if yes/no, why please?

your contributions would mostly be appreciated. thank you

BRB

No. It's not ideal it's better for a guy you marry a girl younger. Like 5 years diff. But for me I prefer an older girl. Well maybe because when I first started to date it was an older girl. Since then I have never dated a girl younger than I am

Why NOT?
AGE IS JUST NUMBERS.
Maturity is the "koko".

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ibkkk:
Why NOT?
AGE IS JUST NUMBERS.
Maturity is the "koko".

fertility nko

mikolo80:
fertility nko

Part of it too.

ibkkk:


Part of it too.

is the only part that 'matters'

mikolo80:
is the only part that 'matters'

Nope.
Not just FERTILITY,my Dear... There's more to it...

Companionship nkor?

yes it is....if u understand urselves and trust one another why not.....mind u, understanding matter gan ni ooo

It depends on how old you are

For instance if you are 50 years old and you have no kids yet, it would not be a good idea to marry also marry a 50 year old lady

ibkkk:


Nope.
Not just FERTILITY,my Dear... There's more to it...

Companionship nkor?

good companion is good old or young
bad is bad
but women's attractiveness reduces with age

My fiance is younger than me, and so what?
I still look young even though av clocked 30.
We have a smooth relationship, little ups and downs here and there but at the end, we come up stronger. And one hardly know cos hes way taller than me.

All that matters is understanding and both couples should have a mind of their own. Let no third party dictates. Then both are good to go.
Interference here and there always spoils the pudding.

Slayer2:
No. It's not ideal it's better for a guy you marry a girl younger. Like 5 years diff. But for me I prefer an older girl. Well maybe because when I first started to date it was an older girl. Since then I have never dated a girl younger than I am

even me bro.. I do older mature ladies. I can't even imagine myself running after those small girls or my age mate.. God forbid. My age mate i tried some years back suffered ehn.. I can't even share my emotions with her. She looks like a friend. Till today whenever she says anything i'm always like, 'i actually didn't date you, we were just friends.' she hates that word like.. But wetin concern guyman.

alexialin:
My fiance is younger than me, and so what?
I still look young even though av clocked 30.
We have a smooth relationship, little ups and downs here and there but at the end, we come up stronger. And one hardly know cos hes way taller than me.

All that matters is understanding and both couples should have a mind of their own. Let no third party dictates. Then both are good to go.
Interference here and there always spoils the pudding.

you are above 30 and you are still not married? I can see your village people are so hardworking.

paybak:
you are above 30 and you are still not married? I sense village people at work.

Lol. Nigerians and superstitions.

It's not village people.

I chose career and becoming successful first before marriage. I love comfort , I love my marriage to be easy and smooth. Not unnecessary fiancncial struggles here and there . Such life is not for me.

Witches have no hand in it. Let's not blame them for everything.

And today am happy with my choices.

Not every woman is destined to marry that early.

paybak:
even me bro.. I do older mature ladies. I can't even imagine myself running after those small girls or my age mate.. God forbid. My age mate i tried some years back suffered ehn.. I can't even share my emotions with her. She looks like a friend. Till today whenever she says anything i'm always like, 'i actually didn't date you, we were just friends.' she hates that word like.. But wetin concern guyman.

Problem with dating older girls that are single is that they expect you to wife them asap and as a result if you don't marry them anytime soonest just know that the chances of them walking away 50-50 Infact it's even 90% but I don't want to over exaggerate it, especially if you are still an upcoming guy. Still hustling getting funds but if you do a younger girl most can probably still wait. You will have more control over them if you play your cards well. I don date both girls, older and younger and for sharing emotions, it's not all about age, it's about the maturity of the mind, there is this nairaland girl with username humeeh, she is young but really matured, very understanding, for her age she try pass most older girls. So the whole issue get as e be bro, it all boils down to what you want and dating and older girl too just know that most of them have had countless visit to their promise land by unknown men.

alexialin:






Lol. Nigerians and superstitions.

It's not village people.

I chose career and becoming successful first before marriage.

Witches have no hand in it.

And today am happy with my choices.

Not every woman is destined to marry that early.

don't worry, i understand. Be deceiving yourself. I love miss independents though buh some people hide under it's shadow when they are just a victim of ill-luck.

paybak:
don't worry, i understand. Be deceiving yourself. I love miss independents though buh some people hide under it's shadow when they are just a victim of ill-luck.

You are the one deluding yourself.

Expecting every woman to see marriage as a way out of poverty and freedom.

Well newsflash, am not in that category.

I know what I want in life and have gotten it.

So am wondering, why are u so pained about it?

