asuustrike2009:

Which means you're not ready to enter his shoes because it's painful. Yes we have to learn a story from this

What is in his shoes that I will be ready to enter. Nothing here is about his shoes but proper handling of situations.

StudyCrestLtd:

What is in his shoes that I will be ready to enter. Nothing here is about his shoes but proper handling of situations.

Kk

jantavanta:
Isn't there a way of building/acquiring a house while abroad without going through relatives or family members?

There actually is a way. This is what Artizanni is all about. What we do is this. You sign up with us, we then tell you to open a Trust account with FBN trustees (a subsidiary of First Bank) or Meristem Diaspora trustees.

Once you open these accounts and fund them , you tell us what you want exactly (buy land, design a building, help you build, manage it for you etc) we then come up with a Milestone, and you pay for every milestone that we do, once we finish each milestone, the Trustee (FBN or Meristem ) confirms what we have done, we also send you evidence etc. Then you pay for the next milestone, until we finish the project. We cover all of Nigeria and will open a branch in Ghana next year. You can check Instagram for our current projects and twitter too. Just search for the word "Artizanni ".

You may also reach us on whatsapp via +2348039204361

Kind Regards.

Am telling you.They couldn't even consider the fact that he worked so hard for those money.

Smellymouth:
Nor be only who fly for night be winch..

So horrible after working so hard only for his parents to betray that trust, it's heartbreaking.

sinceraconcept:
I pray your wishes fall back to you in multiple folds wicked man. I was schooling you on how not to be vindictive so that you won't end up killing someone. who hasn't got hurt by parents in a way? but only the wise ones leave everything to God especially when it comes to your parents.

i said that because you are acting as if the parents did the right thing to use their son money just like dat

HeWrites:
An Nigerian Guy based in Italy, came back to the country, and locked up his parents, after he found out that the money he sent to them to build a house for him, could not be accounted for.

Facebook user, Nnamdi shared the story as thus;
“One of us just locked his parents up in police cell. His 65 year old father and 56 year old mother slept in police cell last night with an instruction that anyone who comes close to bail them should be locked up too..

I know what the parents did are wrong but I have been pleading with him since last week not to toe this path. There are many ways to solve issues like this.

If your parents do same to you, would you have done exactly what he did or you would have handled it differently? Hear him :
“Ben, I’m sorry I have to do what I did. You won’t understand how painful it is to be hustling here only to find out that my stupid and greedy parents were just wasting all my efforts on frivolities.

Like you already know, I have been in Italy doing all kinds of menial jobs just to put food on my table and make some savings. I have been here for six good years but I have never visited Nigeria.
I have been sending some cash to my parents to help me buy two plots of land and start building on it for all of us because we have suffered enough as a family, paying rent always.

Ben do you know that my foolish parents only bought one plot of land and nothing has been going on there apart from the initial foundation.? In fact they started the foundation recently when they knew I will be visiting Nigeria.

They have been sending me fake pictures of my house. Bro I’m mad. I don’t know what they used all the money for. They don’t know how I managed to make these savings. Omg I just wasted six years in Italy without anything to show for it. If I can’t trust my own parents, who then can I trust?

I will spend the remaining money I have with me on police to make sure they remained there until I go back to start a new hustle. Please Ben if you have a trusted lady in her late thirties who can build with me, kindly hook me up to her. I can’t trust these foolish parents of mine again.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/11/guy-jails-parents-after-finding-out.html

Hello I think there's a better way to resolve this issue can you send me your contact so we can talk or you'd rather I give you mine?

ayourbamie:
Wrong move, instead of jailing them why not just cut off all ties u have with them and let go.

Karma is a byytch

Shut the fvck up dumbo! You reek of wickedness and hypocrisy.

He should let go after working his ass off for money and the money got swindled by his fvckin parents?

Don't dare speak of Karma! Don't!

It is well....jailing them wont bring the money out. Guy should have found a way to get as much as he could returned to him and sell the one plot they bought to recoup some of his loss. Afterwards, delete the entire family from your life and japa. It is really well.

shugasofttouch:
Hello I think there's a better way to resolve this issue can you send me your contact so we can talk or you'd rather I give you mine?

You resurrected a year 2017 thread and still think this issue has not been resolved? Haba