turtuga:
damn cant believe i was this stupid!!!
she leaving my house ASAP!!!

am the dumpiest guy of the year....

Dumbest guy of the year?? Hell no! There was no competition. You've been heading that position for a long time now

Summary please


Who the hell will read that on a working day nitori olorun op fear God na ....

turtuga:
damn cant believe i was this stupid!!!
she leaving my house ASAP!!!

am the dumpiest guy of the year....

Finally some progress

How soft can someone be?

Prostitutes don't love. Settle that in your heart bro.

After she kills you... with depression or heart attack you will know what to do.. ode

Why are guys like this? Thats how a friend of mine gf came back to him after 2yrs when she broke up with him and left with an older working class dude when we were in uni then. The stupid guy accepted her back and she left him few months later. Guys should better wise up there are good girls out there but most of these girls are just hoes. Shine your eyes.

turtuga:
damn cant believe i was this stupid!!!
she leaving my house ASAP!!!

am the dumpiest guy of the year....

Here is your award bro...

Guy that girl will kill you if you don't let her go

@Op, Nope, God is not mad at you rather I think you need Jesus! And when you find Him (fortunately, He's close by and loves you)...Kindly introduce Him to your partner.

For the main time, I think you've gat to dissociate yourself from this lady - let her go!

She needs help - and I bet you, you can't help her. In fact, going by your story, you too needs urgent help - you can't give what you don't have.

You want pleasure and now I can see that you are under intense pressure which will definitely take away all your treasure soonest if you continue - please put a stop to this now!

turtuga:
Hello NLs.
Its a bright afternood isnt it? but not for me, i feel like screeming outta my shell. I met this girl 6months ago, she is related to my former landlord, i met her after i broke up with my ex, she seemed nice, when i mean nice i mean madly nice! she was so caring and acted like she was gonna die if i hurt hurt her. more to it, she told me about how her dad is really rich and how he covers for her fees and how she cant even ask a guy for anything as her dad provides for everything. i bet the whole thing and fell in love with her (am a hustling guy, i mean who wouldnt?), so we started dating, she told me she was a virgin and all that, i bought that too, and the fact she is a deeper life member made me fall for her the more. Not long we started having a hide and seek affair as she didnt want her cousin to find out, it was romantic oh yes. she would sneak into my room and we get to ruffle things up(but not have sex, as she was maintaining still a virgin), most times she would tell me to take her to a hotel when she couldnt sneak in (the hotel thing set some things off but i was to blinded) she normally plugs her phone with me so one day i tried and unlocked the phone and straight to her whatsapp message.

I must tell you guys i have never been so shocked in my life before, there she was in a romantic relationship with many married men and young guys too, the picture was when you need her just call her and pay! i went through every bit of messages in her whatsapp, to the extent one dude had to call her a LovePeddler, dog, local prostitute with dependable parents. i felt like freezing!!! of course i confronted her and she started crying telling me non of the men has seen her body that its all in the chat, but what i read was different i asked her to tell me the truth that i wont be angry with her but she bluntly refused. one of the messages was an appointment by a married man to meet in a hotel the next day, when she came back in the evening i confronted that i followed her to portharcourt where she met with a man, she bluntly denied it oh gosh!!!

she asks me for money ooo and i do transfer to her!!!

am a soft guy and that was taking the best of me, soonest she started talking about wanting to leave her uncle's house and how i should try and find a place so she can elope with me to be truthful i was kinda happy never knowing that would be the beginning of my woes!!!
one day when she came over i pressured her and penetrated her but alas no blood i was like what the hell? she told me that the last time i tried penetrating her that when she went back she saw blood in her pants and that she was having body pain and all that and she started crying telling me i want to deny it. As a soft guy nah i said ok fine, that didnt matter to me anyway.

I later found a place and we eloped, that was when all her true colors started coming out.

