When I say suddenly, I mean out of nowhere, just like that, without any reason or explanations everything you've ever felt is gone. I was madly in love with this girl for a year and nine months.



In fact I was planning to propose to her on our second year anniversary when all of a sudden I woke up and all my feelings for her was gone. She didn't do or say anything wrong.

Nothing about her changed. Nothing about me changed. We didn't even have an argument. One minute we were talking about going on a vacation together and the next minute I stop picking her calls and started avoiding her.

It's been four months now since my feelings for her changed and I still can't make sense of it. She wants answers, she wants to know what she did wrong, why I all of a sudden ended things with her.

She thinks I met someone else but I didn't. I just stopped loving her and didn't want her anymore.

What happened to me? How can I find my way back to her? http://lindaikeji..ie/2013/04/dear-lib-readers-can-you-suddenly-stop.html?m=1

i can summarise all what you've just said in one word "Destiny". You don't need to struggle to love someone. You love with ease. I was once in it. I woke one morning and i told my ex baby gal that let's quit. Just like that!

Yes, if she suddenly f*cks up...

To let go isn’t to forget, not to
think about, or ignore. It
doesn’t leave feelings of anger,
jealousy, or
regret. Letting go isn’t winning,
and it isn’t losing. It’s not about pride, and it’s not about how
you appear, and it’s not
obsessing or dwelling on the
past. Letting go isn’t blocking
memories or thinking sad
thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s
not giving in or giving up.
Letting go isn’t about loss and
it’s not defeat. To let go is to
cherish memories, and
overcome and move on. It’s having an open mind and
confidence in the future. Letting
go is accepting. It’s learning and
experiencing and growing. To
let go is to be thankful for the
experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made
you grow. It’s about all that you
have, all that you had, and all
that you will soon again. Letting
go is having the courage to
accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is
growing up. It’s realizing that
the heart can sometimes be the
most potent remedy. To let go is
to open a door, and to clear a
path, and to set you free.......but urs is gat sometin dark in it

huh? op?

no something must be wrong somewhere

Are you lesbic?
How can you propose to her when you`re a Female?
Just wondering

maybe u are tired of the punnany and need a fresh one

ZACHIE: Are you lesbic?
How can you propose to her when you`re a Female?
Just wondering

ARE YOU OKAY AT ALL

You need to speck to her,she needs some closure to move on,it's can be very hurtful not knowing what went wrong. I advise you see her and explain,who's knows maybe she can help you understand WHY.

Do not force it as well,never love out of pity. Just let her know politely she's done nothing wrong.

I hope you find love again.

once you can suddenly love,u can suddenly stop loving.but there must be a reason 4 that.

Yes.
After all love does not exist. In practical terms, someone must be loved for something

Yes!!!! Are u a lesbian?

it does just stop like that its a gradual proccess

Nah she's nt a lesbian,she got d story 4rm linda Ikejis blog,so move on or ansa d question

It is possible. Love can grow cold and die. Self-experience. God is love, He doesn't die nor grow cold.

@Op, are u a lesbian? Ur profile says u're female while u're here saying u proposed 2 a female.
BTW, just thank God that ur feelings for her disappeared if not, na 14 years for prison oo.

Eewo o. Just like that? And it's been four months? I think she is better off without you cos people like you are liable to turn a couple's dance into a singleton after 12yrs of marriage without any explanation. Yeah, explain the NOthing to her atleast.

Is very likely her rival has jarssed u up

yes,its possible maybe d gal must ve done somtin wrong wivout ur knowledge n because of dat u feel uncomfortable within u.

Mobsync: @Op, are u a lesbian? Ur profile says u're female while u're here saying u proposed 2 a female.
BTW, just thank God that ur feelings for her disappeared if not, na 14 years for prison oo.

didn't u c my post?,I said d op got it 4rm linda Ikejis blog,it didn't happen 2 her

My advice for your ex-babe:




Sh.it happens.. Get over it!

[size=15pt]I COULD HAVE STOP LOVING MY WIFE LONG TIME AGO BUT HAD TO LEARN NEW TRICKS TO GET OVER IT WHEN SHE MAKES ME F$$@#%%# ANGRY . WE HAVE 2 KIDS .[/size]

1st ola:





ARE YOU OKAY AT ALL

You say?

@op... Please its only fair on the original writer that you include the source of your post.

http://lindaikeji..ie/2013/04/dear-lib-readers-can-you-suddenly-stop.html?m=1

Yeah its possible to stop loving somebody just like that

sure i can do it.

To love is a gradual process but when you suddenly love, you suddenly not love again. When there's no reason to love, there's no reason to hate. Maybe you never loved her..