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Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by SirMichael1: 3:04pm On Dec 03, 2017
When a partner is no longer in love with the other partner (I mean after a breakup probably due to cheating from a partner), he/she gets drifted aback and thoughts of how much they've invested in the relationship sets in. He/she feels angry, betrayed, devastated and used forgetting that they did those things while in love.

You start reading/hearing usual boring tales like "...after all I did for her! I gave her my heart, my money, bought her the latest IPhone, yada yada" tongue

While the lady feels used after having sex with him, the dude feels used for letting go of his pennies. (For those who read upsidedown, this means money and not penis)

Bottom line is, don't ever think your partner used you while you're no more in love with him/her, you did everything you did at the spur of the moment. I'm certain that when you think back to the early days and a smile is formed on your face, so why the regret??

Moreover, go into a relationship expecting nothing from your partner. Don't expect marriage at the end of the day, don't expect it to be some sort of poverty alleviation scheme and guys, no free sex whenever you want it. Just go build yourself that's all. You come out learned (that's if you come out at all), matured, and changed.


Have a nice day, stay pure and don't fornicate. It's Sunday baby!!!! grin

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Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by DaddyKross: 3:10pm On Dec 03, 2017
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Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 03, 2017
Alright.
Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by SirMichael1: 3:20pm On Dec 03, 2017
Mariinee:
Alright.

DaddyKross:
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I beg una. Y'all shouldn't do this to my thread na. Which morale killing jinx be this na angry
Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 03, 2017
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Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by Nobody: 3:26pm On Dec 03, 2017
SirMichael1:




I beg una. Y'all shouldn't do this to my thread na. Which morale killing jinx be this na angry
Ahnahn...shey you told us something and we agreed nih? You want us to disagree?
Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by olasaad(f): 3:28pm On Dec 03, 2017
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Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by basmur(m): 3:30pm On Dec 03, 2017
Mariinee:
Ahnahn...shey you told us something and we agreed nih? You want us to disagree?
grin
Mariinee:
Ahnahn...shey you told us something and we agreed nih? You want us to disagree?
Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by DaddyKross: 3:41pm On Dec 03, 2017
SirMichael1:




I beg una. Y'all shouldn't do this to my thread na. Which morale killing jinx be this na angry

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Re: Your Ex Shouldn't Be Blamed When The Relationship Goes South by MetroBaba1(m): 6:14pm On Dec 03, 2017
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