She is very temperamental she gets mad in little things and abuses me, i cant hit her and am not the talking time, i just stand and watch with heavy heart, i go and dish food and don't close the pot well she gets all over me talking so many annoying things abusively, you know all those clumsy things we guys do at home she flares up at the sight of any of them, and when i try to shout back that's when she calms don't, we quarrel everyday because of the way she talks to me, she either starts crying or frowns till the next day.
and of course am now paying most of the fees(and am draining), she doesn't even care, she keeps telling me of things she needs and hasn't gotten. i thought she would stop talking to this rich men but nope! she kept in contact with them cus i had access to her phone once more, although she hasn't gone to see any but postponing them.

Her family is not a buoyant one, but she has rich relations, each time i advice her to keep in contact with these relations but she bluntly refuse, her cousin she was staying with is good man, he can and sometimes assists her as she told me. her father can assist her too. but she just wants to be a big girl and do things herself, she told me that "if she doesn't find anyone to support her that she will enter street" i then cunningly asked her that if i run outta cash now that what would she do? she said she will look for another man and start satisfying to pay her fees but she would still be in a relationship with me.....now that got me mad and thinking fast on a way to lay her off!!!

But as usual am a soft guy i cant just throw her out, she would go right to the streets and i wouldn't want that. am really confused on a way to get rid of this girl as i see my doom with her!
Last night we had an argument as usual and i tried to make things up but she kept the malice till the morning, even while she prepared for school i kept apologizing for just no cause, but she refused then i left the house angrily and she started calling and texting, i refused and got mad at her i had to send her a bunch of her nude pix she sent to one man, she denied having anything with her she rather said the man was doubting if she was virgin and that he could confirm with the images..(oh christ what a lame excuse), i kept repeating she tell me the truth about herself but kept denying and flaring up that am denying dis-virgining her. right now i cant stand her cus i feel like i dont know her, despite the fact that i have told her to be open that i wont judge her but rather work out a solution for her. but she kept denying!!!

Am asking myself why am being punished by God with this girl, what have i done wrong?
ther is no peace in the house i think am gonna have a heart attack someday.

About her family, the parents are not in peace as said by her she has an abusive father that always beat her mum all the time (they had to see all that) that right now the mum has moved out and they are thinking of divorce, she said her dad is a drunk and all that.
she sends money to her mother but the poor woman doesn't know what she does!

PLS NLs, what do i do with this girl, i definitely dont want her to stay here anymore! no one knows what she is capable of not even her uncle she lived with before trust me on a first look you will never know.

Am thinking of reporting her to her uncle she is 22 and in year2. but chances are they might not believe me.

this na dictionary.

This guy, u are just too soft for my liking. if na me, I for don dump u since sef. Wait until the girl carry off all your properties to another man's house, then your eyes go clear. I hate soft guys!

I lost interest when after all the clear signs say na olosho u get as babe u still want elope with her abi u elope... anything u see there u go manage am rabbit man

turtuga:
Hello NLs.
Its a bright afternood isnt it? but not for me, i feel like screeming outta my shell. I met this girl 6months ago, she is related to my former landlord, i met her after i broke up with my ex, she seemed nice, when i mean nice i mean madly nice! she was so caring and acted like she was gonna die if i hurt hurt her. more to it, she told me about how her dad is really rich and how he covers for her fees and how she cant even ask a guy for anything as her dad provides for everything. i bet the whole thing and fell in love with her (am a hustling guy, i mean who wouldnt?), so we started dating, she told me she was a virgin and all that, i bought that too, and the fact she is a deeper life member made me fall for her the more. Not long we started having a hide and seek affair as she didnt want her cousin to find out, it was romantic oh yes. she would sneak into my room and we get to ruffle things up(but not have sex, as she was maintaining still a virgin), most times she would tell me to take her to a hotel when she couldnt sneak in (the hotel thing set some things off but i was to blinded) she normally plugs her phone with me so one day i tried and unlocked the phone and straight to her whatsapp message.