Lol

Slayer2:



Problem with dating older girls that are single is that they expect you to wife them asap and as a result if you don't marry them anytime soonest just know that the chances of them walking away 50-50 Infact it's even 90% but I don't want to over exaggerate it, especially if you are still an upcoming guy. Still hustling getting funds but if you do a younger girl most can probably still wait. You will have more control over them if you play your cards well. I don date both girls, older and younger and for sharing emotions, it's not all about age, it's about the maturity of the mind, there is this nairaland girl with username humeeh, she is young but really matured, very understanding, for her age she try pass most older girls. So the whole issue get as e be bro, it all boils down to what you want and dating and older girl too just know that most of them have had countless visit to their promise land by unknown men.

to some extent though but bro, let's just say i have problem with ego.. I'm somehow proud i'd say so that's prolly why i can't share my emotions with younger girls. If i show any emotions while with any younger lady, she should know it's fake(d) seriously. And most older ladies have been with, truthfully don't have a loosed v like some younger ladies have bang(ered) even my present girl was a v when i met her years back and then at her age. I was so impressed and i'm still keeping her. And also, prolly most of the older girls have met just wanted to have a taste or whatever, but they don't usually take things personal with me, i mean marriaga ish. And i spend less.. They do the spending self. It's cool dating older ladies aswear, it enhance your maturity and helps you relationship wise.

paybak:
to some extent though but bro, let's just say i have problem with ego.. I'm somehow proud i'd say so that's prolly why i can't share my emotions with younger girls. If i show any emotions while with any younger lady, she should know it's fake(d) seriously. And most older ladies have been with, truthfully don't have a loosed v like some younger ladies have bang(ered) even my present girl was a v when i met her years back and then at her age. I was so impressed and i'm still keeping her. And also, prolly most of the older girls have met just wanted to have a taste or whatever, but they don't usually take things personal with me, i mean marriaga ish.....

Weally? Then i Need to relocate to your city asap

Slayer2:



Weally? Then i Need to relocate to your city asap

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alexialin:





You are the one deluding yourself.
Expecting every woman to see marriage as a way out of poverty and freedom.
Well newsflash, am not in that category.
I know what I want in life and have gotten it.
So am wondering, why are u so pained about it?
Lol

i ain't pained niggress. I mean why would i? When i ain't T-Pain.

paybak:
i ain't pained niggress. I mean why would i? When i ain't T-Pain.

Then what's the whinning all about?

Blaming innocent village people for what they know nothing about.

Do you think is everyone who marries later in life, village people dey worry?

Just focus on how to make your life better. Instead of saying what u have no idea about.

Life is not all about marrying early. There is so much in life to achieve and become somebody of substance & importance than what u can ever imagine. At the end, am not lonely and I have the best of both worlds.

Go figure.

alexialin:






Then what's the whinning all about?

Blaming innocent village people for what they know nothing about.

Do you think is everyone who marries later in life, village people dey worry?

Just focus on how to make your life better. Instead of saying what u have no idea about.

Life is not all about marrying early. There is so much in life to achieve and become somebody of substance & importance than what u can ever imagine. At the end, am not lonely and I have the best of both worlds.

Go figure.

my sister have got nothing on you paaa, nothing at all. As you can see on my siggy, i'm just having fun. For tonight. Everybody has their life to live, i'm not even done living mine and i still have alot to care for right here. So it's all fun mi sis. Nothing serious. You take care of yaself. Bye

Slayer2:



Problem with dating older girls that are single is that they expect you to wife them asap and as a result if you don't marry them anytime soonest just know that the chances of them walking away 50-50 Infact it's even 90% but I don't want to over exaggerate it, especially if you are still an upcoming guy. Still hustling getting funds but if you do a younger girl most can probably still wait. You will have more control over them if you play your cards well. I don date both girls, older and younger and for sharing emotions, it's not all about age, it's about the maturity of the mind, there is this nairaland girl with username humeeh, she is young but really matured, very understanding, for her age she try pass most older girls. So the whole issue get as e be bro, it all boils down to what you want and dating and older girl too just know that most of them have had countless visit to their promise land by unknown men.

Good morning

mikolo80:
good companion is good old or young
bad is bad
but women's attractiveness reduces with age

Possibly but may not be totally true- Some women are just naturally "endowed",they look more attractive as they age...Generally, I think some women are the cause (s) of their unattractiveness,they no more take good care of themselves once they get married,starts having kids,they start accumulating unnecessary fats,they'll even be comfortable with that.And many more.

humeeh:
Good morning

Morning my dear.. you just forgot about me

I will definitely marry a lady older than me.Amen!!! I love older lady base on their maturity and ability to control emotion.They know how to take care of a man, unlike these young girls that open their leg for any dick that comes there way.I am 25 but my wife must be the same age or preferably above my age.Basically, the age of Nigeria ladies is directly proportional to maturity(increase in age=increase in maturity)

Slayer2:



Problem with dating older girls that are single is that they expect you to wife them asap and as a result if you don't marry them anytime soonest just know that the chances of them walking away 50-50 Infact it's even 90% but I don't want to over exaggerate it, especially if you are still an upcoming guy. Still hustling getting funds but if you do a younger girl most can probably still wait. You will have more control over them if you play your cards well. I don date both girls, older and younger and for sharing emotions, it's not all about age, it's about the maturity of the mind, there is this nairaland girl with username humeeh, she is young but really matured, very understanding, for her age she try pass most older girls. So the whole issue get as e be bro, it all boils down to what you want and dating and older girl too just know that most of them have had countless visit to their promise land by unknown men.

can you marry someone older than you??

QueenSekxy:

can you marry someone older than you??

Yeah I can. But I don't know if I want to anymore.

Slayer2:

Yeah I can. But I don't know if I want to anymore.

why