked her why she didn't tell me in the first place and she said she wanted to and all.

What I want to ask now is:

- should I end the relationship as every sexual experience could serve as a reminder of that day

-could it be a lie as I have read often times that girls use that as a cover up for not being a virgin (she didn't want to give in at first telling me she's keeping herself for her husband)

Your honest opinion is needed on this matter. Thanks.

mtchewww ode.

let's wait for the arrival of the elders...

I'm sure you asked her out because of her qualities and not her kitty. Has the broken hymen changed this?

I know you feel hurt, but if it was the truth, if there's potential, sowwie, but if those qualities and feelings you felt for her before the moment is still there, then you need to sort this out offline bro. If you dabble whether she's saying a lie or not, you will leave yourself confused. So, it's either she scammed you, which i believed she did, or you overlook it. As you like

Fake Love Evry Whr!

Council of the elders.... ur attention is needed.

After you,she will tell another man.Most of them use this to cover up there wayward lifestyle when growing up.

walepackage:
After you,she will tell another man.Most of them use this to cover up there wayward lifestyle when growing up.

and over 80% of them were actually raped or molested by jerks like you.

xendra:
and over 80% of them were actually raped or molested by jerks like you.

i would have answer you in same way.But,i wouldnt do that,cos i will asume that the most 'working part' of your brain was malfunction when you typed that shi.it,as such,its expected of you to post this giberish.When you decipher from lie and fact,then you can quote me.

luk beyond d rape and focus on Wat actually attracted u 2 her in d first place, wen u truly luvs sumone, tins like dis shud b trashed. Her attitude, her luv 4 u, her respects 4 u, weda she is sumone u cn trust ur future, kids and finances wt, ar more important dan her past. 4get her past and focus on d future

i usually stay away from gals that have been raped.
i just dont need that type of baggage. even if my own wife was raped i would divorce her.she is damaged.she is broken.she will never view sex in a postive light ever again.
i have seen women divorce men after the men lost their jobs,i seen women divorce men after diabetes destroyed the erection.so no woman fire smart words at me

Im still surprised people feel rape stories by girla are faked. Is it not on same NL we read of how young girls as young as 3 are defiled?
I could pull up more than 20 threads without going far on NL in 5 min.
Its unfair to assume she's lying about her experience.
If you want to break up with her because of that, you're on your own. Majority of rape victims carry that experience to their graves, because they will be shamed and victimised all over again.
You next gf might have faced worse. My heart is with the girl child, she has suffered too much. If you know half of what young nigerian girls face, you will be carrying a knife and a gun together to protect your child, and never letting her out of your sight. Is it from the pedophilic blood uncles, fathers and cousins? Is it from the pedophilic teachers in schools?, how about neighbors and domestic staff of their parents?
The boy child too is no longer exempt from this as times are changing.
All rapists should have their balls cut off

So one day I asked a lady if she was still a virgin the babe gave me a YES and NO answer, I was damn shocked. The yes was that the guy chook the prick and the no was that when he chook the prick it was painful and he asked him to stop. Women

Okay real advice guys.

OpIf she was very tight when you penetrated then she's not lying.

hmmmm

luk beyond d rape and focus on Wat actually attracted u 2 her in d first place, wen u truly luvs sumone, tins like dis shud b trashed. Her attitude, her luv 4 u, her respects 4 u, weda she is sumone u cn trust ur future, kids and finances wt, ar more important dan her past. 4get her past and focus on d future



I can forget but can she? I guess not and that's if its true anyway

Okay real advice guys.

OpIf she was very tight when you penetrated then she's not lying.



Wasn't very tight.

RealPMer:
Okay real advice guys.

OpIf she was very tight when you penetrated then she's not lying.



Wasn't very tight.

She's lying 100%

RealPMer:
I met this girl early this year and we didn't really connect until recently. So, straight to the pint, the day we had sex (after lots of begging) she told me she was raped at a tender age. I was a bit upset, asked her why she didn't tell me in the first place and she said she wanted to and all.

What I want to ask now is:

- should I end the relationship as every sexual experience could serve as a reminder of that day

-could it be a lie as I have read often times that girls use that as a cover up for not being a virgin (she didn't want to give in at first telling me she's keeping herself for her husband)

Your honest opinion is needed on this matter. Thanks.

Maybe she gave you a virus and told the rape story just in case you test positive. You begged for it after all.
Or
Maybe she just feels connected to you...

tosyne2much:
Ahn ahn.. This shouldn't be a problem now, only if you don't love her.

Always learn to embrace HONEST ladies and never let them regret telling you their past

No Tosin, if a lady was raped and din't have sex for a long time, it will be tight, very tight

Ahn ahn.. This shouldn't be a problem now, only if you don't love her.

Always learn to embrace HONEST ladies and never let them regret telling you their past



How do I know if she's being honest? She even even made me promise not to talk about it again.

Maybe she gave you a virus and told the rape story just in case you test positive. You begged for it after all.
Or
Maybe she just feels connected to you...


Connected??

Jupxter:



No Tosin, if a lady was raped and din't have sex for a long time, it will be tight, very tight

Sure it will.. But the OP never said it wasn't tight when he browsed into it nah

tosyne2much:
Sure it will.. But the OP never said it wasn't tight when he browsed into it nah

He said so, check

RealPMer:
Ahn ahn.. This shouldn't be a problem now, only if you don't love her.

Always learn to embrace HONEST ladies and never let them regret telling you their past



How do I know if she's being honest? She even even made me promise not to talk about it again.

The truth of the matter is that many ladies are fond of bringing up touching stories just to show they are decent


It's left for you to believe it or not

Oga, your fiancée abi girlfriend opened a thread on your head yesterday asking us to help her find a way to deceive you with the fake rape and virginity thing.

Chai, so she ended up taking the advice she got here.

tosyne2much:
The truth of the matter is that many ladies are fond of bringing up touching stories just to show they are decent


It's left for you to believe it or not

My spirit keeps telling me its a lie, from the moment i opened the thread.

Truth is, if it wasn't very tight, Tosin it's a lie, no need painting it in shades of grey

RealPMer:
Okay real advice guys.
OpIf she was very tight when you penetrated then she's not lying.


Wasn't very tight .

Nawa oooo

tosyne2much:
Nawa oooo

If it's loose, then she's lying. Once or twice incidences isn't enough to make the place so loose

Jupxter:



My spirit keeps telling me its a lie, from the moment i opened the thread.

Truth is, if it wasn't very tight, Tosin it's a lie, no need painting it in shades of grey

Looking at the story, the whole thing looks fabricated