I must tell you guys i have never been so shocked in my life before, there she was in a romantic relationship with many married men and young guys too, the picture was when you need her just call her and pay! i went through every bit of messages in her whatsapp, to the extent one dude had to call her a LovePeddler, dog, local prostitute with dependable parents. i felt like freezing!!! of course i confronted her and she started crying telling me non of the men has seen her body that its all in the chat, but what i read was different i asked her to tell me the truth that i wont be angry with her but she bluntly refused. one of the messages was an appointment by a married man to meet in a hotel the next day, when she came back in the evening i confronted that i followed her to portharcourt where she met with a man, she bluntly denied it oh gosh!!!

she asks me for money ooo and i do transfer to her!!!

am a soft guy and that was taking the best of me, soonest she started talking about wanting to leave her uncle's house and how i should try and find a place so she can elope with me to be truthful i was kinda happy never knowing that would be the beginning of my woes!!!
one day when she came over i pressured her and penetrated her but alas no blood i was like what the hell? she told me that the last time i tried penetrating her that when she went back she saw blood in her pants and that she was having body pain and all that and she started crying telling me i want to deny it. As a soft guy nah i said ok fine, that didnt matter to me anyway.

I later found a place and we eloped, that was when all her true colors started coming out.

She is very temperamental she gets mad in little things and abuses me, i cant hit her and am not the talking time, i just stand and watch with heavy heart, i go and dish food and don't close the pot well she gets all over me talking so many annoying things abusively, you know all those clumsy things we guys do at home she flares up at the sight of any of them, and when i try to shout back that's when she calms don't, we quarrel everyday because of the way she talks to me, she either starts crying or frowns till the next day.
and of course am now paying most of the fees(and am draining), she doesn't even care, she keeps telling me of things she needs and hasn't gotten. i thought she would stop talking to this rich men but nope! she kept in contact with them cus i had access to her phone once more, although she hasn't gone to see any but postponing them.

Her family is not a buoyant one, but she has rich relations, each time i advice her to keep in contact with these relations but she bluntly refuse, her cousin she was staying with is good man, he can and sometimes assists her as she told me. her father can assist her too. but she just wants to be a big girl and do things herself, she told me that "if she doesn't find anyone to support her that she will enter street" i then cunningly asked her that if i run outta cash now that what would she do? she said she will look for another man and start satisfying to pay her fees but she would still be in a relationship with me.....now that got me mad and thinking fast on a way to lay her off!!!

But as usual am a soft guy i cant just throw her out, she would go right to the streets and i wouldn't want that. am really confused on a way to get rid of this girl as i see my doom with her!
Last night we had an argument as usual and i tried to make things up but she kept the malice till the morning, even while she prepared for school i kept apologizing for just no cause, but she refused then i left the house angrily and she started calling and texting, i refused and got mad at her i had to send her a bunch of her nude pix she sent to one man, she denied having anything with her she rather said the man was doubting if she was virgin and that he could confirm with the images..(oh christ what a lame excuse), i kept repeating she tell me the truth about herself but kept denying and flaring up that am denying dis-virgining her. right now i cant stand her cus i feel like i dont know her, despite the fact that i have told her to be open that i wont judge her but rather work out a solution for her. but she kept denying!!!

Am asking myself why am being punished by God with this girl, what have i done wrong?
ther is no peace in the house i think am gonna have a heart attack someday.

About her family, the parents are not in peace as said by her she has an abusive father that always beat her mum all the time (they had to see all that) that right now the mum has moved out and they are thinking of divorce, she said her dad is a drunk and all that.
she sends money to her mother but the poor woman doesn't know what she does!

PLS NLs, what do i do with this girl, i definitely dont want her to stay here anymore! no one knows what she is capable of not even her uncle she lived with before trust me on a first look you will never know.

Am thinking of reporting her to her uncle she is 22 and in year2. but chances are they might not believe me.

Punished by which God? Or is it not Satan that is rewarding you.

Team say NO!!!!!! to premarital sex, NOOOO!!!!!!!!!! to formication and premarital sex.

U love soft heart guys

My bros, u no nid all these epistle... imagine urself go on wen u knew she has loads of sugar-sugar! u sha neva marry, tell am make she waka comot frm ur place. (pls even if requires violence)

Earthquake1:
Somebody should summarize this for us.

the sumary is thus: a soft mugu is being manipulated by a brainy olosho. se fini.

