Hey,

Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy whom you know does not love you the way that you love him, however he can't stand you being with another person?
Relationships are soooooooo complicated, sometimes it makes you wish that you were an island, all by yourself, without having this nagging pain in your heart.
What do you guys think?

in a relationship, some1 would surely love than the other but it doesn't matter as long as they're both determined. don't think it's possible to love equally, mayb am wrong

He might love u bt juz pretendin he does not.but if u knw 4 sure that he doesnt,why waste your time?girlfriend free yourself from all the heartbreaks

as yummy said."don't think it's possible for persons to love equally". i think he's wrong saying that. it's very possible for that to happen

If it is me , l don't think l would waste my time one bit when there are plenty guys out there that are dying to love me so why would l waste my precious time with an idiot who doesn't love me or care less about me in this modern era 2006.

elvin:

as yummy said."don't think it's possible for persons to love equally". i think he's wrong saying that. it's very possible for that to happen

Please explain how you can love equally. It seems you're seeing it as a graph, or would you go inside your girl to measure it? i don't really get. expain better

all is fair in luv n war

It's not so easy and funny for the one you love not to love you as much but I guess it's the price you've got to pay for loving him/her.

U need to do serious research and be sure of yourself,because i see no reason why he will not let you find your soulmate ,when is not ready to occupy that space in your heart

it is possible he does love you, but his ego keeps burning him down. tell me why stick with a girl you can't stand? please be real. it's no move. believe it or not he has a spot for you

Its no fun loving smone who doesn't love you back. Love isn't supposed to be one-sided. I'd rather give my love to some one who deserves it n that definitely will be smone who loves me back.

whtz da point in being in a relationship wit some1 who dsnt luv u as much as u luv him
deres no point!!!!

Dumb move for a guy,

A girls gotta want you a whole lot more than you want her. or you are set for heartbreak.

yeah i know wat you are talkin about,its because some guys can,t figure out wat they want,but at the end of the day he might really like u,but does not want u to know its a bad thing to show your love to a guy and at the end of the day the guy does not show the love back it hurts so much.
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maybe the guy get pay and she no wan miss the pay nko?

Osereka! u don come here again! which kin pay? abi na u dey giv d pay? i dey bau 4 u o.

at times we think even if the person doesn't love initially as times goes on it will develop but that's wrong. How can a guy pretend to me who he loves me? does he want to chest me away or what? As for me, the movement i found out there is no love the way i love him, I'll definitely walk out. for me, is like i never been in a good relationship is either i love the person doesn't love me the i do or the person love me and i don't love him.

@gashabar
oh oh, sounds to me like u got one of them!

WHY ARE U EVEN WITH SOMEONE WHOM U KNOW DOESNT LOVE U? {judging from ur title}

anyhow, na love, i know the feeling, u just have to tell him to quit playing games, either he wants u, in which case he needs to stop with the games and start acting like it

or he doesnt want u, and u both call it off

all this beingh in the middle not sure of where u stand - winds me the devil up!!

on the other hand, i hope ur not one of those girls tghat seek constant attention and assurance that he loves u. maybe he doesnt have to say it all the time as long as he acts it,

the one you love doesnt love you

the one you dont love loves you.

GREATEST PARADOX OF ALL TIME.

@topic
never been, i personally think a guy who cannot love me the way i want to be loved, is a complete waste of time and resources, if such guy does not want to let me go then he is a big time JOKER.

@Topic!
scratches head Sex must be great!

its so good its so good, loving somebody and somebody loves you back, ****song by****

@ post
for d fact dat he cant stand you been with anoda guy means he is jealous, n a little bit of jealousy is healthy cos it shows dat he cares. So girly hang on he cares 4 u but sometimes wen we show u how much we care, theres a tendency 4 u to take advantage mayb dats y he is holding back to keep u in check

But 2 b in relationship that you know the person does not love u like u love him/her, its beta u bale out, cos though u want 2 b with dat person u'll neva be happy cos u can tell dat d person is not giving it a 100%, n whether u like it or not d relationship is doomed to fail. So it is beta 2 break it up now n nurse ur heart back 2 health in good time cos ur will still be broken even wen ur r with him/her.

And again, sometimes the person loves u the way he or she can and mayb u just want more than the person can give

being jealous does not mean he cares, i disagree with that , we have lots of deceitful men that derive lots of fun in ruining ladies life. don't be deceived by any one . i know it's not easy when you're in love but sis, take a bold step, move on with your life and fashy him.

Am speaking from an experience but why is it so? please i need answer.

his being jealous does NOT mean he cares!! men are notoriously territorial. more like he sees you as his property or somthing. i know someone whose boyfriend didnt 'send' her, but wuld immediately turn on the loving act once anoda male got interested. she wuld run back to him, thinkin he'd changed, only to find herself back to square one once the other guy had backed off.

As for me, i'd kick him to the curb-who wants a constantly bleeding heart? nothing worse than loving sm1 who doesnt really send you. Recipe for disaster!!

@Poster

Yes I was in that situation and woke up really quickly.
I moved on and got blessed.

Love yaself first sister, then you can truly be loved.

There is a saying that love can never be 50% 50% that’s why whenever you’re in a relationship or you love someone from the depth of your heart, don’t expect that person to love you the same way you love him or her.

What makes a relationship going is level of understand and trust between both parties.

lady it did happen even as we talk now i called him he didnt pick up [img][/img]

it is either someone loves you or doesnt, nothing like love u as much.