OP is being weak, eloping with a public property?

If i call u goat u go sey i deh curse up poster well sori......ur problem big oo i swear nor b for village bros free d babe mke she move....reporting her to her uncle u b small pikin abi u don marry her bros oook jst b wise like ur father cos if ur mama do ur papa like dis u for nor dey d pcture.

turtuga:
Hello NLs.
Its a bright afternood isnt it? but not for me, i feel like screeming outta my shell. I met this girl 6months ago, she is related to my former landlord, i met her after i broke up with my ex, she seemed nice, when i mean nice i mean madly nice! she was so caring and acted like she was gonna die if i hurt hurt her. more to it, she told me about how her dad is really rich and how he covers for her fees and how she cant even ask a guy for anything as her dad provides for everything. i bet the whole thing and fell in love with her (am a hustling guy, i mean who wouldnt?), so we started dating, she told me she was a virgin and all that, i bought that too, and the fact she is a deeper life member made me fall for her the more. Not long we started having a hide and seek affair as she didnt want her cousin to find out, it was romantic oh yes. she would sneak into my room and we get to ruffle things up(but not have sex, as she was maintaining still a virgin), most times she would tell me to take her to a hotel when she couldnt sneak in (the hotel thing set some things off but i was to blinded) she normally plugs her phone with me so one day i tried and unlocked the phone and straight to her whatsapp message.

I must tell you guys i have never been so shocked in my life before, there she was in a romantic relationship with many married men and young guys too, the picture was when you need her just call her and pay! i went through every bit of messages in her whatsapp, to the extent one dude had to call her a LovePeddler, dog, local prostitute with dependable parents. i felt like freezing!!! of course i confronted her and she started crying telling me non of the men has seen her body that its all in the chat, but what i read was different i asked her to tell me the truth that i wont be angry with her but she bluntly refused. one of the messages was an appointment by a married man to meet in a hotel the next day, when she came back in the evening i confronted that i followed her to portharcourt where she met with a man, she bluntly denied it oh gosh!!!

she asks me for money ooo and i do transfer to her!!!

am a soft guy and that was taking the best of me, soonest she started talking about wanting to leave her uncle's house and how i should try and find a place so she can elope with me to be truthful i was kinda happy never knowing that would be the beginning of my woes!!!
one day when she came over i pressured her and penetrated her but alas no blood i was like what the hell? she told me that the last time i tried penetrating her that when she went back she saw blood in her pants and that she was having body pain and all that and she started crying telling me i want to deny it. As a soft guy nah i said ok fine, that didnt matter to me anyway.

I later found a place and we eloped, that was when all her true colors started coming out.

She is very temperamental she gets mad in little things and abuses me, i cant hit her and am not the talking time, i just stand and watch with heavy heart, i go and dish food and don't close the pot well she gets all over me talking so many annoying things abusively, you know all those clumsy things we guys do at home she flares up at the sight of any of them, and when i try to shout back that's when she calms don't, we quarrel everyday because of the way she talks to me, she either starts crying or frowns till the next day.
and of course am now paying most of the fees(and am draining), she doesn't even care, she keeps telling me of things she needs and hasn't gotten. i thought she would stop talking to this rich men but nope! she kept in contact with them cus i had access to her phone once more, although she hasn't gone to see any but postponing them.

Her family is not a buoyant one, but she has rich relations, each time i advice her to keep in contact with these relations but she bluntly refuse, her cousin she was staying with is good man, he can and sometimes assists her as she told me. her father can assist her too. but she just wants to be a big girl and do things herself, she told me that "if she doesn't find anyone to support her that she will enter street" i then cunningly asked her that if i run outta cash now that what would she do? she said she will look for another man and start satisfying to pay her fees but she would still be in a relationship with me.....now that got me mad and thinking fast on a way to lay her off!!!

But as usual am a soft guy i cant just throw her out, she would go right to the streets and i wouldn't want that. am really confused on a way to get rid of this girl as i see my doom with her!
Last night we had an argument as usual and i tried to make things up but she kept the malice till the morning, even while she prepared for school i kept apologizing for just no cause, but she refused then i left the house angrily and she started calling and texting, i refused and got mad at her i had to send her a bunch of her nude pix she sent to one man, she denied having anything with her she rather said the man was doubting if she was virgin and that he could confirm with the images..(oh christ what a lame excuse), i kept repeating she tell me the truth about herself but kept denying and flaring up that am denying dis-virgining her. right now i cant stand her cus i feel like i dont know her, despite the fact that i have told her to be open that i wont judge her but rather work out a solution for her. but she kept denying!!!

Am asking myself why am being punished by God with this girl, what have i done wrong?
ther is no peace in the house i think am gonna have a heart attack someday.

About her family, the parents are not in peace as said by her she has an abusive father that always beat her mum all the time (they had to see all that) that right now the mum has moved out and they are thinking of divorce, she said her dad is a drunk and all that.
she sends money to her mother but the poor woman doesn't know what she does!

PLS NLs, what do i do with this girl, i definitely dont want her to stay here anymore! no one knows what she is capable of not even her uncle she lived with before trust me on a first look you will never know.

Am thinking of reporting her to her uncle she is 22 and in year2. but chances are they might not believe me.

Soft guy, seems this soft work is killing you softly

Continue being the soft guy that u are. It will eventually pay but it will take time. But For now I suggest u continue with ur softness Bro.
this a typical example of love is blind.

bros are u a fool? infact why am i asking, bros u are a fool

@poster, bia dn't forget to come and update us later biko

I deserve all the cursing oooo....
So as the update went, she came home on thursday i told her to leave my house, i gave her till monday to pack her things, immediately she heard leave my house she broke down, she cried confessed, begged, she is still crying and begging till today....
Her eyes where all swollen, she was begging that she doesnt know where to go....

I reminded her that i once told her that am slow to anger but qhen my mind is made up its sealed...

That faithful night was war oooo...she tore my clothe while begging.

Well i traveled and when am back on monday she should be gone....

Mtcheew

turtuga:
I deserve all the cursing oooo....
So as the update went, she came home on thursday i told her to leave my house, i gave her till monday to pack her things, immediately she heard leave my house she broke down, she cried confessed, begged, she is still crying and begging till today....
Her eyes where all swollen, she was begging that she doesnt know where to go....

I reminded her that i once told her that am slow to anger but qhen my mind is made up its sealed...

That faithful night was war oooo...she tore my clothe while begging.

Well i traveled and when am back on monday she should be gone....

U still leave her inside your house and travel. u dey play with fire, what if she elope with all your valuables before you return. Hope u no the house of all her suger dds cos u re about to run marathon.

turtuga:
I deserve all the cursing oooo....
So as the update went, she came home on thursday i told her to leave my house, i gave her till monday to pack her things, immediately she heard leave my house she broke down, she cried confessed, begged, she is still crying and begging till today....
Her eyes where all swollen, she was begging that she doesnt know where to go....

I reminded her that i once told her that am slow to anger but qhen my mind is made up its sealed...

That faithful night was war oooo...she tore my clothe while begging.

Well i traveled and when am back on monday she should be gone....

Guy make sure you complete the mission, make that cry no make u forgive her. Tell any of ur friends your plan so dem go fit ginger u to pursue d bitch.

This guy can soft for Africa. Soft guy, akpruka babe. Lolz

guy stop deceiving yourself, with all these tangible evidence that you have, u are still acting like a puppet, pls kindly grow up Biko. drive her comot

I'm weak.. WTF did I just read?

Please brother, I beg you in the name of amadioha, leave that girl and run.. I mean, run for your life.. I don talk my own.

turtuga:
damn cant believe i was this stupid!!!
she leaving my house ASAP!!!

am the dumpiest guy of the year....

Yes, the dumpiest guy of the century